This Is Terrorism

[Content Note: Gun violence; death; white supremacy.]

This is terrorism. At least, that's what it would be called if it were a non-white and/or non-Christian man who committed a crime like this.

A 51-year-old man faces first-degree murder charges after shooting three men in an Olathe, Kan., bar Wednesday night, police say, reportedly telling two of them, local Garmin engineers from India, to "get out of my country."

One of the Indian men, Srinivas Kuchibhotla, 32, died in the hospital later from his wounds.

...Adam W. Purinton, 51, of Olathe, was also charged with two counts of attempted first-degree murder for shooting two other patrons at Austin’s Bar and Grill: Alok Madasani, 32, of Overland Park, Kan., and 24-year-old Ian Grillot, who tried to intervene.

...Witnesses told the Kansas City Star and The Washington Post that Purinton was thought to have been kicked out of the bar Wednesday night before the shooting took place. ...He reportedly came back into the bar and hurled racial slurs at the two Indian men, including comments that suggested he thought they were of Middle Eastern descent.
My deepest condolences to Srinivas Kuchibhotla's family, friends, and colleagues. My thoughts are with Alok Madasani and Ian Grillot as they recover from their injuries.

Not only is this shooting not being reported as terrorism (and hardly being reported at all, compared to acts of public violence committed by non-white and/or Muslim shooters), but: "Authorities would not classify the shooting as a hate crime, but federal law enforcement officials said Thursday they are investigating with local police to determine if it was 'bias motivated.'"

CAIR-Kansas Board Chair Moussa Elbayoumy called for both "state and federal hate crime charges to be brought against Purinton 'in order to send a strong message that violence targeting religious or ethnic minorities will not be tolerated.'"
Purinton, a Navy veteran, IT specialist, and former pilot and air traffic controller, was taken into custody about 70 miles away in Clinton, Mo., authorities told the Associated Press.
Taken into custody alive, after shooting three people. It's amazing how white killers are somehow always taken alive, but Black people selling loose cigarettes or pulled over for a traffic violation or running away from police out of fear so often end up dead.

If there is any meaningful public conversation about this vicious crime at all, Purinton will be described as a "crazy lone wolf" whose bootstraps made him do it. There will be no exploration of the white supremacist organizations and institutions with which he was affiliated; there will be no exploration of how the military has been tasked with killing Muslims for more than a decade; there will be no exploration of how this did not happen in a vacuum, but in a political climate of extreme hostility toward Muslims and immigrants led from the top-down by our sitting president.

This is ideologically-motivated terrorism, even if no one in power will say so.

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I Am Angry

[Content Note: Trans hatred; sexual assault.]

I have always loathed—and always will—the despicable attempts to justify discrimination against trans people under the auspices of "protecting" me.

The "trans predator" meme is wretched trash: It was wretched trash when Phyllis Schlafly was using it to tank the ERA before my ancient ass was ever born, and it is wretched trash now.

I am incandescently angry that people who support policy that will harm trans people, including children, make the indefensible and malicious argument that I need to be "protected" from trans women in bathrooms, or anywhere else.

It has always been a vile argument.

But there's something even more grotesque about trans protections being revoked, and such revocation being defended on the basis of protecting cis women from imaginary trans predators, when it comes from the administration of a president who is, by his own admission, a confessed serial sexual predator.

A man who has bragged about grabbing women by their genitals. A man who has boasted about peeking at naked pageant contestants in their dressing rooms.

Don't fucking tell me that you give a single shit about protecting cis women from sexual violence when you happily support a man who has assaulted women and gloated about it; whose ex-wife gave sworn testimony that he sexually assaulted her; who counts among his friends a convicted rapist; who sexualizes his own daughters; who threatened to sue the dozen-plus women who reported he sexually assaulted them.

Everything about the rollback of trans protections is bullshit—the aggressive void of basic decency, the "state's rights" dodge that ensures the people who are most vulnerable by virtue of where they live are least likely to get the protection they need and deserve, the arrogance of cis people asserting the "right" to audit trans lives under the auspices of "different opinions"—but the fact that, this time, the purveyor of this hostile filth is himself a sexual predator is utterly rage-inducing.

