Election Thread

Arizona, Florida, and Oklahoma had primary races yesterday. Here's a thread to talk about any and all of the results that you found exciting or disappointing.

[Content Note: Video may autoplay at link] CBS has a solid round-up of results from all three states.

There's been a lot of attention on the results in the Florida gubernatorial race, where Tallahassee Mayor Andrew Gillum won the Democratic primary to become the first Black candidate for governor in Florida. He will face GOP Rep. Ron DeSantis in the general election, who was backed by Donald Trump. Yuck.

Shaker SKM pointed me to this interesting result out of Oklahoma:


Welp!

Did you vote yesterday? Did your candidates win? Tell all in comments.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker BlueJean: "What's your favorite noise?"

Joyful laughter. Tied with the sound of lapping water.

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I've Never...

This is like the drinking game, except without the drinking part, lol.

What is something you've long wanted but never owned?

I'll start.

I've long wanted but never owned a stand mixer.

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Quote of the Day

"I just ask you to go out and make sure all of your people vote. Because if they don't — it's Nov. 6 — if they don't vote we're going to have a miserable two years and we're going to have, frankly, a very hard period of time because then it just gets to be one election — you're one election away from losing everything you've got."Donald Trump, speaking to a group of about 100 evangelical ministers in the White House State Dining Room last night.

Just to be clear: That's the president suggesting that if Democrats win back a Congressional majority and the presidency, they'll take away "everything" that conservatives have. The same president behind whom the Republican Party is consolidating power so that they can literally strip rights, liberties, autonomy, agency, dignity, and consent from marginalized people.

As I noted on Twitter: We know that Trump routinely speaks in obvious projection. Reading this through that lens is chilling. It should, however, hardly be surprising at this point.

NB: This is also Trump setting the stage for explaining unexpected wins in the midterms. He told evangelical leaders to get out the vote and they delivered! Pay no attention to the foreign interference behind the curtain.

I remain very concerned about the integrity of the midterm election.

[H/T to Eastsidekate.]

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Fat Fashion

This is your semi-regular thread in which fat women can share pix, make recommendations for clothes they love, ask questions of other fat women about where to locate certain plus-size items, share info about sales, talk about what jeans cut at what retailer best fits their body shapes, discuss how to accessorize neutral colored suits, share stories of going bare-armed for the first time, brag about a cool fashion moment, whatever.

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So sorry that it's been so long since our last Fat Fashion thread! Here's a picture of me before heading out to therapy last night, in one of my favorite outfits:

image of me in a full-length mirror wearing a pink top with embroidered flowers, blue jeans, and grey and burgundy pumps, with my hair pulled back and glasses on

I'm wearing Simply Be's Embroidered Top with Fluted Sleeve; Torrid's Classic Ankle Skinny Jeans (which they don't appear to be selling with the rough hem anymore, but here's a similar pair); and Fluevog's Gigi in burgundy.

(I had the most heinous customer service experience with Fluevog with those shoes, but, after finally getting put in contact with someone who knows what they're doing, I ended up with a pair of shoes I love. I am beyond reluctant to order from them again after that experience, which is a real shame, because their shoes are terrific. So I recommend the shoes, but with a caveat of warning that their customer service can be a nightmare.)

I love this outfit because it's so effortless. Blouse, jeans, shoes. I got all three pieces during great sales. And I always get compliments when I wear this combination, despite its ease.

Most importantly: I feel great when I wear it.

Anyway! As always, all subjects related to fat fashion are on topic, but if you want a topic for discussion: What have you purchased lately that you loooooooove?

Have at it in comments! Please remember to make fat women of all sizes, especially women who find themselves regularly sizing out of standard plus-size lines, welcome in this conversation, and pass no judgment on fat women who want to and/or feel obliged, for any reason, to conform to beauty standards. And please make sure if you're soliciting advice, you make it clear you're seeking suggestions—and please be considerate not to offer unsolicited advice. Sometimes people just need to complain and want solidarity, not solutions.

