Trump and Giuliani Are Lying Liars, as Usual

Donald Trump has repeatedly claimed that his real estate business had "nothing to do with Russia." His lawyer, Rudy Giuliani, has claimed the same, asserting as recently as Sunday that there was no signed letter of intent to build a Trump Tower in Moscow.

But, naturally, all of that was horseshit.

Kate Sullivan at CNN reports:

A newly obtained document shows [Donald] Trump signed a letter of intent to move forward with negotiations to build a Trump Tower in Russia, despite his attorney Rudy Giuliani claiming on Sunday the document was never signed.

CNN's Chris Cuomo obtained a copy of the signed letter of intent that set the stage for negotiations for Trump condominiums, a hotel, and commercial property in the heart of Moscow. The letter is dated October 28, 2015, and bears the President's signature.
Welp.

During a normal presidential administration, this would be a massive scandal. During the Trump administration, it's just another day. Sob.

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Facebook Allowed Amazon, Apple, Microsoft, Netflix, Sony, Spotify, Yahoo, and Others to Access Users' Data

The gist of the latest exposé on Facebook's chicanery is this: Facebook granted access to users' data, including private messages, to other tech giants without disclosing the arrangement to users, now claiming they weren't obliged to be transparent about it because those partnership effectively made the other companies an extension of Facebook. Further, among these "integration partners" was the Russian search firm Yandex, which Ukraine's security service has accused of giving user data to the Kremlin, and the Chinese company Huawei, which U.S. intelligence has flagged as a security threat.

Gabriel J.X. Dance, Michael LaForgia, and Nicholas Confessore at the New York Times report:

The special arrangements are detailed in hundreds of pages of Facebook documents obtained by The New York Times. The records, generated in 2017 by the company's internal system for tracking partnerships, provide the most complete picture yet of the social network's data-sharing practices. They also underscore how personal data has become the most prized commodity of the digital age, traded on a vast scale by some of the most powerful companies in Silicon Valley and beyond.

...Facebook allowed Microsoft's Bing search engine to see the names of virtually all Facebook users' friends without consent, the records show, and gave Netflix and Spotify the ability to read Facebook users' private messages.

The social network permitted Amazon to obtain users' names and contact information through their friends, and it let Yahoo view streams of friends' posts as recently as this summer, despite public statements that it had stopped that type of sharing years earlier.

...Facebook, in turn, used contact lists from the partners, including Amazon, Yahoo, and the Chinese company Huawei — which has been flagged as a security threat by American intelligence officials — to gain deeper insight into people's relationships and suggest more connections, the records show.

...As of 2017, Sony, Microsoft, Amazon, and others could obtain users' email addresses through their friends.

Facebook also allowed Spotify, Netflix, and the Royal Bank of Canada to read, write and delete users' private messages, and to see all participants on a thread — privileges that appeared to go beyond what the companies needed to integrate Facebook into their systems, the records show.

...Facebook empowered Apple to hide from Facebook users all indicators that its devices were asking for data. Apple devices also had access to the contact numbers and calendar entries of people who had changed their account settings to disable all sharing, the records show.

...Facebook even recategorized one company, the Russian search giant Yandex, as an integration partner.

Facebook records show Yandex had access in 2017 to Facebook's unique user IDs even after the social network stopped sharing them with other applications, citing privacy risks. A spokeswoman for Yandex, which was accused last year by Ukraine's security service of funneling its user data to the Kremlin, said the company was unaware of the access and did not know why Facebook had allowed it to continue.

...In October, Facebook said Yandex was not an integration partner. But in early December, as The Times was preparing to publish this article, Facebook told congressional lawmakers that it was.
There is much, much more at the link, including a detailed explanation of how these practices might have run afoul of FTC law.

Facebook's reckless pursuit of profit via their vast data-sharing scheme has exploited and imperiled individual people, has potentially exposed corporations to intellectual property theft, and has risked the national security of the United States.

The harm this single company has caused is almost too vast to fully comprehend.

