The Time of Their Lives

This is legitimately the most epic first dance by a couple at their wedding that I have ever seen. IT IS AMAZING. Newly-married husbands Noah and PJ surprised the delighted and very enthusiastic guests at their reception with an elaborate number that must have taken so much practice!

(The fact that they could even get through the rehearsals and look like they're still having so much fun together on their wedding day bodes well for their marriage, lol.)

Congratulations, Noah and PJ! And thank you for sharing your joyful dance with the world!


Video Description: Two young thin men who both appear to be white and are wearing wedding suits are standing in the middle of a dance floor under a brightly lint tent at night. Wedding guests stand near the edge of the dance floor; a DJ booth is off to one side.

As the music begins, they are holding each other close and slowly swaying, gazing into each other's eyes and talking and smiling. The song playing is Morgana King's "It's a Quiet Thing." Suddenly, the audio crackles and cuts out. They look over at the DJ, feigning confusion and annoyance, as the crowd makes disappointed sounds.

Suddenly "Conga" by Gloria Estefan and Miami Sound Machine comes on. As the crowd laughs and cheers, Noah and PJ begin doing the conga! And not like the shitty, awkward conga that most of us would do, but a FUCKING CONGA! The crowd screams with delight. So many spins! They are conga-ing their butts off!

The music suddenly switches to "Gonna Make You Sweat" by C+C Music Factory. They stop and remove their jackets, tossing them off the dance floor, while the crowd goes wild. Then they break into all the '90s dances you could ever want: The Hammer shimmy, the running man, the sprinkler — and a little modern backpack kid dancing for good measure.

Then we get just a moment of Madonna's "Vogue," to which they vogue as the crowd cheers, before quickly moving on to "Get Down Tonight" by KC and the Sunshine Band. They pop their collars and now it's disco time, baby! A little electric slide, a little Saturday Night Travolta, lots of hip wiggling.

Then the collars go back down and the classic black, white-tipped canes come out for "Puttin' on the Ritz" from Young Frankenstein: The Musical. It's a throwback tap routine, with all the fast and fancy footwork, performed with Broadway flair. They end with their canes in the air, and the crowd roars, imagining that was the big finish. BUT IT'S NOT.

"(I've Had) The Time of My Life" from Dirty Dancing, by Bill Medley and Jennifer Warnes, begins to quietly play. The canes go off to the sides, and then they meet back together in the middle of the dance floor, where they begin with the choreography from the finale of the film to cheers and applause. It's a perfect recreation of the scene, even down to Jennifer Grey's flirty kick and waggly arms in the air.

They come together for a kiss, then back up to opposite corners of the dance floor, and then OMG IT'S THE LIFT!!! THEY'RE DOING THE LIFT!!!

screenshot from the video of the lift, with one man holding the other high over his head in the middle of the dance floor
It's a triumph!

The crowd hollers, and they share a big old romantic smooch, then wave everyone onto the dance floor to join them. ♥ ♥ ♥

[H/T to Andy.]

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Are you doing anything fun for Halloween?

I'm not doing anything unexpected. Just handing out candy to adorable kids! And I'm really looking forward to it!

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Wednesday Links!

This list o' links brought to you by ghosts and ghouls!

Recommended Reading:

Heather Davidson at Teen Vogue: [Content Note: Racism; appropriation; abuse] How Racism Against Native People Is Normalized, from Mascots to Costumes

Hanna Tveite at Net-a-Porter: The Change Agent: Supermodel, Makeup Entrepreneur, Humanitarian, and Champion of Black Women's Rights, Iman Is a True Fashion Icon

Meagan Deuling at CBC News: With 1 Word a Day, This Man Is Teaching the World How to Speak Inuktitut

Lauren Weber and Damon Dahlen at the Huffington Post: [CN: Childhood illness; disablism; class warfare] A Brutal Clock: Amber Olsen Races Against Time to Fund a Gene Therapy That Might Save Her 5-Year-Old Daughter from a Rare Genetic Disease

Leah Penniman at Bon Appetit: [CN: White supremacy] Why Farming Is an Act of Defiance for People of Color

Sameer Rao at Colorlines: Ava DuVernay to Direct Prince Documentary

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Trump Says He Will Send up to 15k Troops to Border

[Content Note: Nativism; border militarization.]

Last week, the Trump Regime announced its plan to deploy 800 troops to the southern border in anticipation of the arrival of a caravan of migrants fleeing violence in Central America.

Then, on Monday, that number jumped to 5,000.

Now, it's jumped again, with Donald Trump saying he will double or even triple that number, per NBC News: "Trump says number of U.S. troops sent to U.S.-Mexico border could rise to 'anywhere between 10,000 and 15,000 military personnel' — a range that would be similar to the number of U.S. troops deployed in Afghanistan."

And, yes, it's a political stunt ahead of the midterms. It's also further evidence of Trump's unwavering fealty to nativism, white nationalism, and fascism.

