You're Not Interesting Because You're Cruel

[Content Note: Gun violence; terrorism; bullying; sexual abuse; fat hatred.]

It's been just over a year since Louis CK said he was very sorry for the sexual abuse he inflicted on his colleagues. His "inevitable redemption crusade," as Melissa called it at the time, seems to be really taking off, albeit with him revealing himself more fully as an angry, unapologetic sadist.

In a leaked audio clip from a recent gig, he mocks non-binary individuals and the Parkland school shooting survivors. A sample:

"Cause you went to a high school where kids got shot, why does that mean I have to listen to you? Why does that make you interesting? You didn't get shot. You pushed some fat kid in the way and now I gotta listen to you talking?"
Louis CK is disgraceful and seems like a pretty miserable person.

What I can't stop thinking about in that clip, though, are the people guffawing at his commentary, in that sorta-guilty way that people sometimes do when they're laughing at something their deeper conscience tells them they maybe shouldn't be laughing at. I'm reminded of the people at the Trump rallies visibly delighting in Trump's calls to violence, reveling in the cruelty.

While many women in the public sphere are expected to spend their lives apologizing for their very existences, men like Louis CK and Donald Trump traumatize and re-traumatize with wanton, unremorseful abandon.

Toxic masculinity is the reality of endless numbers of men traversing the world with an attitude of, "Hey my dick, am I right?" expecting everyone else to laugh along and/or just fucking deal with whatever violent, rape culture bullshit they put out into the world.

Like gun violence, for instance.

Gun violence is a leading cause of premature death among youth in the United States, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention. The vast majority of mass shootings in the USA are committed by men, with white men in particular committing more mass shootings than any other group, although you'll rarely hear them brag about that one.

That men commit the vast majority of mass shootings, often when they are not given who or what they want or feel is rightfully theirs, is a form of gender-based terrorism that the rest of us live with on a daily basis.

A violent male teen shot and killed 17 people at Marjory Stoneman Douglas High School. It's hard to find the punchline in that, but Louis CK, the man who masturbated in front of his colleagues, certainly tried.

Because Louis CK is an abuser, let's talk about the unspoken formula to his joke about kids who lived through a school shooting:

The inherent tension in the setup is that we, the audience, know that children endured a profound trauma by living through this mass shooting. Decent people likewise know that it would be cruel to make a joke at these kids' expense. Regarding the punchline, the kids themselves aren't trying to be "interesting," as he claims. That's simply a right-wing talking point Louis CK adopted as a red-herring. The actual punchline is simply that Louis CK is on the stage, as a confessed sexual abuser staging his comeback, joking about something that decent people would never joke about: kids who were traumatized.

That's it. That's the joke.

It's not creative or funny. People are simply laughing at the cruelty and the embedded fat joke. And yet, the real kicker is that because he dares to "go there," other men will continue to deem him a comedic genius. Toxic masculinity means always excusing shitty men's shitty actions as brilliance when they are more aptly explained by dumb cruelty and that its artiste always cares more about being "objectively funny" than about people's stupid, girly feelings.

Comedy about tragedy can actually be done well. But, that's usually when it's done in an intelligent, thoughtful way by its survivors rather than by rape culture's dopey, shock-value court jesters.

Hannah Gadsby's Nanette, for instance, is brilliant. As is Cameron Esposito's Rape Jokes. Both comedians acknowledge the toxic cultural conditions that gave rise to their trauma and they speak with an anger that is controlled, beautiful, and just, going much deeper into their pain than the hackish, sociopathic, "Heh, political correctness these days, am I right?"

Trauma is tragedy and, in the depths of it, many people are just trying to survive, cope with it, and/or transform it into something positive for themselves and others.

Being cruel in art, comedy, or politics doesn't make a person interesting. Cruelty is a refuge of people who have nothing profound to say yet who want more than anything to be viewed as deeply interesting wunderkinds.

Louis CK is not interesting because he's cruel. Louis CK is not interesting because he's an admitted sexual abuser. Louis CK, in fact, is not interesting at all. The main reason people like Louis CK have followings is because they give cruel, bigoted people permission to stay cruel and bigoted and there's always a market for that. 

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Quote of the Day

"I have no idea. We'll see how he will deal with Speaker of the House. And that doesn't matter whether you're a woman or not! But I hope he recognizes that a new day has dawned in America." — Speaker of the House Nancy Pelosi, asked by NBC's Savannah Guthrie if Donald Trump deals with her differently because she's a woman.

Pelosi also noted during the interview that she believes whether it's legal to indict a president is an open question and that: "We shouldn't be impeaching for a political reason, and we shouldn't avoid impeachment for a political reason."

Welcome to your future, Donald Trump.

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2020 Foresight

This is not a piece about Bernie Sanders. At least, it's not a piece only about Bernie Sanders. It's just partially about Bernie Sanders.

It's really a piece about Mike Pence.

But first the part about Bernie Sanders.

Last night on CNN, Anderson Cooper asked Bernie Sanders about the New York Times report regarding sexual harassment and gendered pay disparity in his 2016 presidential campaign. His response was not good:

I'm very proud of the campaign we ran in 2016. You know, we started at four percent in the polls; we ended up winning 22 states; 13 million votes; I think we changed the nature of political discourse in this country, raising issues that are now kind of mainstream which were then considered extreme and fringe.