[Note: I am not receiving anything in return for my recommendations here, nor am I affiliated in any way with any of the companies mentioned herein. Any endorsements made are on products I purchased myself, just because I like them!]

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Zelda. ♥

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 586

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by Fannie: No, You Don't Have to "Tolerate" Nazi "Free Speech". And by me: Today in Rape Culture and A Point of Clarification.

Here are some more things in the news today...

Let's start out with some GOOD news, shall we?

[Content Note: Homophobia] Jessica Mason Pieklo at Rewire.News: Appeals Court: Fair Housing Act Protects Against Sexual Orientation Discrimination. "A federal appeals court on Monday ruled a suburban Chicago senior living center could be held liable under federal fair housing law for failing to protect a resident from anti-gay slurs and other harassment targeting her sexual orientation. ...'Not only does it create liability when a landlord intentionally discriminates against a tenant based on a protected characteristic; it also creates liability against a landlord that has actual notice of tenant‐on‐tenant harassment based on a protected status, yet chooses not to take any reasonable steps within its control to stop that harassment,' the court ruled." GOOD.

Reuters wire at the Guardian: North Carolina Gerrymandered Districts to Benefit Republicans, Court Rules. "A federal court has ruled that North Carolina Republicans illegally drew up U.S. congressional districts in the state to benefit their party, suggesting that new lines should be crafted before November's midterm election. The three-judge panel for the U.S. district court for the middle district of North Carolina said in a 321-page opinion that Republican legislators responsible for the map conducted unconstitutional partisan gerrymandering to dilute the impact of Democratic votes. 'That is precisely what the Republican-controlled North Carolina General Assembly sought to do here,' the opinion, published on Monday, said. The panel gave parties until Thursday to file their recommendations to fix the problem."

Unfortunately, I don't think this is going to get resolved by the midterms, and Donald Trump is busily stacking the courts as fast as he can so that he and his party don't get rulings like this one which limit their power, but for now this is good news, and I am going to take it.

[CN: Guns; domestic violence] Amanda Michelle Gomez at ThinkProgress: California Passes Trio of Gun Control Bills, Including Lifetime Ban on Domestic Violence Convicts. "The Democratic-controlled legislature sent the domestic violence bill, as well as two other measures — a lifetime ban on people placed on involuntary psychiatric holds twice in one year and new standard for residents to obtain a concealed weapon permit (eight hours of training and pass a live-fire shooting test) — to Gov. Jerry Brown's (D) desk for consideration. 'We must do more to ensure the safety of our survivors of domestic violence,' said Assemblywoman Blanca Rubio (D) on Monday, of the bill that extends the current 10-year ban."

This is particularly timely, given the shooting in Florida over the weekend, the perpetrator of which has a history of both profound mental illness and domstic violence:


He did eventually threaten his mother with a weapon, as well as punch a hole through her bedroom door. These are the events we know about because of 911 calls. There may have been (and likely were) additional incidents.

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Meanwhile... Kimberly Dozier at the Daily Beast: Mattis Warns U.S. Drills May Restart without Progress on North Korea. "Trump's Pentagon chief raised the specter of restarting military drills with South Korea if there's no progress on North Korean denuclearization talks. "They've never been turned off,' Defense Secretary Jim Mattis said of future drills, in a rare press briefing Tuesday. 'We turned off several to make a good faith effort. We are going to see how the negotiations go and then we'll calculate...how we go forward. I don't have a crystal ball.' The Pentagon called off planned summer military exercises which [Donald] Trump has called 'provocative,' as part of a pledge in the Singapore summit with North Korea. But the negotiations have become mired in tit-for-tat demands, and Trump abruptly canceled this week's planned meetings with Pyongyang."

Everything is fine. (Everything is not fine.)

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Ashley Parker at the Washington Post: President Non Grata: Trump Often Unwelcome and Unwilling to Perform Basic Rituals of the Office.
Less than two years into his first term, Trump has often come to occupy the role of pariah — both unwelcome and unwilling to perform the basic rituals and ceremonies of the presidency, from public displays of mourning to cultural ceremonies.