Even if this unfathomable number of troops are never actually deployed to the border, the mere fact of the threat itself is terrifying.

And worth our vocal resistance.

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OMG SHOEZ

Listen, the news is tough, and we all need moments of escape from the horror to recuperate and prepare for the next onslaught, and I can talk about shoes all the livelong day, so welcome to the OMG SHOEZ thread.

Got a favorite pair of shoes you want to share? Bought a new pair about which you're super excited? Have a recommendation to make, or want to caution us away from a purchase you regret? Want to solicit suggestions for a specific event, a foot issue, an elusive something for which you've been hunting? Having trouble finding something particular on a budget? Have at it in comments!

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I got these awhile ago, but they felt appropriately Halloweenie, since they have a bit of witchiness about them:

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LifeStride's Fanilla in black.

I got these on deep sale (64% off!) at 6pm.com for only $18 — and there are still some left. I'm not sure what sizes remain available, though. That's the the thing about these discount sites: Sometimes you get lucky, and sometimes you don't.

The Fanilla is quite comfy for a heel, which is what I like about LifeStride. They do a decent job of making walkable heels.

So, that's what up with me! What's up with you?

(As always: I am not affiliated with nor am I receiving compensation from any of the brands or shoe retailers mentioned in this thread. Any shoes and/or retailers I recommend is just because I really like 'em!)

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Daily Dose of Cute

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A perfect moment of Zelly licking her nose, captured!

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 650

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by me: I Write Letters and Jamal Khashoggi: So Many Questions Remain and Tech Companies Still Don't Get It.

Here are some more things in the news today...

[Content Note: Synagogue shooting; anti-Semitism; nativism. Covers entire section.]

Donald Trump definitely went to Pittsburgh yesterday, even though leaders there begged him not to come. And it went about as well as you'd expect.

Dominique Jackson at Raw Story: Trump's Motorcade Forced to Turn Around After Thousands of Protesters Flood Pittsburgh Streets. "During CNN's Jake Tapper's Tuesday show, national correspondent Miguel Marquez said that he was shocked at how 'how big' and 'how quickly' the protest against Trump's visit grew. According to Marquez, there were two different protests taking place. Marquez said that protest he was at, which was about a block away from the Tree of Life synagogue, was not planned 24 hours [earlier]. According to CNN, police had tried to clear path for Trump's motorcade." Unsuccessfully. So Trump was forced to reroute. Wow. Also: Good.

Naturally, it only got worse from there.

Staff at the Daily Beast: Trump Boasts About 'Great Respect' Shown to Him in Pittsburgh. "Donald Trump has boasted about being treated 'very nicely' and with 'great respect' by the people of Pittsburgh while attempting to dismiss the protests that greeted him Tuesday as 'fake news.' Demonstrators filled several blocks during Trump's visit to the Tree of Life synagogue, where a gunman killed 11 people Saturday in the deadliest anti-Semitic attack in U.S. history. In a Wednesday morning tweet about his visit, Trump insisted he got a warm reception, failed to mention the 11 victims, and then went on to attack the media for reporting on the protests that happened."

Aaron Rupar at ThinkProgress: Trump Keeps Pushing 'Invasion' Narrative That Motivated Pittsburgh Gunman to Kill 11 People.
The shooter who murdered 11 people in Pittsburgh on Saturday was motivated by a narrative pushed by Fox News and Trump allies that a caravan of people traveling through Mexico toward the U.S. border represented a potential "invasion" of the country.

On Wednesday — hours removed from visiting the synagogue where the shooting took place — the president made clear that he has no plans to stop pushing that narrative, despite the bloodshed it helped inspire 96 hours earlier.

"Our military is being mobilized at the Southern Border," Trump tweeted. "Many more troops coming. We will NOT let these Caravans, which are also made up of some very bad thugs and gang members, into the U.S. Our Border is sacred, must come in legally. TURN AROUND!"

Trump posted that tweet minutes after one in which he described the caravan using language that is usually reserved for invading armies.

"The Caravans are made up of some very tough fighters and people. Fought back hard and viciously against Mexico at Northern Border before breaking through," Trump tweeted, misleadingly, as the clashes he refers to in fact took place along Mexico's southern border.
The connection between the caravan and anti-Semitism, in case you've managed to miss the vile rightwing talking point, is that Holocaust survivor George Soros is funding the migrants. It's a narrative that persists even despite reports that the people making their way to the U.S.'s southern border can't afford to buy water or purchase new shoes as theirs fall apart after walking thousands of miles.

Brad Heath, Matt Wynn, and Jessica Guynn at USA Today: How a Lie About George Soros and the Migrant Caravan Multiplied Online. "Lies, of course, are not new either. But social media can turn a breeze into a hurricane. It carried this falsehood to millions with a few taps on a screen. It also left a distinct trail that makes it possible to follow how lies spread and who told them, a map of their trajectory from the darker corners of the internet to the political mainstream."