But when our campaign grew from, I think we started with three or four paid employees, and over a period of a few months, as the campaign exploded, we went up to I think twelve hundred employees. And I am not going to sit here and tell you that we did everything right in terms of human resources, in terms of addressing the needs that I'm hearing from now, that women felt disrespected, that there was sexual harassment which was not dealt with as effectively as possible.

What I will tell you is that when I ran for reelection in 2018 in Vermont, we put forward the strongest set of principles in terms of mandatory training, in terms of women, if they felt harassed, having an independent firm that they can go to. And I think that's kind of, you know, the gold standard for what we should be doing.

So I certainly apologize to any woman who felt that she was not treated appropriately, and, of course, if I run, we will do better next time.

[Cooper asks for confirmation that Sanders did not know that women working for his campaign reported sexual harassment at the time.]

Yes, I was a little bit busy running around the country, trying to make the case.
There are a lot of problems with that response — from Sanders' assertion that he was just too darn successful to protect his female staffers from sexual harassment, to the classic narcissist's apology to women who felt harassed. And there are plenty of people in plenty of spaces deconstructing and debating every piece of what was wrong with Sanders' response, so I'm not going to do that here.

Here I'm going to point out that Sanders' response is so cavalier, so unserious, that I suspect he's probably counting on the fact that Donald Trump will have no high ground from which to level accusations of sexism against him.

First, that has never stopped Trump before. Projection is kind of his jam.

More importantly, if Sanders were to campaign for and win the Democratic nomination in 2020, he might not be facing Donald Trump. He might be facing Mike Pence. And I don't think he's considered the possibility that he could be carrying these problems into a contest with the Choir Boy of False Virtue.

Sanders is fond of saying he'll run if he decides he's the best person to take on Trump, but.

The thing is, there could hardly be a worse choice to put up against Pence than Sanders. As bad a candidate as he would be against Trump, he'd unquestionably be even worse against Pence.

There's no one on the left side of the aisle contemplating a run who would more make Pence look "reasonable" than Bernie Sanders. I am shit scared of that.

And I am fairly certain that Sanders hasn't even considered it. Which is also pretty terrifying.

But like I said, this isn't a piece just about Bernie Sanders.

This is a piece about Mike Pence.

And I don't get the impression that any of the potential Democratic contenders — and certainly most left-leaning voters — have considered there's a chance that the eventual Democratic nominee might end up running against Pence.

Which is pretty weird. Because, on the one hand, lots of lefties imagine that Bob Mueller is going to save us by personally frog-marching Trump out of the White House, but, on the other hand, they're simultaneously anticipating that Trump will be the nominee in 2020.

Personally, I don't expect that Trump will be forced out of office in the next year, but: 1. I hope I'm wrong; 2. I can't realistically envision a scenario in which both Trump and Pence are forced out; 3. I recognize that there is some chance, no matter how small, that this imperiled president might not serve out his term.

So one of my considerations as I scrutinize Democratic candidates will be whether they hold up as solid contenders against Mike Pence, too.

Just in case.

And Mike Pence is fundamentally a different kind of candidate than Donald Trump.

Where Trump is all bombast and braggadocio, Pence is all affected humility and false modesty. Where Trump wears his malice on his sleeve, Pence conceals his malice behind a delicate veil of fraudulent piety. Where Trump blasts vulgarity, Pence softly transmits mendacious purity. Where Trump is a one-man-band of obscene self-congratulation, Pence is a snake quietly slithering through the grass, hoping to arrive unannounced at the seat of power.

They have extremely different relationships with the Republican elite, and with the Republican base, and they would run extremely different campaigns.

Not everyone who's reportedly considering a run for the Democratic nomination would be equally capable against both men. In fact, very few of them would be.

There aren't many politicians gifted enough to be competent at the wildly divergent strategies each potential opponent would demand.

But they do exist.

And I hope we are all smart enough to make sure we nominate one of them.

Just in case.

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Open Thread

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Hosted by a yellow sofa. Have a seat and chat.

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Question of the Day

Do you have any feelings about the changing of the calendar? Did you make any New Year's resolutions? If so, what were they and how are you doing so far?

I never make New Year's resolutions, not because of some particular aversion to them, but just because when I decide to do something, I just do it, and if I'm putting something off, no arbitrary day is going to end my stubborn procrastination, lol.

I guess the closest thing to a resolution I make in any new year is resolving to keep showing up. And here I am.

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Wednesday Links!

This list o' links brought to you by calendars.

Recommended Reading:

Erik Pedersen at Deadline Hollywood: Bob Einstein Dies: Curb Your Enthusiasm Actor Who Created Super Dave Osborne Character Was 76

Nolan D. McCaskill at Politico: House Dem Majority Welcomes First Black Female Floor Director

Robin McKie at the Guardian: "For 30 Years I've Been Obsessed by Why Children Get Leukaemia. Now We Have an Answer."

Jessica Gingrich at Atlas Obscura: [Content Note: White supremacy] The Underground Kitchen That Funded the Civil Rights Movement

Natalie Wolchover at Nautilus: Why Black Hole Interiors Grow (Almost) Forever

Aaron Gilbreath at Longreads: Where Have All the Music Magazines Gone?

Lori Lakin Hutcherson at Good Black News: Jimi Hendrix Honored in Hometown of Seattle with Post Office Renamed in His Honor

And happy 13th blogiversary to Monica Roberts at TransGriot!

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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An Observation About Bernie

When Bernie Sanders announced his candidacy in 2015, I liked him. Not a little bit, either. I greeted the announcement with three heart emojis.