In addition to being pointedly not invited to McCain's funeral and memorial service later this week — where former presidents Barack Obama and George W. Bush will both eulogize the Arizona Republican — Trump was quietly asked to stay away from former first lady Barbara Bush's funeral earlier this year. He also opted to skip the annual Kennedy Center Honors last year amid a political backlash from some of the honorees and has faced repeated public rebuffs from athletes invited to the White House after winning championships.

"We're not talking about a president going and having a rally in a state that voted against him," said Tim Naftali, a presidential historian at New York University who previously served as the director of the Richard Nixon Presidential Library and Museum. "We're talking about a president who can't even go and participate in a ritual where presidents are usually welcomed, and that is one of the consequences of his having defined the presidency in a sectarian way."
And one of the future consequences of Trump being disinterested in the traditions of the presidency and disinvited from many state functions is that any future president who can put on black tie and manage to get through the evening without mocking a disabled person or grabbing a woman's genitals is going to look "presidential" by comparison, even if he is a rank authoritarian.

Which brings us to... Andy Towle at Towleroad: Trump Biographer: Mike Pence Believes God Has Positioned Him as 'President-in-Waiting'. "Trump's biographer Michael D'Antonio sat down with John Berman on CNN's New Day for a conversation that revolved mostly around Mike Pence, or the 'shadow president' as D'Antonio calls him in the title of his new book. D'Antonio explained how Pence has quietly been building an infrastructure to ascend to the Oval Office... Said D'Antonio: 'Everything that Mike Pence does is oriented toward him becoming president… He thought that God was calling him to now be vice president and function as a president-in-waiting… So we see Donald Trump in this huge crisis, this rolling chaos, and I think with everyday, Mike Pence imagines he's one day closer to the Oval Office.'"

Related Reading: On Mike Pence's Destructive Ambition.

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JFC, Lindsey Graham. You are such a goddamned ghoul.


GHOUL.

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[CN: Climate change. Covers entire section.]

E.A. Crunden at ThinkProgress: Facing Rising Temperatures and Pollution, Farmworkers Are Being Left Behind by Florida Lawmakers. "For decades, farmworkers in the Sunshine State have waged war — against pollution and pesticides, against hardline immigration laws, against low wages. Now, amid warming temperatures and shifting weather patterns, they are increasingly turning their attention to climate change. And they plan to address the issue with or without the willing cooperation of lawmakers. ...Farmworkers have long been among the most vulnerable people in the United States, largely cut out of labor protections and provided few rights under the law. Most are Black and Latinx, many are immigrants, and virtually all are low-income. Their vulnerable status has often seen them left out of conversations surrounding issues like climate change."


Carla Green at the Guardian: 'Apocalyptic Threat': Dire Climate Report Raises Fears for California's Future. "California's summer of deadly wildfires and dangerous heatwaves will soon be the new normal if nothing is done to stop climate change, a report released on Monday warns. City heatwaves could lead to two to three times as many deaths by 2050, the report says. By 2100, without a reduction in emissions, the state could see a 77% increase in the average area burned by wildfires. ...The effects of those extreme heat days will probably weigh most heavily on the state's most vulnerable residents, including the more than 100,000 people who are homeless in California, many of whom live on the streets without reliable access to fans, air conditioners, or running water."

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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A Point of Clarification

[Content Note: Misogyny.]

I don't hate men.

No matter how many lazy dipshits make the accusation in comments, on Twitter, in my inbox, or wherever people congregate to discuss what an uncharitable cunt I am, it will never be true.

I don't hate men. But I am disappointed by them a lot.

[Related Reading: The Terrible Bargain We Have Regretfully Struck and We Asked Them to Step Up, and They Let Us Down.]

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No, You Don't Have to "Tolerate" Nazi "Free Speech"

[Content Note: Bigotry; harassment.]

What if, instead of being an anti-racist white person who nonetheless believes racists have a "right" to express racism whenever they want on any platform whatsoever, you're actually just a racist?

What if, instead of being a person opposed to misogyny who nonetheless thinks misogynists should be able to run rampant on social media calling women cunts and bitches and whores, you're actually just a misogynist?