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It's still a steady stream of amazing news and terrible news from campaign trails across the country.

In good news... Laura Bassett at the Huffington Post: [CN: Description of racist harassment of campaigners at link] Georgia Domestic Workers Mobilize for Stacey Abrams in the Birthplace of Their Movement.
On a Thursday in October, six black women wearing bright orange T-shirts and jeans pull into this squeaky-clean north Atlanta suburb just before sundown, after what should have been a half-hour drive from the city took more than twice as long in traffic. They are domestic workers by day ― nannies, housekeepers, and home care workers ― but they spend their evenings knocking on doors for Stacey Abrams, who would be the first black female governor in the history of the nation.

...More than 300 domestic workers in Georgia ― nearly all black women, plus two men ― are running the largest independently funded ground game in the state ahead of this historic election. Their organization, Care in Action, is the political arm of the National Domestic Workers Alliance, which represents 2.5 million domestic workers across the country. They're talking to voters of color in four critical counties, from the Atlanta suburbs to rural southwest Georgia, that could feasibly turn from red to blue if more non-white voters showed up at the polls.

While the proximate goal is getting Abrams elected, the domestic workers' efforts are a continuation of an activist movement that began in earnest at the midpoint of the last century. For the most part written out of the popular history of postwar social movements, domestic workers, in fact, were a driving force in the fight for labor and civil rights. They played a central, if largely invisible role in the Montgomery, Alabama, bus boycott in 1955 and 1956. "Beginning in the 1960s, household workers organized forums, spoke publicly, circulated pamphlets, gave testimonials, and lobbied legislatures," writes Premilla Nadasen in Household Workers Unite. What began as "a grassroots movement of domestic workers," Nadasen adds, "evolved into a mass movement which fundamentally redefined black women's relationship to the world of work."

"Yes, we want to get Stacey elected, but it's not just about getting a person elected," says Nikema Williams, a state senator and the Georgia state director of Care in Action. "It's about reclaiming our power, reclaiming our voice, and making sure that our issues are uplifted, because we are living these issues every day as women of color here in the South."
This is what living in and fighting for a democracy looks like.

In bad news... Andy Towle at Towleroad: [CN: Homophobia; anti-choicery] Dozens of Democratic House Candidate's Signs Defaced with 'Gay Lover' and 'Baby Killer'. "Dozens of signs for Perry Gershon, the Democratic candidate for Congress in New York's 1st District of Suffolk, Long Island, noticed approximately 50 of his campaign yard signs had gone missing. They later returned, defaced with the words 'GAY LOVER' and 'BABY KILLER.' ...News12 reports: 'Gershon's opponent, Republican incumbent Lee Zeldin, denounced the defaced signs, and says his campaign has nothing to do with them.'" In the sense that his campaign didn't personally deface the signs, that may be strictly true. But this shit doesn't happen in a vacuum. And of course Zeldin's record is both homophobic and anti-choice.

And in depressing election interference news... Kevin Poulsen at the Daily Beast: Americans Are Easy Marks for Russian Trolls, According to New Data. "An examination of Twitter's new dump of Russian troll data this month shows that the [Internet Research Agency]'s tactics worked far better in the U.S. than in Russia or the Eastern European nations where the troll farm cut its teeth. English-language tweets by the IRA's sockpuppet accounts enjoyed nine times the engagement than tweets in Russian and other languages. And, remarkably, Americans fell for the Russian interference even harder after the 2016 presidential election than before." Fucking hell.

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[CN: Murder] Louisa Loveluck and Kareem Fahim at the Washington Post: Turkish Prosecutor Says Khashoggi Was Strangled and Dismembered in Saudi Consulate. "Turkey's public prosecutor said Wednesday that Jamal Khashoggi was strangled and dismembered upon arrival at the Saudi Consulate in Istanbul earlier this month as part of 'advance plans' to kill the prominent Saudi journalist and dispose of his body. The statement, delivered as Saudi Arabia's own prosecutor left Istanbul for Riyadh, appeared to mark the most conclusive official description to date of what happened to the prominent journalist and Washington Post contributing columnist when he entered the diplomatic mission on Oct. 2." But still no information on where his body was taken, or where it might be found.

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[CN: Nativism. Covers entire section.]

Jorge Ramos at Splinter: The Children of the Caravan. "I've seen the ignorant, xenophobic rants on social media about the caravan. They're terrorists in disguise. They're criminals. They're invaders. They've been sent to invade and destabilize the United States. ...According to a United Nations estimate, there are about 2,000 children in the caravan of perhaps 7,000 Central American migrants trying to make their way to the U.S. border with Mexico; the exact number is impossible to determine. ...Terrorists wouldn't be carrying their children across entire countries. Terrorists wouldn't be pushing strollers in their slippers or their worn-out shoes, traveling over 1,000 miles in temperatures nearing 100 degrees Fahrenheit, trying to reach Texas or California."