And among this grave harm is the fact that Facebook has crushed in its massive wake many of the platforms that would have served as effective alternatives for people who have come to depend on Facebook.

For people who are housebound, or people who have moved very far away from family and friends, or people whose primary support network is online because of lack of safety in their offline community, as examples, not participating on Facebook can leave one bereft of social interaction.

If all your friends, family, colleagues, support network, community are on Facebook, you can't exactly not be on it, unless you manage to convince all of them to move to a different social platform, too.

Facebook has become a way to sustain long-distance relationships; it has become a way to do party organizing and invites; it has become a way to connect with new people after a move; it has become a way to tap into local resistance activism and politics.

A great many people are currently searching for alternatives to Facebook, only to discover that Facebook has consumed and destroyed most of them. And bully for everyone who doesn't need the services that Facebook provides, but not everyone is so fortunate.

Facebook has been absolute shit at various times for many marginalized people — but it's also been a lifeline for many marginalized people, too.

That it has become an overwhelming monopoly means that abandoning Facebook would leave countless people in a devastating social vacuum.

Which, of course, was by design. Facebook got rid of competitors to make its users dependent on its platform, and we cannot blithely dismiss what that now means for the wellbeing of people who are indeed dependent on it.

That is causing a lot of people a lot of anxiety at the moment. It's not a fun choice to have to make: Your mental health or your privacy and unwilling complicity in Facebook's unethical business practices.

Facebook is dangerous trash. They harm their users and subvert democracy and decency. But they are not akin to a household product which has run a contemptible advert, and you can just choose to buy a different brand the next time you shop for groceries. There isn't an easy alternative.

I hope that's something we can all keep in mind, as calls to leave the platform understandably become more urgent. Be kind with people who are reliant on Facebook.

Be kinder to Facebook users than Facebook has been.

We need consequences for Facebook, and we also need an alternative. Both. Desperately.

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This Is Why Pelosi Has Earned Her Job

Listen, sometimes I have disagreed with Nancy Pelosi. Sometimes she has infuriated me. But I have never thought that she didn't deserve her leadership position. She gets it right most of the time — has a pretty remarkable batting average for a politician, frankly — and frequently gets it right in a way that makes me cheer.

Here is one of those times: "The wall is not about money. The wall is about morality. It's the wrong thing to do. It doesn't work. It's not effective. It's the wrong thing to do and it's a waste of money."

It isn't right. It isn't effective. And it's a total waste. Three devastating arguments against Donald Trump's signature issue in 35 words. Made to reporters who could fit it into a single tweet.

Nancy Pelosi, folks.

[H/T to Scott Madin.]

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Question of the Day

[Content Note: Video autoplays at link.]

Suggested by Shaker FloraFlora: "What's your perfect day? (I know, I know. April 25.)"

Ha!

My perfect day would include: Good company, good conversation, good food, an opportunity to do something I find both meaningful and fulfilling, laughter, interacting positively with animals, and quiet time to myself.

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The Third Sentence on Page 190

Whatever book you're reading right now, turn to page 190 and share the third sentence. No titles. Just the sentence. Let's see what story we end up telling together, in these series of isolated sentences!

"Use Brie de Meaux if you can — it's a fantastic, traditionally made cheese with lots of character."

[Previously.]

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Fat Fashion

This is your semi-regular thread in which fat women can share pix, make recommendations for clothes they love, ask questions of other fat women about where to locate certain plus-size items, share info about sales, talk about what jeans cut at what retailer best fits their body shapes, discuss how to accessorize neutral colored suits, share stories of going bare-armed for the first time, brag about a cool fashion moment, whatever.

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A colorful combo I wore to have lunch with a friend last week:

image of me standing in a mirror from the waste up, with my hair down, wearing brown-framed glasses, a pink patterned top, and a stripey pastel sweater

I love the combination of a patterned shell with a differently patterned cardigan — a look for which I definitely didn't have the confidence when I was younger. Especially in vibrant colors. But now I'm all bring on the color!