What if, instead of being a chill person who's okay with Neo-Nazis abusing Jewish Twitter users because "everyone has a right to free speech," you're actually just anti-Semitic?

What if, instead of "playing devil's advocate" about the purported "danger" trans women pose to cis women, you're actually just a trans-bigot?

What if all of your abstract adherence to "anything goes" free speech for, and liberal "tolerance" of, bigots isn't principled at all; it's just a reflection of your own comfort with a bigoted status quo and your discomfort with taking a stand against abusers?

What if I told you that, in fact, many of the people I see arguing for "anything goes" free speech on social media seem to appreciate the concept much more in the abstract than when the principle is applied to speech directed at themselves?

What if I told you that, in my experience, many of the people I've met on the Internet who argue for "anything goes" free speech tend not to be those who experience pervasive, frequent harassment themselves and, rather, have extreme difficulty handling even calm rebuttals to their own arguments?

What if I further told you there's probably not many marginalized people of note on Twitter who need to be lectured by someone with 50 followers about "free speech on the Internet" and how the platform might "one day" become hostile to the marginalized person's point of view?

What if I asked you how much free speech advocacy, emotional labor, lecturing, and tolerance-preaching you do on behalf of bigots versus how much any-kind-of advocacy you do for marginalized people?

What if the real-world outcome of your casual, abstract "tolerance" of bigots is that it helps bigots feel more comfortable being bigoted?

What if, even if you don't mean to be a bigot, the real-world impact of your "tolerance" is actually a net increase in bigotry?

What if I told you that we could be opposed to "anything goes" use of corporate-owned social media platforms to amplify hatred and terrorize marginalized people without disingenuously and stupidly equating that with broad, governmental restrictions on free speech?

What if I told you it's good and necessary for individuals and corporations and platforms to set boundaries?

What if we started calling the people who deliberately terrorize other people on the Internet "e-terrorists" instead of the cutesy, minimizing "troll"?


What if I told you that when bigots or conservatives or liberals or leftists or libertarians or techbros or anyone suggests that "you have to tolerate hateful people's intolerance," it's a trap, and you don't actually have to? 

Because no. You don't. You don't have to tolerate nazis or homophobes or misogynists or racists or anti-Semites or TERFS or anyone who denies the full humanity and dignity of marginalized people just so you can "prove" to hateful people that you are a "tolerant" person who supports "free speech."

The sooner you realize you have nothing to prove to bigots, the better.

If you're an ally to marginalized people, bigots neither need nor deserve your voluntary "free speech advocacy." The entire US political system has been rigged for cishet white men since its founding. It has long been part of the conservative playbook to leverage liberal and progressive values against us, so that we are so busy proving that we are consistent with certain abstract principles that we don't stop to question whether those principles should or should not be applicable to the situation at hand.

The situation at hand is this: We don't have to tolerate abusive bigots on social media platforms and it is not a First Amendment violation to say so.

Block. Mute. Report. Push back. Demand that corporations begin to place a higher value on the safety and dignity of human beings than on the "right" for misogynists to call feminists ugly fat cunt-dykes a thousand times a day on Twitter.

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Today in Rape Culture

[Content Note: Sexual assault; rape apologia.]


This is, of course, an observation I have made many, many times, regarding a number of prominent men who have somehow, cough, managed to "survive" allegations of sexual assault — or, in some cases, like Mike Tyson, returned to public acclaim even after rape convictions.

For as long as I have been writing about the rape culture, which is a very long time now, it has been frustratingly, exasperatingly, rage-makingly true that allegations of sexual assault do not ruin men's lives or careers.

Donald Trump was elected as President of the United States of America after being accused of sexual abuse and bragging about sexually assaulting women. That should have put paid the lie that sexual assault allegations negatively impact prominent men's employment prospects.

And yet still we hear the same tired case being made, every time a woman, or a man, makes allegations against a prominent man.

It is demonstrably false.

But its veracity is beside the point. The people making the argument don't care if it's true. Its purpose isn't to insert some searing bit of honesty into their rape apologia. The objective is merely to convey that they care more about sex abusers than they do their victims.