Julián Aguilar and Teo Armus at the Texas Tribune: Texas' Border Lawmakers Say They're in the Dark on Troop Deployment. "A day after federal officials announced that active-duty military will descend on the border to thwart the caravan of Central American asylum-seekers slowly approaching the United States, border lawmakers said they've been left in the dark about any further details surrounding the estimated 5,200-troop deployment. ...So far, [U.S. Rep. Filemon Vela's] office said it doesn't have more information than what officials told reporters on Monday, when Air Force Gen. Terrence O'Shaughnessy, the chief of U.S. Northern Command, and U.S. Customs and Border Protection Commissioner Kevin K. McAleenan announced the deployment." JFC.

Tina Vasquez at Rewire.News: Here's Why ICE Is 'Mass Releasing' Immigrant Families from Detention Centers. "Federal immigration authorities are quietly releasing an unusual number of immigrant families from detention centers, 'dumping [them] on border city streets,' and leaving some stranded at bus stations in the middle of the night. The Trump administration's 'mass release' of immigrant families is in anticipation of hundreds of asylum-seeking families coming to the U.S.-Mexico border in the coming weeks. ...News outlets from San Diego to El Paso are reporting that the Trump administration has begun 'shifting the burden' of managing immigrant families on the border 'to local organizations and cities across the southwest border,' as the Los Angeles Times reported."

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Deborah Netburn at the LA Times: [CN: Anti-choicery] When a Woman Wants an Abortion But Can't Get It, the Children She Already Has Suffer the Consequences. "When women are denied abortions, it doesn't just affect their lives, it also affects the lives of the kids they already have, according to a study published Tuesday in the Journal of Pediatrics. The new work finds that the young children of women who are refused access to an abortion are less likely to hit development milestones on time, and more likely to live in poverty, than the children of women who sought an abortion and got one. 'The research here is clear,' said Diana Greene Foster, a demographer at the University of California San Francisco who led the work. 'Restricting abortion access doesn't just harm women. It harms their children as well.'" Which is hardly surprising, since 73% of women who seek abortions cite "can't afford a baby now" as the reason for the termination.

Brian Kahn at Earther: [CN: Moving GIF at link] An Iceberg Five Times the Size of Manhattan Just Popped Off West Antarctica. "The Pine Island Glacier has been breaking off monstrous icebergs over the past five years, presenting a worrying sign that the West Antarctic is destabilizing. The latest occurred this weekend. Satellite imagery shows an iceberg roughly 115 square miles — five times the size of Manhattan — breaking off the front of the glacier. ...In the 2000s, so-called iceberg calving events of this magnitude used to occur roughly every five years. But since 2013, there have been four calving events including one last year." Oh.

Jennifer Dobner at the Guardian: U.S. Insurer Sends Public Employees to Mexico for Cheaper Drugs. "Owing to the soaring cost of medicine in the US, the state of Utah is offering its public employees a new incentive: $500 and a trip to Mexico to buy prescription drugs at a cheaper price. ...Currently the plan applies to a specific set of expensive drugs used in the treatment of arthritis, autoimmune disorders, psoriasis, Crohn's disease, and prostate cancer. According to the Salt Lake Tribune, in the U.S. a 28-day supply of the MS drug Avonexruns about $6,700, while in Tijuana it might cost approximately $2,200. 'Everybody loves a good deal,' said Norm Thurston, the Republican congressman who sponsored the 'right to shop' legislation."

Republicans: OMG THE SOUTHERN BORDER IS A NIGHTMARE SHITSHOW BECAUSE OF MIGRANT GANGS AND TERRORISTS EEEEEEEEEE IT'S SO DANGEROUS THAT WE HAVE TO BUILD A WALL CLOSE THE BORDER SEND TROOPS POOP OUR PANTS! Also Republicans: Head to the border to buy your life-saving meds, 'k?

*jumps into Christmas tree*

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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Tech Companies Still Don't Get It

[Content Note: Harassment; ghosting.]

At the Guardian, Alex Hern has written about technology companies' new interest in communication prompts, developed in part to address "ghosting," i.e. when someone stops interacting without explanation.

Two dating apps have announced plans to use the season to crack down on the rudest of social media villains, the ghoster: the person who enthusiastically replies to your messages, starts a friendly chat and then, one day, just … stops.

Earlier this week, Bumble, the woman-friendly dating service, announced it had created the post of "ghosting specialist," bringing the journalist and author Kate Leaver in to hear confessions, dispense advice, and be a shoulder to cry on for those whose attempts to find love ended with messages echoing in the void.

Another dating service, Badoo, has gone one step further, announcing plans to prompt would-be ghosts to reply to their ghostees, with a series of suggested responses, such as: "Hey, sorry for the late reply. When are you free to meet?" or "Hey, I think you're great, but I don't see us as a match. Take care!"