The longer he ran, and the more I saw of him, the less I liked him.

I didn't like the way he ran his campaign, and I didn't like the people with whom he surrounded himself, and I didn't like the way he debated, and, most importantly, his policies were not strong or detailed or achievable as presented.

He hasn't even declared whether he is running in 2020 yet, and I continue to like him less and less.

I sure don't see that changing if he decides to run again.

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#365feministselfie: 2018 Year in Review

Five years ago, my pal Veronica Arreola invited anyone and everyone who was up for it to participate in her #365feministselfie project. The rules were simple: Post a picture of yourself every day for a year.

I participated in 2014, the first year of the project, and I was really glad that I had. In subsequent years, I would post occasional selfies with the label, but I didn't dedicate myself to doing a picture a day. Until 2018.


[Video compiling all 365 photos, set to instrumental music.]

As in 2014, I found that participating in the project made me more comfortable in my own skin, which is quite a gift to accompany aging.

I was again keenly aware of the spaces in which I felt comfortable documenting my life, and those which I wanted to keep private. Those aren't always conscious decisions, but sometimes they are. I am protective of certain parts of my home — and certain pieces of myself that I conceal, often taking selfies of myself just about to leave to go somewhere, but keeping the destination private.

Mostly, I appear happy and/or content in most of the images, which is a fair representation of my disposition, but there are also photos of me sad, grieving the losses of Matilda and Olivia, angry, injured, in pain, ill. I am still much less comfortable documenting negative emotions than positive ones. I never, however, feigned feeling something I wasn't for a selfie; I mostly just tended to remember to document my day when I was feeling okay.

Other random observations: Over the course of the year, there are selfies taken in two countries — the U.S. and Barbados — and three states — Pennsylvania, Maryland, and New Jersey — as well as two throwback selfies, one of which was taken in Indiana and one in D.C. I swam a lot. I obsessed about Manchester United a lot. I love Deeky a lot.

Deeky is also far more willing to pose with me for a selfie than any other of my companions, including and especially Iain, who loathes having his picture taken. I am grateful to Iain for being game to make the occasional appearance, since any document of my life is incomplete without him.

So, that was my year.

My thanks to Veronica for challenging me to participate in this amazing project. Which, by the way, continues this year, for anyone who wants to take part. In case it isn't obvious, I highly recommend it.

As always: Please feel welcome and encouraged to share your own selfies in comments, whether current or some of your favorites from the past year!

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Daily Dose of Cute

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HAPPY NEW EAR!

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 713

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by me: Elizabeth Warren Is Running for President: Here Comes the Misogyny! and Malice Is the Agenda at the Border.

Here are some more things in the news today...

[Content Note: Murder; gun violence; racist eliminationism] Seven-year-old Jazmine Barnes was fatally shot after a white man in his 40s pulled up beside the car in which she was riding with her mother and opened fire on them from his red pickup truck. Her mother, LaPorsha Washington, who was injured in the shooting, has spent hours trying to figure out why this man killed her child and hurt her.

I've replayed this moment in my head over a million times, to see: Did I cut this man off? Did I make a wrong turn in front of him? Did I stop him from getting out of the Walmart, from whatever he was doing? Did I do anything wrong to cause this man to fire shots in my car? And I didn't. I didn't do anything. I didn't make a wrong turn, I didn't get over in his lane, I didn't do none of that. He fired off at us for no reason. None.
Absolutely heartbreaking. I understand, of course, why Washington is seeking to find a reason and probing her memory desperately to see if she could have done something differently, and I am so fucking sad and so fucking angry that she's been put in that position by the piece of shit who killed her daughter and injured her. Even if she had cut him off or made a wrong turn in front of him or whatever, it wouldn't justify what he did.

But road rage would maybe, somehow, be easier than the fact it seems very much like this "senseless" crime was a white supremacist murder. And it may not have been the first one committed by this man, who remains at large.

[CN: Video may autoplay at link] Staff at KTRK: Houston Activists Say Fatal Shooting of 7-Year-Old Girl Was Similar to Another Incident in 2017. "Some activists say a similar, unprovoked incident happened to a man named A'Vonta Williams a little more than a year ago. Williams was reportedly shot by a white man in a pickup truck while driving near that same Walmart on Wallisville. Activists say they don't believe the two shootings are a coincidence."

The police need to identify and find this man swiftly.

My condolences to Jazmine Barnes' family, friends, classmates, and community. I am so sorry.

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Damian Paletta and Erica Werner at the Washington Post: Trump Falsely Claims Mexico Is Paying for Wall, Demands Taxpayer Money for Wall Ahead of Meeting with Democrats.
[Donald] Trump made two false claims about his demands for a new border wall just hours before he is set to meet with congressional leaders Wednesday, illustrating the White House's evasive approach as a government shutdown stretches on.

In a Twitter post Wednesday morning, Trump wrote that Mexico would be paying for the wall along the U.S. border under the parameters of a trade deal he has tentatively inked with Mexico and Canada. This is not true.

That deal has not been approved by Congress, which means the parameters of the pact are not in effect. And even if the trade agreement is approved, it would not in any way create a stream of money designated for the construction of a border wall.

The second false point in Trump's Twitter post Wednesday is his statement that "much of the Wall has already been fully renovated or built." This is also not true.