It is unfathomable that anyone would make such cynical, unsubstantiable, harmful arguments about "protecting" cis women in the first place. That they will make them when the signature on the rescindment paper belongs to a man who has himself harmed countless women is unforgivable.

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This. Is. Not. Normal.

This is a breathtaking abuse of power:

White House chief of staff Reince Priebus asked a top FBI official to dispute media reports that President Donald Trump's campaign advisers were frequently in touch with Russian intelligence agents during the election, a White House official said late Thursday.

The official said Priebus' request came after the FBI told the White House it believed a New York Times report last week describing those contacts was not accurate.

..."The White House is simply not permitted to pressure the FBI to make public statements about a pending investigation of the president and his advisers," said Michigan Rep. John Conyers, the top Democrat on the House Judiciary Committee.
So, Donald Trump's chief of staff reportedly tried to interfere with and FBI investigation. And what does Trump tweet this morning? Criticism of the FBI for leaks.


That, too, is a breathtaking abuse of power.

It also appears to be a confirmation that the leaked information about TrumpCo's contact with Russian intelligence is accurate. So there's that.

This is Day 36 of the Trump administration.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Socchan: "What's your band name (real or imaginary)? My current imaginary band name is the Cautionary Accidentals."

Deeky's and my imaginary band is called Bad Hombre and the Nasty Woman. Obvs.

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TV Corner: This Is Us

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I finally saw this week's episode of This Is Us last night, and omgggg that was a doozy. What a truly amazing show. I don't want to say anything about the most recent episode here, because I don't want to spoil it for anyone, so instead I'll just leave this tweet from Milo Ventimiglia (who plays Jack) here:


[Image in tweet is of Ventimiglia holding up a handwritten note reading: "Dear Sir/Madam: Please excuse _________ from work/school today, Wednesday. Last night was a very emotional episode of This Is Us. Thank you, Papa Pearson."]

Question: Do you think the show writers actually think Toby is a good boyfriend? Or do you think they are consciously writing a Nice GuyTM? Because whoa is he a textbook case of a Nice GuyTM, with all his manipulations of Kate.

Have at it in comments!

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"Well, that's a nice thing to be known for. That's really nice."

This is just a really terrific interview with Keanu Reeves, who is one of my favorites. And it does not contain any discussion at all of electoral politics or our shitbird of a president, which made it an even bigger pleasure to read!

So, if you like Keanu Reeves, or even if you don't but would like to read about something else besides Donald Trump, you may enjoy it, too!

Note: There are spoilers for John Wick in it, if you haven't seen it yet but intend to see it.

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What He Meant Was "Militarized"

As I mentioned earlier, this morning Donald Trump referred to his administration's deportatation enforcement as a "military operation."

"We're getting really bad dudes out of this country. And it's a military operation because what has been allowed to come into our country," he said.

Later in the day, Secretary of Homeland Security John Kelly said the complete opposite.


Naturally, during today's White House Press Briefing, Sean Spicer was asked about the contradiction, and his answer was typically absurd and mendacious:

REPORTER: The president said today that the deportations taking place under his watch are a military operation; Secretary Kelly said the military won't be involved in deportations. Did the president misspeak?

SPICER: Yeah, so, I'll take the latter first: The president was using that as an adjective—it's happening with precision. And in a manner in which it's being done very, very clearly. I think we made it clear in the past, and Secretary Kelly reiterated it, what kind of operation this was. But the president was clearly describing the manner in which this was being done. And so, just to be clear on his use of that phrase— And I think the way it's being done, by all accounts, is being done with very much, very, a high degree of precision and in a flawless manner in terms of making sure that the orders are carried out and it's done in a very streamlined and efficient manner.
Yikes.

So, this is bullshit. That's clearly (to use one of Spicer's favorite words) not at all what Trump was saying. He literally said "it's a military operation because what has been allowed to come into our country."

That is: The undocumented immigrants who have come to the U.S. are such dangerous people that it has obliged us to use military strength to remove them.

Which becomes even more clear in his statement immediately thereafter: "You see what's happening at the border. When you see gang violence that you've read about like never before, and all of the things, much of that is people who are here illegally. And they're rough, and they're tough, but they're not tough like our people, so we're getting them out."

Trump was clearly not talking about military precision. He was talking about heightened aggression, which is why his immigration memos included "the hiring of an additional 10,000 ICE agents [and the] expansion of detention facilities."