The sweater I got from ModCloth, at least a year ago. They aren't carrying it in this particular stripe anymore; the current variation is berry stripe. If you want lighter colors, they'll bring out a lighter option in the spring, as the Charter School Cardigan options rotate seasonally.

The top is Loft's Plus Floral Mixed Media Shell, currently on clearance for $15.

I've found myself increasingly looking at Loft way more than ModCloth these days. Loft's sizing and fabric quality is much more consistent. I've always found ModCloth sizing to be inconsistent, but lately it's just been wildly random, and the quality of the fabric and construction has gone downhill.

I haven't totally abandoned ModCloth, but I'm having way more luck with Loft these days.

Anyway! What's up with you?

Have at it in comments! Please remember to make fat women of all sizes, especially women who find themselves regularly sizing out of standard plus-size lines, welcome in this conversation, and pass no judgment on fat women who want to and/or feel obliged, for any reason, to conform to beauty standards. And please make sure if you're soliciting advice, you make it clear you're seeking suggestions—and please be considerate not to offer unsolicited advice. Sometimes people just need to complain and want solidarity, not solutions.

[Note: I am not receiving anything in return for my recommendations here, nor am I affiliated in any way with any of the companies mentioned herein. Any endorsements made are on products I purchased myself, just because I like them!]

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RIP Penny Marshall

Actress, director, and producer Penny Marshall has died at age 75. She had an incredible career, starring in an iconic sitcom, directing multiple classic films, and setting records as a female director.

Transcript, over images and video of Marshall and her work; narrated by a female CNN reporter whose name I don't know: As an actress, Penny Marshall was one half of funny-girl duo Laverne and Shirley. The Happy Days spinoff became a hit of its own in the late '70s. Marshall garnered three Golden Globe nomination for her role as tough-talking tomboy Laverne. [Marshall onscreen, in an interview, says: "She would not put up with crap. She'd hit ya. And she was a realist."] That spirit proved more useful behind the cameras, as Marshall went on to direct her own TV episodes and feature films.

Marshall's 1988 comedy Big, starring Tom Hanks, became the first female-directed film to gross more than one hundred million dollars at the U.S. box office. Two years later, she directed the drama Awakenings, about a group of catatonic patients. It received three Oscar nods, including Best Film. Her next project, A League of Their Own, was a box office homerun. [Marshall in an interview clip says: "No girl wanted to write it. They don't like baseball!"] Marshall's depiction of an all-female baseball league during World War II was listed on the National Film Registry in 2012.

Through the years, Marshall credited her success to her brother [and best friend], legendary director-producer Garry Marshall. [Marshall in an interview clip says: "I wouldn't have a career if it wasn't for my brother. Let's be honest — he's the one who pointed me in this direction; he got me parts."] Their playful relationship [was] on display during a cameo for the 1993 Halloween fantasy, Hocus Pocus.

In her 2012 memoir, My Mother Was Nuts, Marshall recounted her upbringing in the Bronx. She recalled two failed marriages, motherhood at 19, and a bout with lung cancer — challenges she overcame with an unassuming sense of humor. [Marshall: "I just like to make people laugh, and I move them in some places. My legacy is that, I hope I gave ya some enjoyment."]
My condolences to her family, friends, colleagues, and fans — among whom I count myself.


Thanks, Penny. You gave me some enjoyment. And more. ♥

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Daily Dose of Cute

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She's so stinking cute!

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 698

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by Fannie: A Journey of Artistic Comrades. And by me: Michael Flynn to Be Sentenced Today and The Abusive Artist Doesn't Want to Be Separated from His Art. And ICYMI late yesterday: Cassandra's Lament, Part Wev in an Endless Series.

Here are some more things in the news today...

I'm going to start out with some good news, care of one of our longtime favorites, Idris Elba. Yohana Desta at Vanity Fair: Idris Elba on the #MeToo Movement. "In a recent interview with The Sunday Times, the actor was asked if it's hard to be a man in Hollywood now due to the #MeToo movement, which has led to a broader reckoning against sexual misconduct. Plenty of actors have been asked something similar, and many have responded with statements that ended up necessitating apologies — from Matt Damon to Henry Cavill. But Elba? He had this to say in response: "It's only difficult if you're a man with something to hide." Simple as that." BOOM.