The U.S.-Mexico border is roughly 2,000 miles long. Trump's demand for $5.6 billion to build new sections of wall would finance 200 miles of wall, and less than 100 miles has already been constructed or renovated, according to Department of Homeland Security Officials.
Paul Krugman at the New York Times: The Trump Tax Cut: Even Worse Than You've Heard. "The story you mostly read runs something like this: The tax cut has caused corporations to bring some money home, but they've used it for stock buybacks rather than to raise wages, and the boost to growth has been modest. That doesn't sound great, but it's still better than the reality: No money has, in fact, been brought home, and the tax cut has probably reduced national income. Indeed, at least 90 percent of Americans will end up poorer thanks to that cut."

Carrie Johnson at NPR: Trump's Judicial Appointments Were Confirmed at Historic Pace in 2018. "The Trump administration more than doubled the number of judges it confirmed to federal appeals courts in 2018, exceeding the pace of the last five presidents and stocking the courts with lifetime appointees who could have profound consequences for civil rights, the environment, and government regulations. A new analysis by Lambda Legal, which advocates for the LGBT community, reports that five of the country's 12 circuit courts are now composed of more than 25 percent of Trump-appointed judges." Sob.

Paul Farhi at the Washington Post: Beyond 'No Comment': The White House Has No Response — at All — to Many Media Questions.
The New York Times published a powerful story last week about [Donald] Trump's growing isolation in the White House, with colorful details such as Trump's tendency to interrupt advisers during meetings to call them "freaking idiots" (except he doesn't use the word "freaking").

Asked to comment by the Times's reporters about this, the White House said nothing. It did not respond.

Similarly, it offered no response when The Washington Post asked the White House about Trump's false claim during a post-Christmas Day visit to U.S. troops in Iraq that he boosted military pay by 10 percent.

Reporters are used to officials who respond to their inquiries with a terse "no comment." This was typically the practice in prior presidential administrations when officials saw no strategic value in rebutting an unflattering story.

But as in so many things, the Trump administration is different. Instead of "no comment," Trump's press representatives often don't bother saying anything at all.

"This is the least responsive White House press operation I've ever dealt with by far," said Peter Baker, a veteran White House reporter for The New York Times and one of the co-authors of the story about Trump's isolation. "There are certainly individuals there who are professional and try to be helpful when they can, and I appreciate their efforts, I really do. But as a whole, I've learned not to expect answers even to basic questions."

Adds Baker, "I don't know why that is. I don't take it personally. But it's a lost opportunity on their part to get their side of the story out."
That's a very telling quote. Baker, a White House reporter for a major newspaper, is seemingly incurious about figuring out why the White House is unprecedentedly hostile to answering basic questions, and his primary concern is for the administration and their "lost opportunity" to use the media to "get their side of the story out," rather than expressing any concern for the public who lacks accountability from their own government. Depressing.


Jamiles Lartey at the Guardian: Mitt Romney: Trump's Biggest Failure Is a Lack of Character in Leading 'Divided' Nation. "Romney praised Trump's tax policies, stance on China, and appointment of conservative judges but said they were 'mainstream' Republican policies. Since Trump's rise, Romney has been one in a long list of traditionalist Republicans who have publicly bristled at Trump's decorum and leadership style, while generally supporting his policy goals." A perfect summary.

Let me be even more blunt: Romney loves Trump's malice, but hates his vulgarity. PRIORITIES.


I don't give a drip of shit what Mitt Romney has to say about anything, least of all Donald Trump, but I do care what Harry Reid has to say.


By the way, I agree with my friend Sarah Kendzior that the New York Times interview with Reid was a massive wasted opportunity to ask him some tough questions about Russian interference in the 2016 election and related Republican obstructionism.

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Josh Kovensky at TPM: Filing in Patten Case Deepens Mystery About His Cooperation with the Feds. "A mystery filing in the case of W. Sam Patten, the D.C. lobbyist who pleaded guilty to acting as an unregistered foreign agent in August, adds a curious wrinkle to what has generally been regarded as a relatively minor case. ...The fact that Patten's status report is entirely under seal could suggest that Patten, who has been seen as a more marginal figure in the foreign lobbying world, may in fact have more value to prosecutors, including special counsel Robert Mueller, than previously realized."

Staff at the BBC: New Year 2019: U.S. Military Apologises for Bomb Tweet. "U.S. Strategic Command, which oversees America's nuclear arsenal, has apologised for a tweet that said it was ready to 'drop something much, much bigger' than New York's Times Square ball. The message, posted on New Year's Eve, was accompanied by a video showing a B-2 bomber dropping weapons. Strategic Command later deleted the tweet, saying it was 'in poor taste,' and replaced it with an apology." Fucking hell.

[CN: Nativism; child abuse] Elham Khatami at ThinkProgress: Surveillance Videos at Arizona Migrant Shelter Show Alleged Abuse of Children. "Staff members at a migrant shelter in Arizona apparently dragged, hit, and shoved children, according to surveillance videos obtained by the Arizona Republic last week under a state public records law. Although the Maricopa Sheriff's Office initially said the videos showed no grounds for criminal investigation, the office reversed course Sunday, referring the case to a local district attorney."

[CN: LGBTQ hatred] Jessica Mason Pieklo at Rewire.News: Employees Can Be Fired for Being LGBTQ in 26 States. Will the Supreme Court Make That Even Worse? "The Supreme Court on Friday will consider taking three cases that could determine whether an employer can legally discriminate against employees for being LGBTQ. If the Court agrees to hear some, or all, of the petitions, it will be testing both the strength of employment discrimination law under Title VII and retired Supreme Court Justice Anthony Kennedy's LGBTQ rights legacy. ...Currently 26 states do not expressly prohibit sexual orientation or gender identity discrimination in employment. Should the Supreme Court determine federal law does not protect LGBTQ employees, that would leave workers in those states even more vulnerable to on-the-job discrimination."