...Cynical or not, dating apps are only the latest companies to nudge users to participate more, under the guise of helping them "connect" with each other. Google, for instance, recently updated Gmail to introduce a feature called "nudges." The service, which is on by default, prompts users to reply to emails that they "might have forgotten to respond to" and to "follow up" on emails they sent that never received a reply.
This is disturbing to me for a lot of reasons, not least of which is that a lot of women "ghost" men who have been harassing them, so being repeatedly urged to restore contact could be triggering.

The "ghosting specialist" Leaver justifies her position, which is less objectionable than automated prompts, by saying she thinks "people are too frightened, or too lazy, or too cowardly to have the difficult conversations that need to be had. There has been some pretty extreme psychological damage for people who are living without any explanation as to why they've been ghosted because we tend to fill in the silence with our own insecurity."

Which is true and fair, though that only addresses one type of ghosting and conveniently leaves out all the kinds that are centered around drawing boundaries, often because of abusive interactions.

I'm deeply sympathetic to how shitty being ghosted can feel to someone who doesn't understand why. But I don't believe that automated prompts will solve that problem. Someone who doesn't want to give an explanation isn't going to be coerced by technology into giving one.

"Ghosting" happens offline, too, of course. And, generally, when we talk about ghosting offline, people intuitively understand that we all cease communicating with other people for all sorts of reasons, and there's no universal fix-it, nor does every case need to be "fixed."

But somehow that very basic understanding of human interaction goes out the window when there's a profit motive for failing to understand it.

And, once again, abuse on these platforms is minimized or altogether ignored, concealed behind some bullshit explanation of caring about people's feelings, when the only reason for this shit is to keep people using products that are harmful, either as a bug or a feature.

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Jamal Khashoggi: So Many Questions Remain

[Content Note: Murder; descriptions of violence at link.]

The editorial board of the Washington Post published an important editorial late yesterday, to keep focus on the murder of Jamal Khashoggi as the perpetrators certainly hope that they will escape accountability as public attention wanes: "Jamal Khashoggi Was Brutally Murdered Four Weeks Ago; We're Still Waiting for Answers."

Jamal Khashoggi walked in to the Saudi Consulate four weeks ago on Tuesday to obtain a simple document allowing him to marry. Instead, he was brutally murdered by a team of 15 agents sent from Riyadh. Saudi authorities now acknowledge the crime was premeditated. Yet much about it remains undisclosed, including what happened to Mr. Khashoggi's body, which has not been returned to his family.

Rather than answer those questions, the Saudi government — and its de facto accomplices in the Trump administration — have gone silent, evidently hoping that demands for accountability will fade away now that the story has been pushed from the front pages. That should not be allowed to happen.
The editors rightly note that the Saudi government knows what happened to Khashoggi and are avoiding disclosing that information with the insulting ruse of pretending to investigate what happened.
The Saudis are deflecting questions by pretending to investigate what happened; the kingdom's chief prosecutor traveled to Istanbul on Monday to meet his Turkish counterpart. Worse, rather than demand a genuinely independent investigation, the Trump administration is playing along. It has withheld its own conclusions about the murder while pretending to believe that the Saudis can conduct a credible probe — even though a chief suspect is the kingdom's own autocratic ruler.
We need to keep making noise, even though there is little hope that the Republican Congressional majority will do as they should and demand answers of this administration and devise adequate punitive measures against Saudi Arabia.

We need to keep saying loudly that we want to know what happened to Jamal Khashoggi and want justice for his family, even if it feels futile.

To quote dear Maud: "There are times when you must speak, not because you are going to change the other person, but because if you don't speak, they have changed you."

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I Write Letters

Dear Members of the Political Press Who Should Definitely Know Better by Now:

1. Both sides are not the same. Please stop pretending that they are. This is a dangerous game. It's been a dangerous game you've been playing for many years, which is one of the significant reasons we've landed on the precipice on which we currently find our democracy precariously perched. To downplay the eliminationism of the right under the auspices of maintaining "objectivity" is not objective at all — it has been and continues to be a profoundly dishonest misrepresentation of reality.

2. Donald Trump is very serious about his vile nativist agenda. Please stop pretending that he isn't. He entered politics with an aggressive and relentless birther campaign against President Obama, and he has consistently engaged in rank nativism ever since. He's fucking serious.

3. This is not a normal presidency. Please get the fuck on board with that fact already. We're two years in, and Trump has repeatedly demonstrated he has zero desire to be constrained by the rule of law. Just because something is not legal — overriding a Constitutional amendment with an executive order, say — doesn't mean that Trump isn't going to try it. Stop pretending that "it's not legal" matters to this president and his party. The whole reason that Mitch McConnell held open 100+ federal court seats plus a SCOTUS seat for the next GOP president is so the laws won't have to matter for Republicans anymore.

This is not a complete list of shit you need to fix tout de suite, but it's what is on my mind this morning.