Because we deserve it, here is a screenshot of Idris Elba and Tom Hardy from RocknRolla. You're welcome!

image of Tom Hardy and Idris Elba in RocknRolla
IrRESISTible. See what I did there?

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[Content Note: Nativism. Covers entire section.]

Hamed Aleaziz at BuzzFeed: The Trump Administration Is Slowing the Asylum Process to Discourage Applicants, an Official Told Congress.
A high-ranking Customs and Border Protection official told Congress earlier this month that border agents were limiting asylum applications along the border because allowing too many migrants to apply would inspire more migrants to come, according to a letter written by senior House Democrats on Monday.

The statement by Jud Murdock, CBP's acting assistant commissioner, contradicted official claims that the practice of "metering" — when officials limit the number of individuals who can make asylum claims at ports of entry on any given day — was due to resource constraints, including a lack of detention space and personnel. When asked about the practice at a Senate hearing last week, CBP Commissioner Kevin McAleenan said that it was not meant as a deterrent.

But on Dec. 6, Murdock said in a closed congressional briefing that CBP had chosen to limit asylum-seekers at ports of entries because "[t]he more we process, the more will come," according to the letter.

Murdock's answers to follow-up questions "clearly indicated, given the context, that the Department's decision to limit processing was primarily motivated by its desire to deter migrants from seeking asylum at ports of entry" generally, according to the letter, which was signed by Reps. Zoe Lofgren, Bennie Thompson, and Jerrold Nadler, the ranking Democrats on the Immigration Subcommittee, the Homeland Security Committee, and the Judiciary Committee, respectively.
Particularly in light of that confirmation of one of the many observable cruel practices being employed as disincentive, this piece from Tina Vasquez at Rewire.News is so important: Migrants Share Their Vision for a World That Honors and Respects Them. "[N]o matter the deterrents used by governments, no matter the anti-immigrant rhetoric deployed, no matter the risk or cost, people have always migrated and will continue to migrate globally. This is because their lives depend on their ability to move from one place to another — for family, for work, and in many cases for safety."

Maxwell Tani at the Daily Beast: Advertisers Ditch Fox News' Tucker Carlson for Saying Immigration Makes U.S. 'Dirtier'. "Last Thursday, Carlson ran a segment arguing against the economic benefits of immigration in which he claimed the influx of low-skilled workers 'makes our own country poor and dirtier and more divided.' ...At least four advertisers were not pleased with Carlson's comments. ...During his show on Monday, Carlson defended his comments, saying various government statistics showed that illegal immigration has damaged natural landscape in the American Southwest. 'We're not intimidated,' he said. 'We plan to try to say what's true until the last day. And the truth is unregulated mass immigration has badly hurt this country's natural landscape.'" This fucking guy.

It's tough to believe that any advertiser has been willing to associate themselves with anyone or anything on Fox News up until this point, but I'm glad that these advertisers finally drew a line somewhere.

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Trump may (or may not) have delivered himself into the hands of prosecutors, but, in either case, he's plowing ahead with his 2020 reelection bid. Alex Isenstadt at Politico: Trump Launches Unprecedented Reelection Machine. "Donald Trump is planning to roll out an unprecedented structure for his 2020 reelection, a streamlined organization that incorporates the Republican National Committee and the president's campaign into a single entity. It's a stark expression of Trump's stranglehold over the Republican Party: Traditionally, a presidential reelection committee has worked in tandem with the national party committee, not subsumed it. Under the plan, which has been in the works for several weeks, the Trump reelection campaign and the RNC will merge their field and fundraising programs into a joint outfit dubbed Trump Victory. The two teams will also share office space rather than operate out of separate buildings, as has been custom." Yikes.

David A. Fahrenthold at the Washington Post: Trump Agrees to Shut Down His Charity Amid Allegations That He Used It for Personal and Political Benefit.
[Donald] Trump has agreed to shut down his embattled personal charity and to give away its remaining money amid allegations that he used the foundation for his personal and political benefit, New York Attorney General Barbara Underwood announced Tuesday.