Mission accomplished, every time. What's true or right has nothing to do it.

As is so often (always) the case with the rape culture.

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker catvoncat: "What was the last gift you gave to someone? Last gift you received?"

The last gift I gave to someone was a print I recently gave to Iain for his office. It's a vintage piece, not worth anything in actual dollars, but with special meaning for us.

The last gift I received was the Becca lip gloss that catvoncat sent me!

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Monday Links!

This list o' links brought to you by iced tea with lemon.

Recommended Reading:

Charles Isherwood at the New York Times: Neil Simon, Broadway Master of Comedy, Is Dead at 91

Brian Ashcraft at Kotaku: Momoko Sakura, One of Japan's Most Famous Manga Creators, Has Died

Chitra Ramaswamy at the Guardian: [Content Note: Misogynoir; objectification; disablism] What the Ban on Serena Williams' Catsuit Says About the Sexualising of Black Women's Bodies

Allegra Battle at WESA Pittsburgh: Pittsburgh Artist Starts Local Body-Positive Movement

Melanie Eversley at the Grio: Beyoncé and Jay Z Announce $1 Million in College Scholarships

V. Huynh at Reappropriate: Building Asian American Feminism: In Conversation with the Asian American Feminist Collective

Staff at TLC: [CN: Nativism; carcerality; LGBTQ hatred] Trans and Queer Migrants and Allies Demand an End to Detention and ICE

Katherine Krueger at Splinter: Republicans Reportedly Preparing for a Torrent of Misery If Democrats Take the House

Natt Garun at the Verge: A Second Amazon Go Cashier-less Store Has Opened in Downtown Seattle

Hidreley at Bored Panda: This Dog Has Thousands of Expressions, and It Cracks Us Up

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Discussion Thread: Good Things

One of the ways we resist the demoralization and despair in which exploiters of fear like Trump thrive is to keep talking about the good things in our lives.

Because, even though it feels very much (and rightly so) like we are losing so many things we value, there are still daily moments of joy or achievement or love or empowering ferocity or other kinds of fulfillment.

Maybe you've experienced something big worth celebrating; maybe you've just had a precious moment of contentment; maybe getting out of bed this morning was a success worthy of mention.

News items worth celebrating are also welcome.

So, whatever you have to share that's good, here's a place to do it.

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Our washing machine broke, but Iain was able to fix it, with a little internet research, some elbow grease, and a lot of determination.

Not only has he saved (at least for now) the washing machine of which we're both ardently fond — despite the fact that it sounds like a cyclone is crashing through the house when it runs — and thus also saved us a lot of money, but he accomplished something very impressive, and I am so proud of him!

Also: We had a really great swim this weekend, which I really needed, and that was a very good thing.

Plus: We rescued a turtle from the road! Yay!

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Quote of the Day

"I started to realize this was a calling, which is weird because most people wouldn't be like: You know what I want to do when I grow up? Be an abortionist." — Anna, quoted in a must-read piece by Lizzie Presser at the Guardian, "Inside the Secret Network Providing Home Abortions Across the U.S."

Most people wouldn't. More people should. And I imagine if more people heard directly from women who'd had abortions what it meant to them to be able to access them, more people would.

Anna is amazing. And so are the women who trained her. They provide a critical healthcare service that allows other women to define their own lives so that they can be amazing, too.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Little and large.

(Plus bonus big muddy greyhound footprints on the carpet runner — which is exactly why it's there! LOL.)

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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We Resist: Day 585

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures (plus the occasional non-Republican who obliges us to resist their nonsense, too, like we don't have enough to worry about) is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Earlier today by me: Fatal Shooting at Video Game Competition in Florida and An Observation and Former Trump Doorman Released from Silence Contract.

Here are some more things in the news today...


Related Reading: Rafi Schwartz at Splinter: Trump's Ends Shitshow Phone Call with Mexican President with Request for a Hug.

First of all, I have no clue how the executive branch just terminates NAFTA by fiat, with zero input from the legislative branch.

