Quote of the Day

[Content Note: Sexual abuse; rape apologia.]
Janet and I want to affirm our support for the Duggar family. Josh's actions when he was an underage teen are as he described them himself, 'inexcusable,' but that doesn't mean 'unforgivable.' He and his family dealt with it and were honest and open about it with the victims and the authorities. No purpose whatsoever is served by those who are now trying to discredit Josh or his family by sensationalizing the story.

Good people make mistakes and do regrettable and even disgusting things. The reason that the law protects disclosure of many actions on the part of a minor is that the society has traditionally understood something that today's blood-thirsty media does not understand—that being a minor means that one's judgement is not mature. No one needs to defend Josh's actions as a teenager, but the fact that he confessed his sins to those he harmed, sought help, and has gone forward to live a responsible and circumspect life as an adult is testament to his family's authenticity and humility.

Those who have enjoyed revealing this long ago sins in order to discredit the Duggar family have actually revealed their own insensitive bloodthirst, for there was no consideration of the fact that the victims wanted this to be left in the past and ultimately a judge had the information on file destroyed—not to protect Josh, but the innocent victims.

Janet and I love Jim Bob and Michelle and their entire family. They are no more perfect a family than any family, but their Christian witness is not marred in our eyes because following Christ is not a declaration of our perfection, but of HIS perfection. It is precisely because we are all sinners that we need His grace and His forgiveness. We have been blessed to receive God's love and we would do no less than to extend our love and support for our friends. In fact, it is such times as this, when real friends show up and stand up. Today, Janet and I want to show up and stand up for our friends. Let others run from them. We will run to them with our support.
—Republican presidential candidate Mike Huckabee, on Facebook today.

There is so much wrong with that, I hardly know where to begin, and I'll leave you to parse out every little bit of heinousness in comments.

I will simply point out that Huckabee's pretense to care about Josh Duggar's victims is reprehensible. The family claims on the one hand to have sought counseling for Josh Duggar and his victims, but then admits that the "counseling" for Josh was just being sent away to live with a family friend. Are we then to trust that his victims were given access to legitimate counseling services?

We are meant to ignore that Josh Duggar, in his statement to People, says: "I understood that if I continued down this wrong road that I would end up ruining my life." He was concerned that continuing to abuse girls would ruin his life. His life.

And, in his statement regarding his resignation from the Family Research Council, he requests prayers for himself but not for his victims. He doesn't give a fuck about his victims. Neither, seemingly, do his parents, who concealed his crimes until the statute of limitations for prosecution had passed.

Huckabee, whose candidacy has been endorsed by the Duggars, can wax poetic about the Duggars' "authenticity and humility" all he wants, but the only qualities that are relevant to this situation are their interest in accountability and their sensitivity to survivors.

Both of which are decidedly lacking.

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