The word for which Trump was searching was militarized, which is exactly what it happening, irrespective of whether the actual U.S. military is employed in deportations.

And that is very troubling indeed.

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Stopppppppppp. Just Stop.

[Content Note: Bigotry; privilege; rape culture.]

The New York Times' Nicholas Kristof is 'splaining at us again: "Trump Voters Are Not the Enemy."

Tolerance is a liberal value; name-calling isn't. This raises knotty questions about tolerating intolerance, but is it really necessary to start with a blanket judgment writing off 46 percent of voters?

...Go ahead and denounce Trump's lies and bigotry. Stand firm against his disastrous policies. But please don't practice his trick of "otherizing" people into stick-figure caricatures, slurring vast groups as hopeless bigots. We're all complicated, and stereotypes are not helpful — including when they're of Trump supporters.
Deep breath.

Kristof is a wealthy, U.S.-born, non-Muslim, straight, white, cis man. The first way he is likely to be directly impacted by Trump's agenda is getting a tax break.

During the election, my next-door neighbors had a Trump sign in their front yard. When the news broke that Trump had openly admitted sexually assaulting women, that sign stayed up. Every time I walked out my front door, I was reminded that my neighbors were okay with a man doing to women something that was one of the worst things that has ever happened to me.

I was also reminded that they were okay with taking away my bodily autonomy. With harming marginalized people because of who they/we are. With supporting law enforcement policies that will get Black and brown and disabled people killed. With open hostility toward immigrants, about which I'm not supposed to care since my immigrant husband is, per their definitions, "one of the good ones."

I'm not "stereotyping" them. I'm judging them based on a choice they made and proudly advertised right on their front fucking lawn.

Where is the compromise with people who believe the things they do? We don't have a difference of opinion on the best way to achieve similar goals. We fundamentally disagree on who counts and who doesn't.

Not viewing them as my enemies is a luxury I simply don't have.

And it's because they view me as their enemy, and always have, even when I didn't regard them in kind.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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ZELLY BELLY!!!

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 35

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Here are some things I've read today:

[Content Note: Trans hatred] Sandhya Somashekhar, Emma Brown, and Moriah Balingit at the Washington Post: Trump Administration Rolls Back Protections for Transgender Students.
The Trump administration on Wednesday revoked federal guidelines specifying that transgender students have the right to use public school restrooms that match their gender identity, taking a stand on a contentious issue that has become the central battle over LGBT rights.

Officials with the federal Education and Justice departments notified the U.S. Supreme Court late Wednesday that the administration is ordering the nation's schools to disregard memos the Obama administration issued during the past two years regarding transgender student rights. Those memos said that prohibiting transgender students from using facilities that align with their gender identity violates federal anti-discrimination laws.

...Although it offered no clarity or direction to schools that have transgender students, the letter added that "schools must ensure that all students, including LGBT students, are able to learn and thrive in a safe environment."
Which is impossible if those students aren't even allowed to take a piss in a restroom that corresponds with their gender.

Fuck this entire administration and their vile hatefulness. I categorically refuse to pretend that this is anything but rank hatred. Of children.

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CPAC 2017 is already terrific:
I could go on, but you get the picture. Your general white supremacist, patriarchal, conservative nightmare gathering.

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Rachael Bade and John Bresnahan at Politico: GOP to Bury House Resolution on Trump Conflicts. "House Republicans next week plan to derail a Democratic resolution that would have forced disclosure of Donald Trump's potential ties with Russia and any possible business conflicts of interest, according to multiple House sources. Seeking to avoid a full House vote on the so-called 'resolution of inquiry'—a roll call that would be particularly embarrassing and divisive for the right—Republicans will send proposal by Rep. Jerry Nadler (D-N.Y.) to the House Judiciary Committee for a panel vote on Tuesday, two Democratic sources said. The GOP-controlled committee is expected to kill the resolution."

Utterly appalling. Meanwhile, cue the caterwauling about how Democrats "aren't doing anything," when they are trying desperately, but Republicans keep abusing their majority status to quash any and all attempts at accountability.