Secondly, a sustained and increasingly hostile trade war with Canada is yet another policy that plays right into Vladimir Putin's hands. If you don't believe that, consider how the Kremlin feels about Canada having a whoooooooole lotta Arctic coastline that the United States won't give a shit about protecting.

Meanwhile... Jeanne Whalen and John Hudson at the Washington Post: Too Big to Sanction? U.S. Struggles with Punishing Large Russian Businesses.
When the Treasury Department imposed tough sanctions on Russian oligarch Oleg Deripaska and his companies in April, the fallout for the Putin ally was fast and fierce.

Western customers stopped buying from the aluminum company he controls, sinking its share price and shaving Deripaska's fortune from $6.7 billion to $3.4 billion, according to Forbes estimates.

The sanctions also caused havoc far beyond Russia. Global aluminum prices spiked, battering U.S. and European companies that use the metal. After an outcry from manufacturers and foreign governments, Treasury softened its stance, giving companies more time to end dealings with the aluminum producer, Rusal, and suggesting it could lift sanctions on the company if Deripaska cedes control.

The episode is a cautionary tale as the United States readies more sanctions against Russia, including some beginning Monday that will affect U.S. technology exports, and some under consideration in Congress that could prove painful for European oil and gas companies.
So we're gonna start a trade war with Canada, and back off sanctioning Russia. Cool.

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Tom Hamburger and Rosalind S. Helderman at the Washington Post: Attorney for Michael Cohen Backs Away from Confidence That Cohen Has Information About Trump's Knowledge on Russian Efforts. "An attorney for Michael Cohen, [Donald] Trump's former lawyer, is backing away from confident assertions he made that Cohen has information to share with investigators that shows Trump knew in 2016 of Russian efforts to undermine Democratic nominee Hillary Clinton. Lanny Davis, a spokesman and attorney for Cohen, said in an interview this weekend that he is no longer certain about claims he made to reporters on background and on the record in recent weeks about what Cohen knows about Trump's awareness of the Russian efforts."

Shocking. Cough.

It's almost like Davis was just using Donald Trump's favorite medium to communicate with him that he'd better keep a lid on any dirt he has on Cohen — unless the president wants Cohen to spill the beans, and, now that he's satisfied the message has penetrated, he's backing off. Huh. Who could have seen that coming.


That is such bad news. Fucking hell.

Cory Turner at NPR: Student Loan Watchdog Quits, Blames Trump Administration. "The federal official in charge of protecting student borrowers from predatory lending practices has stepped down. In a scathing resignation letter, Seth Frotman, who until now was the student loan ombudsman at the Consumer Financial Protection Bureau, says current leadership 'has turned its back on young people and their financial futures.' The letter was addressed to Mick Mulvaney, the bureau's acting director. In the letter, obtained by NPR, Frotman accuses Mulvaney and the Trump administration of undermining the CFPB and its ability to protect student borrowers. 'Unfortunately, under your leadership, the Bureau has abandoned the very consumers it is tasked by Congress with protecting,' it read. 'Instead, you have used the Bureau to serve the wishes of the most powerful financial companies in America.'"

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[CN: Child abuse; sexual assault; death; descriptions of violence] Christine Kenneally at BuzzFeed: Nuns Killed Children, Say Former Residents of St. Joseph's Catholic Orphanage.
Outside the United States, the orphanage system and the wreckage it produced has undergone substantial official scrutiny over the last two decades. In Canada, the UK, Germany, Ireland, and Australia, multiple formal government inquiries have subpoenaed records, taken witness testimony, and found, time and again, that children consigned to orphanages — in many cases, Catholic orphanages — were victims of severe abuse. ...The inquiries focused primarily on sexual abuse, not physical abuse or murder, but taken together, the reports showed almost limitless harm that was the result not just of individual cruelty but of systemic abuse.

In the United States, however, no such reckoning has taken place. Even today the stories of the orphanages are rarely told and barely heard, let alone recognized in any formal way by the government, the public, or the courts. The few times that orphanage abuse cases have been litigated in the U.S., the courts have remained, with a few exceptions, generally indifferent. Private settlements could be as little as a few thousand dollars. Government bodies have rarely pursued the allegations.