Underwood said that the Donald J. Trump Foundation is dissolving as her office pursues its lawsuit against the charity, Trump, and his three eldest children.

The suit, filed in June, alleged "persistently illegal conduct" at the foundation and sought to have it shut down. Underwood is continuing to seek more than $2.8 million in restitution and has asked a judge to ban the Trumps temporarily from serving on the boards of other New York nonprofit organizations.

Underwood said Tuesday that her investigation found "a shocking pattern of illegality involving the Trump Foundation — including unlawful coordination with the Trump presidential campaign, repeated and willful self-dealing, and much more."
A small but important victory.

Speaking of which... Nicole Lafond at TPM: Stone Forced to Run Apology Ads in Papers as Part of Defamation Settlement. "Former Trump campaign adviser Roger Stone — who faces scrutiny for his lack of credibility in the Russia probe — has been forced to run apology advertisements in national newspapers as part of a settlement agreement for making false statements on InfoWars, the Wall Street Journal reported. Stone was sued for $100 million for false claims about Chinese businessman Guo Wengui, who is known as a dissident of Beijing. Guo filed the lawsuit in March, after Stone suggested he was convicted of crimes in the U.S. and China and claimed Guo donated to Hillary Clinton's campaign, which is illegal for a foreign national, as the WSJ notes. Stone will also have to retract his comments on social media. He won't have to pay any damages if he complies."

Bill Chappell at NPR: U.S. Space Command Is Revived, as Vice President Pence Unveils Plan in Florida.
America's military operations in space are now back under a single unified command, as the Trump administration revived the once-retired U.S. Space Command on Tuesday. Vice President Mike Pence outlined the plan during his visit to the Kennedy Space Center on Tuesday.

"Today, there are more than 18,000 military and civilian personnel working in space operations for our national security, all across the Department of Defense," Pence said.

The vice president added that under [Donald] Trump's order, Space Command will "integrate space capabilities across all branches of the military; it will develop the space doctrine, tactics, techniques, and procedures that will enable our warfighters to defend our nation in this new era."

"A new era of American national security in space begins today," Pence said.
Okay. Still super thrilled (NOT THRILLED) about the idea of Donald Trump and Mike Pence launching nukes from space. Christ.

[CN: Misogyny; racism; harassment]


[CN: Wildfires; carcerality; injuries] Yessenia Funes at Earther: Two California Inmates Suffered Severe Burns Fighting the Camp Fire. Why Were They There at All? "No firefighters' lives were lost fighting the Camp Fire, but five suffered serious burn injuries on November 8... Among those injured were two incarcerated people, who suffered burns to the face and neck. ...These incidents once again raise the question of how ethical and just this conservation camp program — which bills itself as voluntary — really is. California has 44 conservation camps sprinkled throughout the state that house nearly 4,300 incarcerated people. At these camps, prisoners earn a mere $2 a day with an additional dollar per hour when they're fighting an active fire — which is higher than other prison jobs but dramatically lower than the $40,000 to $56,00 annual salary firefighters outside prison earn."

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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A Journey of Artistic Comrades

[Content note: Sexual harassment]

Yael Stone, of Orange is the New Black, has accused Geoffrey Rush of sexual harassment. Stone and Rush worked together in 2010 on The Diary of a Madman.

Via IndieWire:

"Stone told The Times that Rush’s inappropriate behavior included sending her sexually explicit text messages, exposing his penis to her in the dressing room, joining her uninvited as she took a nap backstage, using a mirror to watch her shower, and touching her in a 'very sexual manner' at an awards show. Yael said, 'There was no part of my brain considering speaking to anyone in any official capacity. This was a huge star. What were they going to do? Fire Geoffrey and keep me?'"
Rush has responded by calling Stone's accusations “incorrect" and, well, there's a lot going on in his statement in addition to the bit I've highlighted, below:
“'...[C]learly Yael has been upset on occasion by the spirited enthusiasm I generally bring to my work,' Rush said in a statement. 'I sincerely and deeply regret if I have caused her any distress. This, most certainly, has never been my intention. When we performed in ‘The Diary Of A Madman’ 8 years ago, I believe we engaged in a journey as artistic comrades. Over the years we have shared correspondence that always contained a mutual respect and admiration. As I have said in the past, I abhor any behavior that might be considered as harassment or intimidation to anyone – whether in the workplace or any other environment.'”
What could that possibly mean, that a man said he was engaged on a "journey as artistic comrades" with a woman who accused him of sexual harassment? The "comrades" suggests equality, light-heartedness, and togetherness, but unequal power dynamics are built into every workplace and it's clear that Stone did not have the same sense of shared power and camaraderie that Rush suggests existed.

It's always a strange thing when men use rape culture tropes within their shitty #MeToo responses, but the notion that an abuser and a target are equally-witting conspirators in the target's debasement has long been one of rape culture's most enduring deceptions. When a response uses a trope, nonetheless, it at least demonstrates which crowd the accused is playing to - those who don't question the trope.

But here's a fun fact you won't see in any famous man's sorry-not-sorry-if-anyone-was-hurt letter:

Rape culture exists, in part, to grant ugly, powerful old dudes sexual access to young attractive people under the lie that such men are hot, sexually-desirable studs, rather than just possessive of some financial, physical, emotional, professional, and/or cultural power over their targets. And, a target's accommodation to this reality the man perceives as willingness (unless they're of the type that gets off on the unwillingness, which many are), when it's really just a need to exist within the parameters of whatever rape culture shithole the man has power.

In the #MeToo era, as women (primarily) continue to shine a light on the abuser who is also an artiste, and usually also a man, we keep having to have national conversations about the vital need to separate the art from the artist lest, perhaps, men become banned from creating art altogether or something. Don't forget, after all, lost artistic potential in men is a human rights violation of the first order. Lost potential in women is just another ho-hum day ending in a "y."

As men experience temporary or no consequences for their behavior unless, say, like Larry Nassar the tally of human beings they victimize numbers into the hundreds, I am increasingly disturbed by the backlash to #MeToo that demands a collective pretense that a man mistreating a woman is irrelevant to his professional character, competence, and integrity.

As women bare detail after detail of their traumas, the backlash crowd starts first from the assumption that cushy jobs are certain men's birthright and second from the assumption that even if women might have "experienced distress," the men's pain is simply the more compelling pain for us to concern ourselves with.

Of course, in that department, the men get a huge assist from the reality that, quite likely, women sharing their sexual traumas is jerk-off material for millions of men in this country who consume pornography centered around the degradation of women, including in all likelihood those who are helping shape public opinion about the "excesses" of #MeToo. Consider, that many of the high-profile #MeToo cases involve attractive, thin cishet white women is a reflection of the complicated reality that the pain of attractive, thin cishet white women matters more in the court of public opinion than other women's pain, that no woman is safe, and that a lot of misogynistic sadists exist in the US who love nothing more than reading about "hot" powerful, uppity women being humiliated.

So tell me, how, exactly, is art separate from the human beings who both create it and live, love, breathe, eat, sleep, laugh, fuck, rape, and terrorize within rape culture?

Rape culture rigs systems against women and is one of the most significant labor issues in the nation. If an artist isn't aware of, contemplating, and interrogating the power dynamics within the culture in which they live, then I believe they are infinitely more susceptible to replicating those power dynamics in their work and process, and because of that, I highly doubt such an artiste would be any woman's fucking comrade.

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The Abusive Artist Doesn't Want to Be Separated from His Art

[Content Note: Rape culture; sexual assault; statutory rape.]

Yesterday, the Hollywood Reporter published a long profile of Babi Christina Engelhardt, a now 59-year-old woman who had, in her words, an affair with Woody Allen that began when she was 16 and he was 41, and lasted eight years. (The age of consent in New York is 17.) I'm not going to link directly to the piece; it's easy enough to find if you're so inclined.