Howard Fischer at the Arizona Capitol Times: Arizona Senate Votes to Seize Assets of Those Who Plan, Participate in Protests That Turn Violent. "Claiming people are being paid to riot, Republican state senators voted Wednesday to give police new power to arrest anyone who is involved in a peaceful demonstration that may turn bad—even before anything actually happened. SB1142 expands the state's racketeering laws, now aimed at organized crime, to also include rioting. And it redefines what constitutes rioting to include actions that result in damage to the property of others. But the real heart of the legislation is what Democrats say is the guilt by association—and giving the government the right to criminally prosecute and seize the assets of everyone who planned a protest and everyone who participated. And what's worse, said Sen. Steve Farley, D-Tucson, is that the person who may have broken a window, triggering the claim there was a riot, might actually not be a member of the group but someone from the other side."

There's no way this will pass constitutional muster, so, should this pass, let us hope it gets to the courts before Trump manages to stack them with traitors and vandals.

[CN: Nativism] Betsy Woodruff at The Daily Beast: Undocumented Woman with a Brain Tumor Locked up by ICE. "Earlier this month, according to her lawyers, Sara's head started hurting. And on Feb. 10, at the detention center, she collapsed. The detention center staff had her hospitalized at Texas Health Huguley Hospital in Burleson, Texas. And there, according to her lawyers, doctors concluded she had a brain tumor. ...As of press time, she can't talk to her lawyers or family. Sara's lawyers...said they've also been blocked from speaking to her on the phone because of ICE rules limiting communication with hospitalized detainees—despite what they believe is a situation of medical urgency."

Despicable. And why was Sara detained? Because she's an asylum-seeker who missed a deadline to file her paperwork.

Meanwhile, at TPM, Esme Cribb reports: Trump Says His Admin's Deportation Enforcement Is a 'Military Operation'. "'All of a sudden for the first time we're getting gang members out, we're getting drug lords out, we're getting really bad dudes out of this country,' Trump said during a listening session with manufacturing CEOs. 'And it's a military operation because what has been allowed to come into our country.'" THIS IS NOT NORMAL.

Tara Palmeri at Politico: How Trump's Campaign Staffers Tried to Keep Him off Twitter. "The key to keeping Trump's Twitter habit under control, according to six former campaign officials, is to ensure that his personal media consumption includes a steady stream of praise. And when no such praise was to be found, staff would turn to friendly outlets to drum some up—and make sure it made its way to Trump's desk. ...One Trump associate said it's important to show Trump deference and offer him praise and respect, as that will lead him to more often listen. And if Trump becomes obsessed with a grudge, aides need to try and change the subject, friends say. Leaving him alone for several hours can prove damaging, because he consumes too much television and gripes to people outside the White House."

This is terrifying when one contemplates what Trump will be like in a crisis, when there is no time to soothe his ego to deliver advice on issues of far greater importance than his Twitter usage.

[CN: Islamophobia] Rumana Ahmed at The Atlantic: I Was a Muslim in Trump's White House. "I am a hijab-wearing Muslim woman—I was the only hijabi in the West Wing—and the Obama administration always made me feel welcome and included. Like most of my fellow American Muslims, I spent much of 2016 watching with consternation as Donald Trump vilified our community. Despite this—or because of it—I thought I should try to stay on the NSC staff during the Trump Administration, in order to give the new president and his aides, a more nuanced view of Islam, and of America's Muslim citizens. I lasted eight days."

Andy Towle at Towleroad: Voters Trust the Media and Courts over Trump by a Wide Margin. "American voters today give President Donald Trump a negative 38–55 percent job approval rating, his worst net score since he took office... 'President Donald Trump's popularity is sinking like a rock,' said Tim Malloy, assistant director of the Quinnipiac University Poll. 'He gets slammed on honesty, empathy, level headedness and the ability to unite. And two of his strong points, leadership and intelligence, are sinking to new lows.'" Also: A majority of people say Trump is an embarrassment. Correct.

Christopher Matthews at Axios: Mnuchin's Ambitious 3% Growth Plan. "Treasury Secretary Steve Mnuchin is hard at work on the Trump Administration's tax plan, which he says could come by August, according to interviews Thursday with the Wall Street Journal and CNBC. Mnuchin says that tax reform, along with other Trump policies, can move the U.S. back to its postwar average of sustained 3% growth. But given a slower-growing population and recent weak productivity growth, economists are skeptical that such a goal is realistic." I am no economist, but I am also skeptical, since I've spent the last 30 years of my life watching trickle-down economics not working!