Sincerely and urgently,
Liss

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker bellist: "Carpet, hardwood, tile, or linoleum (or modern equivalent)?"

A little of each!

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Your Best Photograph

If you're a photographer, even if a very amateur one (like myself), and you've got a photo or photos you'd like to share, here's your thread for that!

It doesn't really have to be your best photograph — just one you like!

Please be sure if your photo contains people other than yourself, that you have the explicit consent of the people in the photos before posting them.

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Here's a photo I took last weekend in Hamilton, New Jersey, of a tree showing off its autumn foliage in spectacular fashion:

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Quote of the Day

[Content Note: Nativism; border militarization.]

"If Mattis does not believe the migrants are a threat that warrants tasking 5,000 active troops to the border, he should say so and resign. If he does believe it, he should explain why, in detail before Congress, immediately. If Republicans in Congress won't put Mattis in the witness chair, he should walk to the Pentagon briefing room and do it himself. The Department of Defense's active participation in such an obvious stunt sets a dangerous precedent and abuse of our military." — Kelly Magsamen, Vice President for National Security and International Policy at the Center for American Progress and former senior official in the U.S. Department of Defense and on the National Security Staff of both President George W. Bush and President Barack Obama, in a piece at Defense One bluntly headlined "Secretary Mattis, Defend This or Resign."

A pointed reminder that Donald Trump isn't critically subverting our democracy into a fascist state on his own. He's got lots of help.

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What I'm Watching

This is a thread to share all the good things you're watching at the moment, or have recently watched. Serialized shows on broadcast or streaming; films; digital shorts; stand-up; documentaries; performances — whatever! Tell us what you're watching and enjoying these days.

I am still more excited about The Good Place than just about anything else on TV or streaming these days. I LOVE IT SO MUCH! (Our whole house loves it.) I look forward to each new episode, and I have to pause it at least once every week to exclaim at Iain, "HOW DOES THIS SHOW EVEN EXIST?!" because I still can't quite believe that it does.

image of Tahani, Eleanor, Jason, and Chidi, looking quizzical in an episode of The Good Place

I love these characters so much, and I love Michael and Janet and the Judge, and everyone else.

And I love the writers.

Though every episode is really better than the next, I have to say that "Jeremy Bearimy," episode 5 of season 3 (two weeks ago) was a real standout for me.

[SPOILERS BELOW!]

Because I cry at everything, I get choked up during nearly every episode for one reason or another, but it was full-tilt tears during "Jeremy Bearimy" when Eleanor suggests to the rest of the Soul Squad that they give themselves purpose by spending the rest of their remaining days working together to help other people get to the Good Place.

"How do we make the most of whatever we've got, for ourselves and for others?"

Well, isn't that the fucking question for us all.

I can't wait to see Eleanor, Tahani, Chidi, and Jason try to figure out the answer for themselves.

Anyway! What are you watching these days?

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Daily Dose of Cute

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A dining room chair in the sunshine is one of Livs' favorite napping spots.

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 649

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by me: Trump Wants to End Birthright Citizenship and Pence's Offensive Tree of Life Victims' Remembrance and Climate Change Driving Mass Migration.

Here are some more things in the news today...

In good news for Pennsylvania, which hopefully bodes well for other states facing redistricting cases in future:


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[Content Note: Tree of Life Synagogue violence. Covers whole section.]

Seung Min Kim and Josh Dawsey at the Washington Post: Congressional Leaders Decline to Join Trump in Visit to Pittsburgh After Massacre. "Trump will visit Pittsburgh later Tuesday to pay tribute to the 11 victims of the mass shooting at a synagogue there — yet he is traveling with no official public itinerary, little planning, and without congressional and local leaders whom the White House invited on the trip. The White House asked the top four congressional leaders — House Speaker Paul D. Ryan (R-Wis.), House Minority Leader Nancy Pelosi (D-Calif.), Senate Majority Leader Mitch McConnell (R-Ky.), and Senate Minority Leader Charles E. Schumer (D-N.Y.) — to accompany Trump and first lady Melania Trump to Pittsburgh but all declined, according to three officials familiar with the invitations."

And while some of that might be because appearing with Trump is considered toxic by many voters, a bigger part is almost certainly that Pittsburgh Mayor Bill Peduto "urged Trump not to visit Pittsburgh until after the funerals for the victims had concluded, saying, 'all attention [Tuesday] should be on the victims.' Peduto also added: 'We do not have enough public safety officials to provide enough protection at the funerals and to be able at the same time draw attention to a potential presidential visit.'" But Trump's going anyway. Because he's a piece of shit.