So in a journey that lasted four years, I went around the country, and even around the world, in search of the truth about this vast, unnarrated chapter of American experience.
[CN: Sex abuse by clergy] Nicole Winfield and Jon Sharman at the Independent: Pope Francis Refuses to Answer Question on 'Cover-Up' of Child Abuse Allegations. "Pope Francis has refused to say whether he knew about child sexual abuse claims against the former archbishop of Washington, five years before his resignation last month. ...Asked about the document [alleging that Pope Francis has known about the allegations since 2013], the pontiff declined to confirm or deny the claims it made. It 'speaks for itself,' he said, adding that he would not comment on it. He said he had read Archbishop Vigano's document and trusted journalists to judge for themselves. 'It's an act of trust,' he said. 'I won't say a word about it.'"

[CN: Homophobia] Joe Jervis at Joe.My.God.: Pope Francis: Parents Shouldn't Reject Their Gay Kids, But Should Seek Psychiatric Help for Them. "Agence France-Presse reports: 'Pope Francis has recommended parents seek psychiatric help for children who show homosexual tendencies, during a press conference on his plane taking him back to Rome from Ireland." So, to recap: Nothing to say about priests who have sexually abused countless children, but gay kids should be taken to a shrink. FUCK THIS GUY.

[CN: Homophobia; bullying; self-harm] Andy Towle at Towleroad: Mother: Denver 9-Year-Old Killed Himself Four Days After Telling Classmates He Was Gay. "Jamel Myles, a 9-year-old in fourth grade at Joe Shoemaker Elementary School in Denver, killed himself last week (police are investigating his death as a suicide) and his mother says it happened after he told her he was gay and planning to come out to his classmates. ...She told KDVR that Jamel said he was being bullied: 'Four days is all it took at school. I could just imagine what they said to him. My son told my oldest daughter the kids at school told him to kill himself. I'm just sad he didn't come to me. I'm so upset that he thought that was his option.'" Blub.

[CN: Misogyny; violence; toxic masculinity] Casey Quinlan at ThinkProgress: Boy Stabs Girl at School Assembly up to 11 Times After She Rejected His Advances. "A 14 year-old boy stabbed a 16 year-old girl about nine to 11 times at an Oklahoma high school assembly because she didn't want a relationship with him beyond friendship, authorities told the Oklahoma County District Attorney's Office on Friday. ...The girl didn't see the boy as he moved to a seat behind her at the assembly. Then, silently, he stood up and began stabbing her with a 4-inch folding knife, creating wounds in her arm, upper back, wrist, and head, KFOR reported. Luther Police Chief David Randall told the Oklahoman that the boy wanted a closer relationship with the girl, and that she declined, saying that 'she liked him as a friend, not anything more and that they remained friends.'"

[CN: Misogyny; violence; toxic masculinity; exploitation]


[CN: Death; racism; nativism; exploitation; video may autoplay at link] Benjamin Fearnow at Newsweek: Mollie Tibbett's Father Ignores Trump, Thanks Hispanic Community for Search Help During Eulogy. "Although Rob Tibbetts has not commented publicly on the nationwide debate over illegal immigrants that has encircled her killing, he applauded the Hispanic community for helping in the search for Mollie. ...Tibbetts repeatedly called on the jam-packed gymnasium at Brooklyn-Guernsey-Malcom High School in Brooklyn, Iowa to 'celebrat[e] something wonderful' as Mollie's older brother Jake discussed her passionate, caring personality, according to the report. But the Tibbetts family's calls 'to turn toward life — Mollie's life — because Mollie's nobody's victim' has fallen on the deaf ears of many national political figures who have inserted her death into a wider debate on undocumented immigrants living in the country. At least one member of Tibbetts extended family has blasted right-wing figures for using Mollie's death as anti-immigrant 'political propaganda.'"