Margaret Hartmann at New York Magazine: Secretary of State Tillerson Looks to Media to Get President's Attention. "Tillerson is looking for a way to signal to both staffers and foreign governments that the State Department's influence isn't waning. Politico reports that he's asked aides to draft a paper explaining ways that he can increase his access to reporters and boost his media presence." There's only room for ONE EGO in the Trump administration, sir! And it isn't yours.

Republican Senator Tom Cotton held a townhall event yesterday, and it didn't go so well. A woman whose husband is dying yelled at him and demanded to know what kind of health insurance he has (for which we pay), and he got owned by a 7-year-old. How Cotton and his colleagues can listen to people plead with them to do the right thing and just continue to shit all over us is beyond me. They have no empathy, and no decency.

[CN: Anti-Semitism; terrorism] The Anti-Defamation League received a bomb threat yesterday. And Trump stayed silent on one of the nation's most prominent Jewish organizations being terrorized.

[CN: Police misconduct; racism] Matt Hamilton, Kate Mather, Melissa Etehad, and Frank Shyong at the L.A. Times: 300 Protest in Anaheim After Videos Show Off-Duty LAPD Officer Firing Gun in Dispute with Teens. "Many of the protesters were young people who had seen the video on their social media feeds and wanted to do something. Jocelyne Gutierrez, 21, and her friend Karla Zuniga, 20, decided to join the protest at around 9 p.m. Gutierrez said she saw herself in the boy in the video. 'It could have been me, my friend or someone from my family,' she said." If you have not seen the video, you can view it here. Wilfred Chan at Fusion has more on the incident and the boy who was nearly shot.

It's appalling to me that anyone could look at that video and think, "Yeah, that's how I want cops to behave."

Police violence like this did not start with the election of Donald Trump, but it's only going to get even worse under his "law and order" regime.

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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Dump Trump with Integrity: Part Two

[Content Note: Disablism; appearance and name mockery.]

Earlier this month, I wrote a piece in which I explained that I don't care what Donald Trump looks like and that I'm not interested in armchair diagnoses of his mental health. Noting that Trump is himself an inveterate bully, I argued: "We must fight in a way that does not simply replicate the very harm we're resisting."

Still, there remains an endless stream of lookism, fat hatred, disablism, and name mockery up and down my social media timelines.

Almost exactly a year ago, before Trump had even won his party's nomination, I wrote a piece about why that's a problem, on several counts:

If you care about not stigmatizing people with mental illness, or not tacitly condoning looks-based bullying, or allowing people to go by whatever name they choose (which has particular importance to trans people), then you will be keen to find other ways to talk about Donald Trump.

Which is to say nothing of the fact that calling him crazy, or making fun of his appearance, or mocking his name, doesn't convey even a little how heinous his policies are and what a dangerous person he is.

That's why it's important to say what you mean. If you mean Donald Trump is indecent, say that. If you mean that Donald Trump is a bully, say that. If you mean that Donald Trump is a vainglorious poseur who incessantly disgorges rank bigotry masquerading as policy, then say that.
I then acknowledged that it can be useful—and feels good—to have some creative shorthand to convey just how terrible Trump is, so I provided 50 ways to say that Trump is the fucking worst that don't rely on appearance or name mockery, nor entrench stigma around mental illness.

Since here we are, a year later, and Trump is now the president (shudder) and the shitty language used to talk about him is more prevalent than ever, below are 50 more creative ways to say that Trump is the fucking worst. Please feel welcome to borrow them as needed!

Or, you know, come up with your own. If I can come up with a hundred of them, everyone else should be able to come up with one, and avoid the lazy shorthand of calling him fat, orange, and crazy.

Enjoy!