[CN: Homophobia; harassment] Relatedly... Savas Abadsidis at Towleroad: Drug Research Scientist Says He was Harassed for Being Gay. "A former research scientist alleges in a lawsuit against Eli Lilly and Co. that he was harassed and discriminated against because he is gay. Jeffrey A. Willy says he 'endured harassment, a hostile work environment, and discrimination.' He left the company in September 2018. The lawsuit was filed in federal court in Indianapolis."

[CN: Environmental harm] Yessenia Funes at Earther: Trump's EPA Wants to Prove That Limiting Toxic Mercury Emissions Is a Giant Waste of Money. "Whispers that the EPA began might roll back the Mercury and Air Toxics Standards (MATS), which former President Barack Obama implemented in 2011 to limit the amount of the toxic metal power plants can spew, first surfaced in October. But electrical utilities pushed back, as they had already spent billions working to comply with the rule, reports Bloomberg. So instead of undoing outright this particular rule, the agency wants to take a closer look at the cost-benefit analysis that supports it under the Clean Air Act. The EPA is hoping to determine that the rule is not 'appropriate and necessary,' a legal term that considers on whether the benefits outweigh the cost of a rule."

And finally, if you haven't heard the latest from abusive dirtbag Louis CK, consider yourself lucky and move on. If you have, and want to know my feelings about it, here you go:


What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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The Jon Swift Memorial Roundup 2018

Jon Swift (aka Al Weisel), a brilliant blogger and satirist, and sometime contributor to Shakesville, used to wrap up each year by asking as many bloggers as he could contact to submit their best posts of the year for a massive roundup of awesome writing.

Weisel died in 2010, and, in his honor, Batocchio of Vagabond Scholar has continued to compile an annual Jon Swift Memorial Roundup.

Here is 2018's, and, as always, there's lots of good stuff there.

The piece I submitted this year is "On Mike Pence's Destructive Ambition," which I submitted as part of my ongoing campaign urging people to keep their eyes on Mike Pence, who, despite being the proverbial one heartbeat away from the presidency, and despite the fact that Donald Trump's presidency is increasingly imperiled, continues to thrive in the inattention of a political press which inexplicably resists the close scrutiny of his corrupt past that it so urgently deserves.

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Malice Is the Agenda at the Border

[Content Note: Nativism; child abuse; death.]

Following just two weeks after the death of 7-year-old Jakelin Caal in Customs and Border Protection custody, 8-year-old Felipe Alonzo-Gomez has also died in CBP custody. My deep condolences to his family, friends, and community.

At NBC News, Gadi Schwartz reported on the details of Alonzo-Gomez's death:

Reporter Gadi Schwartz, in voiceover, over video and images of border, camps, documents, and other associated footage: This is the area in El Paso, Texas, where an 8-year-old Guatemalan boy and his father were first apprehended on December 18. Six days later, the boy members of Congress have identified as Felipe Alonzo-Gomez was dead. Now, Customs and Border Protection releasing a revised timeline of events, amid outcry over his death, saying agents logged 17 welfare checks from December 20th to the 22nd, provided hot food and water, and listed several transports between three patrol stations, from El Paso to Alamogordo, New Mexico.

It wasn't until the morning of December 24th that an agent "noticed that the child was coughing and appearing to have glossy eyes." Thirty minutes later, CBP says he was transferred to a hospital. His temperature was 103 degrees. He was tested for strep throat, diagnosed with a cold, given medication, then released from the hospital and taken to another nearby holding facility.

A few hours later, CBP says, he began vomiting and, on the way back to the hospital, lost consciousness. He passed away at 11:48 (pm) on Christmas Eve.

Clip of U.S. Border and Customs Protection Commissioner Kevin McAleenan in an interview with NBC News: Well, we've responded by doing secondary medical checks. That means paramedics, who are also Border Patrol agents, checking each child in our custody.

Back to Schwartz, in voiceover: As a sweeping review has been ordered in detention facilities across the country, today Department of Homeland Security Secretary Kirstjen Nielsen is calling the death "deeply concerning and heartbreaking."

CBP says they are still holding Felipe's father. The 8-year-old's death coming seventeen days after a girl named Jakelin Caal also died in CBP custody.

Schartz continues, now onscreen: Border Patrol apprehensions are up nearly twice as much as last year, many of them being children. And currently there is a court order that's supposed to prevent CBP from keeping children in custody for more than 72 hours. In this case, Felipe was in custody for over 130.
During an autopsy, Alonzo-Gomez was determined to have had influenza.

I cannot even imagine how terrifying this child's last days were: Desperately ill with the flu, separated from his father, shuffled between detention camps in a foreign country, neglected and misdiagnosed, until he lost consciousness and died.

That's tantamount to designed torture.

When CBP separated Felipe Alonzo-Gomez from his father and took him into their custody, they assumed responsibility for his well-being. That's the law. And now they are responsible for his death.

Meanwhile, the malice being perpetrated at the border by the Trump Regime continues unabated, as the New Year was marked by border agents launching more tear gas over the border:
U.S. authorities fired tear gas into Mexico during the first hours of the new year to repel about 150 migrants who tried to breach the border fence in Tijuana.