This poor family, having to navigate this exploitative shit while grieving the loss of their loved one. I'm so sorry. My sincerest condolences to them. And in honor of their request to remember Mollie and to turn toward her life, I will end with this:
Rob encouraged the people in the crowd to smile at the person next to them, take the hands of those they know and love and to take time each day, and in each moment, to "live like Mollie did," with compassion and kindness and a desire to help those around her. He also thanked everyone involved in the five-week effort to find his daughter and help bring her home.

"You want to know the secret of why there was this outpouring of support for Mollie? It's because we see ourselves in Mollie — it's because we are a part of her," he said.

Rob remembered his daughter as sweet, kind, faithful, and passionate. She was someone who always had an ear ready to listen, he said, and a hand ready to help.
An ear to listen and a hand to help. ♥

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Yessenia Funes at Earther: Trump's Science Adviser Nominee Won't Call Out Climate Denier Bullshit. "The Senate Committee on Commerce, Science, and Transportation welcomed science adviser nominee Kelvin Droegemeier to Capitol Hill on Thursday with open arms. The University of Oklahoma meteorology professor [Donald] Trump has picked to head the Office of Science and Technology Policy (OSTP) is inching closer to securing the position, which has been vacant a record-breaking 578 days. ...He also seemed keen to avoid discussing how the issue of climate change has been politicized. He kept insisting that politics have no role in science, without noting how climate denial has fueled politicization of this subject."


Nicola Davis at the Guardian: Climate Change Will Make Hundreds of Millions More People Nutrient Deficient. "Rising levels of carbon dioxide could make crops less nutritious and damage the health of hundreds of millions of people, research has revealed, with those living in some of the world's poorest regions likely to be hardest hit. Previous research has shown that many food crops become less nutritious when grown under the CO2 levels expected by 2050, with reductions of protein, iron, and zinc estimated at 3–17%. Now experts say such changes could mean that by the middle of the century about 175 million more people develop a zinc deficiency, while 122 million people who are not currently protein deficient could become so." Fuck.

What have you been reading that we need to resist today?

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Former Trump Doorman Released from Silence Contract

In April, we learned that Dino Sajudin, a former doorman at Trump Tower, had been peddling a story about Donadl Trump having had an affair with a housekeeper that eventually resulted in a child — and that American Media Inc. (AMI), which owns the National Inquirer, had bought Sajudin's story, only to keep it from being published, and forced Sajudin to sign a nondisclosure agreement.

Last week, chair of AMI (and personal friend of Trump) David Pecker received immunity as part of a deal with federal investigators working on the Michael Cohen probe.

Sajudin has subsequently been released from his contract with AMI. Sonia Moghe at CNN reports:

On Friday, Marc Held...said his client had been released from his contract with AMI, the parent company of the National Enquirer, "recently" after back-and-forth discussions with AMI.

..."Mr. Sajudin has been unable to discuss the circumstances regarding his deal with American Media Inc. and the story that he sold to them, due to a significant financial penalty," Held told CNN. "Just recently, AMI released Mr. Sajudin from the terms of his agreement and he is now able to speak about his personal experience with them, as well as his story, which is now known to be one of the 'catch and kill' pieces. Mr. Sajudin hopes the truth will come out in the very near future."
Sajudin is the only person publicly known to be telling this story. Even if it is true, its veracity cannot be established without the participation of someone involved — and there's no indication that any of the people involved are inclined to disclose verifiable information.

Further, there's nothing to suggest anything criminal transpired; only something unethical. Which means that law enforcement has no reason to investigate, and it's very unlikely that Trump's supporters, who either ignore or openly champion all of the rest of his unethical behavior, would change their opinion of him if this story were verified and made public.

If anything, it would feed Trump's martyr complex and make him an even greater victim — of the press and of his opponents — in their estimation.

There's zero benefit to pursuing this story, and there's the potential to expose and endanger a child by pursuing it. So, frankly, I hope Sajudin continues to keep his mouth shut and the press just leaves it alone.

There is, after all, no shortage of garbage worth investigating about Donald Trump, most of it with far higher stakes for all of us.

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An Observation


And that's all I have to say about that.

If anyone is wondering why I don't have more to say, there's a very common expression that easily explains it.

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