1. Donald Trump is a diabolical scourge.

2. Donald Trump is a tyrannical goblin with a chronic case of the mouthshits.

3. Donald Trump is a nightmarish creepazoid with infinite apathy for people who aren't just like him.

4. Donald Trump is Russian nesting doll of character defects.

5. Donald Trump is a mendacious gasser.

6. Donald Trump is the unrivaled czar of the deplorables.

7. Donald Trump is the vomitous conductor of a chorus whose only tune is white aggrievement.

8. Donald Trump is a contemptible hope thief.

9. Donald Trump is Putin's favorite dolly.

10. Donald Trump is a despotic blunderbuss.

11. Donald Trump is a vengeful carbuncle who cares about "law" and "order" only insofar as he can wield them to harm marginalized people.

12. Donald Trump is a despicable flim-flam man.

13. Donald Trump is a galactic empathy-free zone.

14. Donald Trump is an insalubrious slop-monger.

15. Donald Trump is a rumbumptious conspiracy cowboy.

16. Donald Trump is a human assembly line of uncapped crap juice.

17. Donald Trump is a white rage wrangler.

18. Donald Trump is a repugnant specimen of predatory putrescence.

19. Donald Trump is a leering clawbaw.

20. Donald Trump is a scummy gremlin whose cup runneth over with rancid hate-bisque.

21. Donald Trump is a vainglorious gold toilet aficionado who believes wealth is an acceptable substitute for decency.

22. Donald Trump is the anthropomorphized sound of stomping.

23. Donald Trump is a mince-talking numpty.

24. Donald Trump is a torpid stooge.

25. Donald Trump is an ambulatory receptacle of humanity's worst instincts.

26. Donald Trump is an inexhaustible ruiner of dreams.

27. Donald Trump is a prodigious connoisseur of white resentment.

28. Donald Trump is an unbridled cad.

29. Donald Trump is a galloping roaster.

30. Donald Trump is an intemperate grumbletonian who thrives on invented negativity.

31. Donald Trump is the living embodiment of a steam engine whose tank has been filled with bile.

32. Donald Trump is a bigotry curator.

33. Donald Trump is a vaccine against citizen indifference.

34. Donald Trump is a picnic basket filled with dogshit sandwiches.

35. Donald Trump is a white supremacy cyclone.

36. Donald Trump is the human equivalent of a dumpster view out your hotel window.

37. Donald Trump is a noisome jackass.

38. Donald Trump is King Crumblebun of the Wilted Glade.

39. Donald Trump is a mighty fart.

40. Donald Trump is a conniving bandit.

41. Donald Trump is a reprehensible lout whose only joy is cruelty.

42. Donald Trump is an empty shell with a fa├žade of intolerable pomposity.

43. Donald Trump is an enormous syringe of poison.

44. Donald Trump is a filthy soul-crusher.

45. Donald Trump is a self-propelling Rube Goldberg machine that always ends in catastrophe.

46. Donald Trump is a policy sewer.

47. Donald Trump is a towering edifice of malevolent rot.

48. Donald Trump is a stupendous shitlord.

49. Donald Trump is a skinbag filled with whiny entitlement and hideous malice.

50. Donald Trump is a breathing portrait of toxic masculinity.

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Freedom Is

Paul Ryan tweeted this on Tuesday:


My brief response:

This year at my workplace, I tried to opt-in to "extra" insurance that most of my co-workers don't use or buy. A special add-on option for "long-term disability insurance". The idea is that I opt-in for this extra special insurance and I pay the insurance company a little with each paycheck I earn. If anything happens to me and I have to go out on long-term disability leave, the insurance company sends me money; if I'm lucky and don't ever have an accident that sends me out on leave, then all the money I paid to the insurance company is their profit and my loss.

I am, as my economics professor in college described insurance, making a bet that I hope to lose. I'm putting $20 on red for the big pot and praying I don't win because "winning" here means a catastrophic health catastrophe. The money I'd "win" in that event would be a welcome safety net, but I wouldn't be celebrating with champagne truffles.

So I tried to do the Responsible Consumer thing like Paul Ryan wants and exercise my freedom to buy what I wanted to fit what I needed. And you know what happened? I was rejected by the insurance company for my preexisting condition of Scoliosis. They capitalized it in the rejection letter: capital-s Scoliosis. I have a condition that makes it slightly more likely I will need long-term disability insurance, so I can't buy long-term disability insurance because I might use it.

I don't feel very free. I feel hurt and angry and scared and upset and rejected.