U.S. Customs and Border Protection said in a statement later Tuesday that the gas was used to target rock throwers apart from the migrants who were trying to cross.

"No agents witnessed any of the migrants at the fence line, including children, experiencing effects of the chemical agents, which were targeted at the rock throwers further away," the statement said.

An Associated Press photographer saw at least three volleys of gas launched onto the Mexican side of the border near Tijuana's beach that affected the migrants, including women and children, as well as journalists. The AP saw rocks thrown only after U.S. agents fired the tear gas.
Sadistic liars. Just like the president that's writing their orders.

I desperately hope that with the new Congress and a Democratic majority in the House, there will be some checks on Donald Trump and his vile nativist agenda. And I desperately fear that he will respond to attempts to curtail his abuses by accelerating them.

He must be removed from office. Lives depend on it. Surely that is clear now. It is not hyperbole, and it never was.

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Elizabeth Warren Is Running for President: Here Comes the Misogyny!

Senator Elizabeth Warren has announced that she's launched an exploratory committee to run for president in 2020, so here I am introducing the inaugural post in the Elizabeth Warren Sexism Watch!

First of all, I want to give a shout-out to every asshole who invoked Elizabeth Warren as their "I'm not a misogynist" card when Hillary Clinton was running, arguing that they only hated Clinton because of who she is not because she's a woman and they couldn't possibly be misogynists because they would totes support someone less individually detestable like Warren, but whooooooooops now that she's running they totally don't find her "likeable," either. Huh!

On Twitter, Ashton Pittman has an excellent thread on this subject, with receipts. His thread begins here.


Elizabeth Warren was oh so very likeable when she was a hypothetical presidential candidate in a theoretical presidential race — not an actual woman seeking actual power in an actual contest for the actual presidency, but a prop in misogynists' game of deflecting the rank misogyny they were aiming at Hillary Clinton.

Now that the stakes are real, and it's not just an abstract exercise in denying their bias, suddenly that likeability factor has vanished in a cloud of stinking sexism.

(And welcome Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez to being the new token Woman for Whom I'd Totally Vote Who Isn't This Woman Who's Actually Running.)

As I have noted many times before: Everyone likes women who are doing something for them, and very few people like women who are the boss of them.


No one, of course, hates women who want to be the boss of them more than Donald Trump, so inevitably he greeted Warren's announcement with a fetid stew of misogyny, racism, and disablism, saying during an interview on Fox News: "She did very badly in proving that she was of Indian heritage. That didn't work out too well. I think you have more than she does, and maybe I do too, and I have nothing. So you know, we'll see how she does. I wish her well. I hope she does well. I'd love to run against her. ...I don't know [if she believes she can win]. You'd have to ask her psychiatrist."

And off we go to 2020. Maude help me.

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Open Thread

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Hosted by a red sofa. Have a seat and chat.

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It's a Lang Lane That Hasna a Turnin'

[The title of the post is a Scottish saying — "it's a long road that never changes direction" — which means don't lose hope; things can't go in the same direction forever.]

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Thank you for the solidarity and the good company as we navigated 2018, y'all. Under the circumstances, that is truly no small thing.

♥ x one million.

We're taking next week off, and will be back on Wednesday, January 2, at which time we will resume our regularly scheduled abundance of political news, pop culture, cute things, threads of support, and resistance.

See you then!

Unless, of course, some major political clusterfucktastrophe happens, in which case you may see me sooner. But I sure hope not! For all our sakes!

[My thanks to JupiterPluvius for the phrase used in the image.]

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Friday Links!

This list o' links brought to you by snowflakes. *wink!*

Recommended Reading:

Eliza Dushku at the Boston Globe: [Content Note: Sexual harassment; bullying; retaliation] I Worked at CBS. I Didn't Want to Be Sexually Harassed. I Was Fired.

Yessenia Funes at Earther: [CN: Guns; misogynoir; carcerality; environmental harm] This Environmentalist Went to Prison for a Crime She Says She Didn't Commit — and It Transformed Her Activism

Opheli Garcia Lawler at the Cut: [CN: Domestic violence] Pets of Domestic Violence Victims Will Now Be Protected Under Law

Soraya Roberts at Longreads: [CN: Misogyny; toxic masculinity; threats of self-harm; emotional labor] How Famous Women Clean Up After Men

Cathy Newman with photographs by Lynn Johnson at National Geographic: [CN: Images of cadavers] Susan Potter Will Live Forever

Allie Lawrence at Bust: 10 Women Who Are Changing the Comedy Game in 2018

Paul Caputo at Sports Logos: Rocket City Trash Pandas Break MiLB Merchandise Records

And finally! The Twitter thread beginning here by @mckellogs about her very silly horse is amazing! I don't know how it's possible, but I'm pretty sure that horse and Dudley are related.

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Discussion Thread: Self-Care

What are you doing to do to take care of yourself today, or in the near future, as soon as you can?

If you are someone who has a hard time engaging in self-care, or figuring out easy, fast, and/or inexpensive ways to treat yourself, and you would like to solicit suggestions, please feel welcome. And, as always, no one should offer advice unless it is solicited.

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Iain and I are going to meet some friends for dinner this weekend, and, even though we're just going to meet at the usual casual joint we almost always do, I'm going to get slightly overdressed and blow out my hair and put on some makeup, just because I can and it will feel good to do it!