Manhattan, Allen's 1979 film about a 42-year-old man (played by Allen) having an affair with a 17-year-old girl (played by Mariel Hemingway), has long been rumored to have been based on real events from Allen's life. And now we know: It was based on his relationship with Engelhardt.

On Twitter, I noted: "I hope that everyone who has insisted on making 'separate art from the artist' arguments reads this shit about how Woody Allen made a movie about the abuse he was committing in real life, and then sticks their vile apologia in a blender."


Allen is an artist who does not want to be separated from his art. To the absolute contrary, his art is about his life. Even more specifically, his art is about normalizing the abuse he perpetrates in his life, laundering his predation into romance. And he doesn't even do it by concealing or softening the abuse, but simply by telling the story with witty banter that makes it palatable to audiences who are themselves primed by the rape culture to tolerate abuse of women and girls, given the slightest opportunity to view it as something else.

And he is hardly alone: Bill Cosby told jokes about drugging women decades before he was convicted of assaulting a woman he'd drugged. Louis CK featured himself as an attempted rapist on his own show, which included his target asking him not to jerk off on her.

In instance after instance of men creating art in which they cast themselves as abusers, people who object are told that we must "separate the artist from his art."

But this is the truth about abusive men who make art about their abuse: They don't want to be separated from their art.

They want their art to serve as confession, and they want acclaim to serve as absolution.

Critics who laud, audiences who keep paying, collaborators who keep working with them, studios who keep funding them — all of us inveigled by the artist to be part of the conspiracy with the promise of more great art.

He will keep us entertained, as long as we all keep regarding it as entertainment, and nothing more.

It is a bargain far too many of us are willing to make, and remain committed to even as it becomes clear that the artist is his art; that we are not passive viewers of something neutral, but active participants in the whitewashed telling of abuse as tales of sex and love. The retelling doesn't work without someone to listen, and believe.

It doesn't work without someone to argue that we must separate the art from the artist, while refusing to do precisely that. To truly separate the abusive artist from his art is to see that both have no place in a culture where we claim that we will not abide abuse.

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Michael Flynn to Be Sentenced Today

MSNBC's Kyle Griffin reports: "Reminder: Trump's former national security adviser, Michael Flynn, is set to be sentenced today for lying to FBI investigators. He will be the first member of the Trump administration to be sentenced."

That's a good observation. George Papadopoulos, Paul Manafort, and Michael Cohen have been sentenced, but none of them worked for the administration — only the campaign. Flynn is indeed the first member of the administration who will be sentenced as part of Special Counsel Bob Mueller's probe.

I'm seeing a lot of sympathy being expressed for Michael Flynn in the political press today. It's always interesting (cough) to see with whom Beltway journalists place their empathy.

I don't have the slightest bit of compassion for Flynn. He is a traitorous wreck. I'm angry about what he did, and I honestly cannot understand how anyone who considers themselves a patriot isn't angry at him, too.

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Suzy: "If your teenage self was suddenly transported to your current body/life, what would your teen self do first?"

Go absolutely bananas at having instant access to ALL THE MUSIC IN THE ENTIRE WORLD and lock herself in a bedroom for a month just listening to everything.

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Fundraising Reminder

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In case you missed it, last Wednesday I posted Shakesville's End-of-Year Fundraiser. There is more information at the link, but the basic gist is this: If you value my work here and/or on Twitter, please remember that Shakesville is run exclusively on donations. I need your support, if you are able to chip in.

Thank you so much to everyone who has already donated and/or set up (or increased) a subscription. I am so appreciative.

I think I have sent a thank-you note to everyone, although it's possible I inadvertently missed someone because my inbox is the Upside Down. If you haven't received a personal thank-you, and you would like one, please let me know, and I will make sure to send one!

This will be one of a couple reminders I run this week for the end-of-year fundraiser, which has become a critical fundraiser for me, and then we'll go back to every other month reminders.

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Monday Links!

This list o' links brought to you by cufflinks.