My first scoliosis surgery was performed before I was legally old enough to enter the workforce. There has never been a time in which I could have opted into this "long-term disability insurance" early, pre-condition, and kept it through the development of said condition. Not that I suppose this matters, since I'm pretty sure Paul Ryan supports the right of insurance companies to drop patients once they become expensive. That's an odd kind of freedom.

The reality is that I'm not allowed to "buy what I want to fit what I need", and Paul Ryan isn't making steps to enable me to do so. Even if I agree with his definition of freedom—which, for the record, I don't—I'm not free in his vision for America. Not even close.

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This Is Very Concerning

Last night, passengers on a domestic flight from San Francisco to New York disembarked, only to be greeted by customs agents demanding to see their "documents."


Anne Garrett, who is a video editor for Vice, further commented: "They had to explain what they meant by documents bc everyone was so confused."

This is not normal.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Odalis Aiza: "What is your favorite song, and why?"

It's really hard to pick just one song, but, right now, Queen's "Don't Stop Me Now" is stuck in my head, so I'll go with that. It is a perfect song.

It has also been deemed by SCIENCE! to be "the most feel-good song of all time," and Maude knows I can use some feeling good these days. Which is probably why it's constantly stuck in my head!

Thank you, Freddie Mercury! You are keeping me going!

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Tweet of the Day

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Fat Fashion

This is your semi-regular thread in which fat women can share pix, make recommendations for clothes they love, ask questions of other fat women about where to locate certain plus-size items, share info about sales, talk about what jeans cut at what retailer best fits their body shapes, discuss how to accessorize neutral colored suits, share stories of going bare-armed for the first time, brag about a cool fashion moment, whatever.

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My new favorite shirt, care of Torrid:

image of me standing in a mirror, wearing a Schoolhouse Rock! t-shirt

This isn't an overtly political shirt, but trust that I am wearing it because there are a lot of damn people in this country—including and especially the president—who could use a Schoolhouse Rock! refresher course on how shit works.

Anyway! As always, all subjects related to fat fashion are on topic, but if you want a topic for discussion: Got a favorite political clothing item?

Have at it in comments! Please remember to make fat women of all sizes, especially women who find themselves regularly sizing out of standard plus-size lines, welcome in this conversation, and pass no judgment on fat women who want to and/or feel obliged, for any reason, to conform to beauty standards. And please make sure if you're soliciting advice, you make it clear you're seeking suggestions—and please be considerate not to offer unsolicited advice. Sometimes people just need to complain and want solidarity, not solutions.

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The Wednesday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by the color blue.

Recommended Reading:

Ijeoma: [Content Note: Harassment; dehumanization] When a Woman Deletes a Man's Comment Online

Kath: [CN: Fat hatred] You Are Not Subtle with Your Hate

Laura: Transition, Tattoos, and Body Ownership

Liv: [CN: Sexual violence; blinking gif at link] Stop Applauding a Rapist for Admitting He Raped Someone

Libby: Facebook Sponsors CPAC, Which Sucks and Is Bad

Keith: [CN: Racism; bullying] Brazilian Soccer Player Targeted with Racist Taunts for Entire Game, Brought to Tears

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Quote of the Day

[Content Note: Colonialism; state violence.]

"The camps are not Standing Rock. The rise of the encampments was a profoundly important moment in the history of the Standing Rock Sioux, and for all of us, but that moment is not a place, or a people. That place, and those people, will endure, long after the Dakota Access Pipeline, Energy Transfer Partners, and Donald Trump have turned to dust. The Standing Rock Sioux have many battles ahead, and they are not done advocating for themselves or their people. Their last stand, and ours, has yet to come. Our people wove dreamcatchers out of razor wire in Standing Rock. They will not be undone today."—Kelly Hayes, in her terrific piece on Standing Rock, which is being raided this afternoon.

I wanted to highlight Kelly's beautiful words about survival, because it is important to recognize the magnitude of this resilient resistance in response to relentless state violence.

That said, I don't want to minimize what's happening at Standing Rock today, which is both cruel and unnecessary. A gross intersection of corporatism and colonialism, as police forcibly remove native people from their land once more.

The resistance is admirable; what obliges it is contemptible. No one would choose being admired for standing up to oppressors over not having oppressors in the first place.

I take up space in solidarity with the Standing Rock Sioux.

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