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Daily Dose of Cute

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THESE FACES. ♥

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 701

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by me: Trump's Unsettling Morning Tweets and The Damnable Lie of Trump's Erstwhile Minders and Trump Orders Withdrawal of Half of Troops in Afghanistan. And ICYMI late yesterday: Obama Administration Treasury Officials Emailed with Kremlin Through Back Channels During 2016 Election and Secretary of Defense Jim Mattis Is Leaving, Too.

Here are some more things in the news today...

Tucker Higgins at NBC News: Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, 85, Undergoes Lung Procedure to Remove Cancerous Growth. "Supreme Court Justice Ruth Bader Ginsburg, 85, underwent a lung procedure on Friday, the Supreme Court said in a release. She is 'resting comfortably' at Memorial Sloan Kettering Cancer Center in New York City."

NPR reports: "Short of complications in recovery, doctors say prospects look good for a full recovery for Justice Ginsburg, 85. She hopes to be back on the court for the start of the new term in early January."

GET WELL SOON, JUSTICE GINSBURG!!!


Lolsob. Indeed.

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Liz Johnstone at NBC News: Trump Warns Shutdown Could Last 'Very Long Time'. "Donald Trump on Friday warned Senate Democrats that if they don't vote for his border wall, there will be a 'very long' government shutdown beginning Friday night. ...Senate Minority Leader Chuck Schumer, D-N.Y., indicated Friday that he hadn't talked to the president. When asked if he was optimistic about the outcome of the White House meeting between Trump and GOP lawmakers, he said, 'Every meeting with Republicans and the president, things have gotten worse.' Schumer said there are three offers on the table for Trump that would avert a shutdown — one that came from Schumer, and others that came from House Democratic Leader Nancy Pelosi, D-Calif. 'He ought to take one of them,' he said."

Just to be clear: The Democrats are offering Trump multiple ways out of a painful shutdown. Trump is electing not to take any of them, because he and his party don't GAF about the harm it will cause to people who work for the federal government and to people who depend on the services the federal government provides.

Lest you imagine that is hyperbole... Colby Itkowitz and Mike DeBonis at the Washington Post: Rep. Meadows Tells Federal Employees Who Won't Get Paid During Shutdown: You Signed Up for This.
To the hundreds of thousands of federal employees who will work without pay or be furloughed over the holidays if there is a government shutdown, Rep. Mark Meadows (R-N.C.) says it is just part of the risk of working in public service.

Meadows, the chairman of the House Freedom Caucus and a leading conservative voice urging [Donald] Trump not to accept a short-term spending bill absent funding for a border wall, was responding to reporters who asked about Transportation Security Administration and Border Patrol agents who would be required to continue working on Christmas without getting a paycheck.

"It's actually part of what you do when you sign up for any public service position," Meadows said. "And it's not lost on me in terms of, you know, the potential hardship. At the same time, they know they would be required to work and even in preparation for a potential shutdown those groups within the agencies have been instructed to show up."
Wow.

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Matthew Lee and Susannah George at the AP: Trump Call with Turkish Leader Led to U.S. Pullout from Syria. "Donald Trump's decision to withdraw American troops from Syria was made hastily, without consulting his national security team or allies, and over strong objections from virtually everyone involved in the fight against the Islamic State group, according to U.S. and Turkish officials. Trump stunned his Cabinet, lawmakers, and much of the world with the move by rejecting the advice of his top aides and agreeing to a withdrawal in a phone call with Turkish President Recep Tayyip Erdogan last week, two officials briefed on the matter told The Associated Press." Perfectly normal presidency in which ErdoÄŸan is made aware of U.S. foreign policy before the U.S. Secretary of Defense. (Holy shit.)

Heather Long, Josh Dawsey, and Thomas Heath at the Washington Post: As Stocks Drop, Trump Fears He's Losing His Best Argument for Reelection. "[Donald] Trump has kept an almost obsessive watch on the stock market as it has lurched lower in recent weeks, tuning in to Fox Business and checking in with Lou Dobbs, a host on the network. The president has complained to aides about how unfair it is that he is blamed for the market's slide and for growing unease about an economic slowdown in the months to come, say current and former officials who spoke on the condition of anonymity because they are not authorized to speak publicly. ...The lower the market drops, the more the president worries that he is losing his most potent argument for reelection, several of the officials said."

Staff at the Daily Beast: Trump Already Souring on Next Chief of Staff Mick Mulvaney over 'Terrible Human Being' Jibe, Says Report. "Donald Trump is reportedly already turning on Mick Mulvaney — who hasn't even started his new job as acting White House chief of staff yet — due to a two-year-old video uncovered by The Daily Beast, which shows Mulvaney calling the president 'a terrible human being.' ...Trump reportedly started regretting his appointment after seeing the video of Mulvaney from a week before the 2016 election saying: 'Yes, I am supporting Donald Trump, but I'm doing so despite the fact that I think he's a terrible human being.' Axios reports Trump was 'furious' when he heard about the footage — he reportedly asked one adviser: 'Did you know [Mulvaney] called me 'a terrible human being' back during the campaign?' A spokeswoman for Mulvaney dismissed the remarks as 'old news' and said he changed his mind about Trump after they met."

Surely even Donald Trump has to know it's a goddamn lie that someone would revise their opinion that he's a terrible human being after meeting him.

Also: This is yet another indication of how shitty the White House vetting is under Trump. That extremely recent video should have turned up in any basic background research before hiring someone into a cabinet-level position.