Frank Dale at ThinkProgress: Complainer-in-Chief Trump Whines to Fox News That Obama Wasn't Blamed for Charleston Church Massacre. "Trump complained that his predecessor Barack Obama wasn't criticized for the 2015 mass shooting at the Emanuel African Methodist Episcopal Church in Charleston, South Carolina during an interview with Fox News on Monday. ...Referring to media reports that connected Trump's rhetoric with the attempted bomber, whose van was covered with stickers supporting the president and taking aim at numerous Democrats and the media, Trump said, 'They didn't do that with President Obama with the church, the horrible situation with the church. They didn't do that.'" BECAUSE OBAMA WASN'T A WHITE SUPREMACIST!!!


I'm so annoyed that he even had to do this. I can't imagine how distressing it was for him to hear his song used this way.

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[CN: Nativism] CNBC's John Harwood notes some troubling events from the White House briefing yesterday: "WH press sec Sanders declines to rule out suspension of habeas corpus in effort to repel 'invasion' at America's Southern border. She also refused to rule out suspension of 'posse comitatus' restrictions on deployment of US military to enfore laws within American borders." JFC.

[CN: War on agency] Amanda Michelle Gomez at ThinkProgress: Patients Are Being Incarcerated for Do-It-Yourself Abortions; These Lawyers Want to Change That.
Purvi Patel was sentenced to 20 years in prison for allegedly terminating her own pregnancy with medication she ordered online. By the time the Indiana Court of Appeals overturned the feticide conviction in 2016, Patel had been incarcerated for three years.

Patel is one of at least 20 people who was arrested or investigated for a self-induced abortion since 1973.

"We don't want anybody else to have to suffer that fate," said Jill Adams, chief strategist of the Self-Induced Abortion (SIA) Legal Team.

The growing hostility to abortion rights could mean an uptick in arrests, and so lawyers with the SIA Legal Team formally launched a free, confidential helpline and website on Tuesday to help anyone who's criminalized for "self-managing," or performing an abortion themselves.

"While we know of at least 20 people arrested for self-managing abortion or helping a loved one do so, we suspect the number is far greater than that and we anticipate that the helpline will bring our attention to many more of these cases," Adams told ThinkProgress.

With the advent of medication abortion and mounting research demonstrating its safety, there's a fear among reproductive rights/justice advocates that a prison cell might replace the "coat-hanger" motif as more people choose to self-manage.
Reminder that the Governor of Indiana when Patel was sentenced was Mike Pence.

[CN: Environmental toxins; child abuse] Doyle Rice at USA Today: 93 Percent of the World's Children Breathe Toxic, Polluted Air Each Day. "Nearly 2 billion children — about 93 percent of the world's children under the age of 15 — breathe toxic, putrid air that's so polluted it puts their health and well-being at serious risk, a new report said. Many of the children die: The United Nations' World Health Organization (WHO) estimates 600,000 children died in 2016 from lower respiratory infections caused by dirty air. 'Polluted air is poisoning millions of children and ruining their lives,' said Dr. Tedros Adhanom Ghebreyesus, director-general of the WHO. 'This is inexcusable. Every child should be able to breathe clean air so they can grow and fulfill their full potential.'"

[CN: Death; possible violence; discussion of self-harm] Luis Ferré-Sadurní and Ashley Southall at the New York Times: Two Sisters Were Found Dead in the River, Duct-Taped Together; Police Have Few Answers. "Rotana Farea was 22; Tala Farea was 16. They had a history of going missing, and they had recently requested asylum in the United States, the police said. But beyond that, the circumstances of their deaths have remained a mystery. ...In late August, Tala Farea was again reported missing to the Fairfax County authorities, who distributed a missing-person poster online. The poster said she might be with her sister Rotana. In October, someone again reported the sisters missing in Virginia, the police in New York said. The mother also received a call from the Saudi Arabian Embassy in Washington, informing her that her daughters had applied for asylum, the police said."

[CN: White supremacy] Will Sommer at the Daily Beast: Instagram Is the Alt-Right's New Favorite Haven. "Alt-right social network Gab shuttered itself over the weekend after one of its users allegedly killed 11 people at a Pittsburgh synagogue and announced the attack on the site. But many far-right personalities still have access to a much bigger online home: Instagram. As other social networks crack down on right-wing extremists, Instagram has become a surprising refuge for far-right figures who have somehow managed to avoid being banned from that site as well." Swell.

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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Climate Change Driving Mass Migration

[Content Note: Climate change; food insecurity; animal harm.]

Two things I just read back-to-back add important context to our understanding of the migrant caravans heading from South and Central America toward the United States.

1. Damian Carrington at the Guardian: Humanity Has Wiped Out 60% of Animal Populations Since 1970, Report Finds. This is an absolutely devastating article, and I encourage you to read the whole thing in its entirety, but this is the passage I want to highlight for its relevance to mass migration: "The worst affected region is South and Central America, which has seen an 89% drop in vertebrate populations, largely driven by the felling of vast areas of wildlife-rich forest."