Recommended Reading:

catherine lizette gonzalez at Colorlines: [Content Note: Police brutality; guns] Florida Police Can Use Stand Your Ground Defense in Deadly Shootings, Court Rules

Isabelle Lee at Reappropriate: [CN: Harassment; racism; homophobia] I'm an Asian American Student at Columbia University — and Nimesh Patel's Mic Needed to be Cut

Kaylah Jackson at Good Black News: U.S. Armed Forces All-Female African American WWII Unit Honored with Monument at Fort Leavenworth

Jean Chen Ho at Asian American Writers' Workshop: Rituals of Style: An Interview with Yumi Sakugawa

CB at Celebitchy: Organizational Expert Marie Kondo's New Netflix Show Looks Wonderful

Jon Porter at the Verge: Delivery Robot Spontaneously Bursts into Flames in California

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Cassandra's Lament, Part Wev in an Endless Series

For those who aren't on Twitter and/or can't view it at work, I did a thread earlier today:

This is your regular reminder that women who have long been calling politics right (and were gaslighted and harassed as a result) and who now point out that we've long been right aren't gloating. We're fucking grieving. And we're urging people to stop making the same mistakes.

Also remember, every time you hear framing that suggests no one could have seen this coming, it's bullshit. There were people who did see it, who screamed about it, who risked their professional credibility to try to raise its visibility. Most of them were women.

And the reason I (and others) keep pointing out that most of the Cassandras of the Trump Era are women is because it's relevant to the fact that it made us more easily dismissed as "crazy," "overwrought," "hysterical," etc. Established misogynist silencing tropes were damaging.

The women on whom that damage was inflicted includes, by the way, Hillary Clinton, the Cassandra with the biggest and baddest platform, who used it to try to warn us, urgently and persistently, about both Trump's collusion and white supremacy.

Find women who have long been right — and listen to them now.

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#365feministselfie: Week 51

I am again participating in the #365feministselfie project, now in its fifth year, and promised a thread for others to share selfies and/or talk about the project, visibility generally, self-appreciation, and related topics. So here is a thread for Week 51!

A few of my selfies over the last two and a half weeks:

image of me sitting in a chair wearing a grey t-shirt and glasses, with my hair down; Olivia the White Farm Cat is sitting on my lap and I'm petting her
My last selfie with Livs. It doesn't make me sad; it makes me smile. ♥

image of me from the shoulders up wearing a green floral top, a beige cardigan; and grey-framed glasses, sitting in front of my stone mantle, smiling
Hanging in there.

image of me wearing a pink tank top, with my hair pulled back and glasses on; leaning toward Zelda the Black and Tan Mutt, who is sitting on the couch beside me and leaning against me while she gazes out the window
Zelly just hopped up next to me, leaned against me, and
commenced gazing out the window, because she is TOO CUTE.

image of me from mid-chest up, wearing a lavender sweater, a stone necklace, and brown tortoiseshell glasses frames with blue highlights, with my hair down
New specs.

image of my face in a mirror, peeking from behind my phone case, which features cute artwork of two sea otters floating on their backs, holding paws
Making an effort not to cover my cute phone case:
Two grinning sea otters, holding hands. It makes me happy!

image of me standing underneath a sign that says NUTCRACKER, grinning and pointing upwards at it
Out with a friend and the ice cream flavor of the day was
Nutcracker, which coincidentally is my flavor every day!

image of me standing in a mirror, from the waist up, wearing light blue jeans and a blue-green top with colorful floral embroidery
Content on a lazy Sunday.

Please feel welcome and encouraged to share your own selfies in comments, or share your thoughts on the project, or solicit encouragement or advice, or do whatever else feels best for you to participate, if you are inclined to do so!

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Daily Dose of Cute

I don't often get good photos that show the tortie markings on Sophie's back, but here is a lucky shot where her red tortoiseshell bits were lit up perfectly:

image of Sophie the Torbie Cat standing on a pillow on the couch, looking up at me plaintively

Such a plaintive look! "Pet me!" Of course I accommodated that request immediately.

image of Sophie in the same place, while I scratch her head

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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