Also also: Who showed Trump the video? I suppose there's a chance he saw it on Fox News if they aired it to criticize it, although they've typically been favorable toward Mulvaney. (That said, Sean Hannity is like Trump's BFF and he mentions the "pee tape" every chance he gets.) But if someone in Trump's orbit showed it to him, who and why? Team Pence, to get him riled up? Team Ivanka and Jared, to create an even bigger power vacuum into which they extend their reach? Who knows. As usual: No good options.

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Today in Trump Stenographers News...

Colby Hall at Mediaite: Maggie Haberman: 'Disgusted' Republicans Now Privately Admitting They Regret Supporting Trump. "New York Times reporter and CNN contributor Maggie Haberman appeared on New Day Friday morning and revealed insight into the current turmoil in Washington D.C. ...Calling it a 'critical moment,' Haberman reported that there was waning support for Trump from the right, saying: 'A number of conservatives who worked on the campaign and supported the president and now say, you know, I regret doing that, and this was a mistake, this administration is, you know, off the rails, and all of these investigations that are coming to a head will be a huge problem.'"

Very interesting that Haberman, who has been carrying water for the Trump administration for two years (and whose mother did PR for Trump, which is apparently not a disclosure worthy of mention in her reporting), now seems to be carrying water for, well, someone else.

In any case, this is hardly the last of the "regretful Republicans" swill that we're going to see. To that end, I did a thread.


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[Content Note: Nuclear weapons] Amanda Macias at NBC News: Russia Again Successfully Tests Ship-Based Hypersonic Missile — Which Will Likely Be Ready for Combat by 2022. "Russia has conducted another successful test of its ship-based hypersonic missile, a weapon the United States is currently unable to defend against, according to two people with direct knowledge of a U.S. intelligence report. ...'What we are seeing with this particular weapon is that the Russians designed it to have a dual-purpose capability, meaning it can be used against a target on land as well as a vessel at sea,' one source explained. 'Last week's successful test showed that the Russians were able to achieve sustained flight, a feat that is crucial in the development of hypersonic weapons.' The U.S. intelligence report, according to one source, noted that production of the missile is slated to begin in 2021 and it will join the Kremlin's arsenal no earlier than 2022."

[CN: Gun violence] Jose Pagliery at CNN: Gun Form Liars May Go on to Commit Gun Crimes, Internal ATF Research Suggests. "Regional offices at the Bureau of Alcohol, Tobacco, Firearms, and Explosives received 12,710 cases of firearm background check denials for further investigation in fiscal year 2017, the GAO found, but the government prosecuted only 12 people. More than 99.9% of those who were investigated escaped with nothing more than a warning. Past and present ATF agents and prosecutors told CNN that, given limited resources, they're not inclined to prioritize the nonviolent crime of lying on a form over more serious charges, like gun trafficking. ...But a 2006 internal ATF briefing paper obtained by CNN suggests that gun form liars are far more likely to go on to commit a gun crime than even many experts recognize. When ATF analyzed firearm denial cases sent to field offices for investigation during a seven-year period, it found that 10%-21% of that group went on to be arrested for a crime involving guns."

And finally, some good — and long overdue — resistance news... [CN: Racist violence] Kenrya Rankin at Colorlines: Watch the U.S. Senate Finally Vote to Make Lynching a Federal Hate Crime. "Nearly six months after Black Senators Kamala Harris (D-Calif.), Cory Booker (D-N.J.), and Tim Scott (R-S.C.) introduced the Justice for Victims of Lynching Act of 2018 — and decades too late — the United States Senate voted unanimously to make lynching a federal hate crime [on December 19]. ...The bill now moves on to the House of Representatives for a vote." Video of the moment it happened at the link. Huzzah!

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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Trump Orders Withdrawal of Half of Troops in Afghanistan

Yesterday, there were reports that Donald Trump would be ordering the withdrawal of troops from Afghanistan, following a similar order regarding Syria. Now we know that he has ordered 7,000 troops to be withdrawn, which constitutes about half of the remaining troops in Afghanistan.

Barbara Starr and Jake Tapper at CNN report:

The official said planning is underway, and it could take months to withdraw the nearly 7,000 troops.

...Gen. John Allen, a former commander of NATO and U.S. forces in Afghanistan, told CNN on Thursday that a drawdown in Afghanistan would be a mistake.

"Pulling out right now, just the announcement would create chaos in the strategy," Allen said.

The U.S. has about 14,000 troops in Afghanistan, most of which are present as part of a larger NATO-led mission to train, advise, and assist Afghan forces. Any withdrawal would be complicated by the fact that the United States is part of NATO's Resolute Support mission.
Trump has openly expressed hostility toward NATO for years, so the fact that withdrawing troops could undermine a NATO alliance is surely a feature, not a bug.

And, as I've repeatedly noted, Trump's subversion of NATO is yet another gift to Vladimir Putin.


In a vacuum, Trump's unilateral decision to withdraw half of the U.S. troops remaining in Afghanistan is a bad one. As part of all the other troubling decisions he's made over the last few days, it's even more unsettling.


All of which, of course, follows more than three years of observable collusion.

It feels like we are suddenly accelerating, forebodingly lurching toward a destination that has long been planned, perhaps even far longer than even our worst assumptions.

I hope to fuck I'm wrong.

And I wish I had something reassuring or hopeful to say. I don't. I hate that I don't. I hate saying things that sound frightening or unmeasured. I hate having this feeling of dread, and I hate expressing it. Even despite everything else that has happened, I don't normally feel scared. I feel scared now.

If you don't, don't let my fear make you feel that way. If you do, know that you're not alone.

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