South and Central America are suffering the worst fate in a tremendously precarious situation for the whole of humanity. Said Mike Barrett, executive director of science and conservation at WWF: "We are sleepwalking towards the edge of a cliff. ...This is far more than just being about losing the wonders of nature, desperately sad though that is. This is actually now jeopardising the future of people. Nature is not a 'nice to have' — it is our life-support system."

2. Oliver Milman, Emily Holden, and David Agren at the Guardian: The Unseen Driver Behind the Migrant Caravan: Climate Change. Although the violence in migrants' home countries is a significant reason they are forced to leave their homes, the failure of crops due to climate change is causing massive problems, too — because it's causing both widespread unemployment in agricultural economies and leaving lots of people without adequate food resources.

"The focus on violence is eclipsing the big picture — which is that people are saying they are moving because of some version of food insecurity," said Robert Albro, a researcher at the Center for Latin American and Latino Studies at American University.

"The main reason people are moving is because they don't have anything to eat. This has a strong link to climate change — we are seeing tremendous climate instability that is radically changing food security in the region."

...An indigenous Ch'orti' Maya, Jesús Canan abandoned his lands this year after repeated crop failures — which he attributed to drought and changing weather patterns.

"It didn't rain this year. Last year it didn't rain," he said softly. "My maize field didn't produce a thing. With my expenses, everything we invested, we didn't have any earnings. There was no harvest."

Desperate and dreaming of the United States, Canan hit the road in early October and joined the migrant caravan. He left behind a wife and three children — ages 16, 14, and 11 — who were forced to abandon school because Canan couldn't afford to pay for their supplies.

"It wasn't the same before. This is forcing us to emigrate," he said. "In past years, it rained on time. My plants produced, but there's no longer any pattern [to the weather]."
Canan is hardly alone: "A third of all employment in Central America is linked to agriculture, so any disruption to farming practices can have devastating consequences."

We are destroying the planet. And the people who are suffering the worst effects of that human-made harm are struggling to feed themselves as a result.

And in the land of plenty, the president who refuses to address climate change is sending military to the border, to tell starving people there is neither help nor hope for them here.

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Pence's Offensive Tree of Life Victims' Remembrance

[Content Note: Christian Supremacy; anti-Semitism.]

Just another reminder that Mike Pence is just as despicable as his boss: He appeared onstage with a "Messianic rabbi" (think "Jews for Jesus") to offer a remembrance of the victims of the Tree of Life Synagogue shooting at a political rally in Michigan.

Isaac Stanley-Becker at the Washington Post reports:

Two days after the deadliest attack on Jews in U.S. history, Vice President Pence bowed his head at a rally on Monday in Michigan as a religious leader who casts himself as a "rabbi" offered a prayer for the victims in Pittsburgh.

But the man who shared a stage with Pence, Loren Jacobs, preaches Messianic Judaism, a tradition central to Jews for Jesus, a group condemned by Jewish leaders as faux Judaism that seeks to promote Christian evangelism. The major Jewish denominations join the state of Israel in viewing followers of Messianic Judaism as Christian, not Jewish.

His appearance drew outrage on social media. Jason A. Miller, a Detroit-area rabbi, wrote on Facebook that more than 60 rabbis appeared in a directory of the Michigan Board of Rabbis — "and yet the only rabbi they could find to offer a prayer for the 11 Jewish victims in Pittsburgh at the Mike Pence Rally was a local Jew for Jesus rabbi?"

...Appearing with the vice president on Monday, Jacobs invoked "Jesus the Messiah" and "Savior Yeshua" — another name for Jesus — as he offered a prayer for the dead and wounded in Pittsburgh. "God of Abraham, God of Isaac, God of Jacob, God and Father of my Lord and Savior Yeshua, Jesus the Messiah, and my God and Father, too," he intoned.

...Jacobs's remarks weren't limited to the theme of religious solidarity, however. In addition to denouncing the "hate-inspired shooting at the synagogue in Pittsburgh" and asking God to "comfort all those who are mourning," Jacobs appealed to the Almighty to favor the Republican Party in the midterm elections next month.

He did not name the individual victims of the Pittsburgh massacre, but named four Republican candidates, including [Lena Epstein, a Republican candidate for Michigan's 11th District, who invited Jacobs]. "I pray for them and for the Republican Party and its candidates so that they would honor you and your ways, that you might grant them victory in this election," he said from the stage.
A Pence aide claims that Pence had no idea who Loren Jacobs was when the vice-president called him to the stage to "deliver a message of unity," which seems very unlikely, as Pence isn't known for his interfaith tolerance, to put it politely.

If it's indeed accurate that Pence didn't know with whom he'd be sharing a stage during such a sensitive moment, that's a humongous vetting failure. The Vice-President of the United States and his team should know exactly with whom he'll be photographed onstage at any political event.

But Pence sharing the stage with a Christian "rabbi" to "honor" the dead at the Tree of Life Synagogue, who then fails to even mention their names then launches into a election prayer for Republicans, is too on the fucking nose for that to have been an accident.

Fuck this entire administration.

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