Death Toll Doubles in Puerto Rico Hours After Trump's Visit

There is nothing that could more heartbreakingly and rage-makingly underscores Donald Trump's smug indifference to the realities on the ground in Puerto Rico than this, reported by Oliver Laughland at the Guardian:

When Donald Trump visited Puerto Rico this week, he congratulated local officials, the federal government — and himself — for the official response to the disaster.

"It's now acknowledged what a great job we've done," Trump said, and told Governor Ricardo Rosselló he could be "very proud" of the low official death toll. Hours after the president jetted back to Washington, the tally doubled to 34 and is expected to rise further.
Trump has neither said nor tweeted anything about those deaths since his return.

He did, however, find the time to retweet Sean Hannity talking about "how despicable the media and the left are in America today."

screencap of tweet authored by Sean Hannity and retweeted by Donald Trump reading: 'Tonight the truth about how despicable the media and the left are in America today. We will name names. 9 est Hannity Fox News from Vegas.'

So, feast on that, Puerto Rico. I'm sure the fact that your president is publicly signaling his detestation of progressives is better than food and clean water, anyway.

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If you are able and would like to make a donation to Puerto Rican relief, the Hispanic Federation "has launched the UNIDOS Disaster Relief Fund to help meet hurricane and earthquake-related needs and recovery in Puerto Rico and Mexico."

Oxfam has also condemned the Trump administration's response and has announced it will step in to help: "We are outraged at the slow and inadequate response the US Government has mounted. Oxfam rarely responds to humanitarian emergencies in the US and other wealthy countries, but as the situation in Puerto Rico worsens and the federal government’s response continues to falter, we have decided to step in." Donate to Oxfam.

Also see Ayana Byrd at Colorlines: How to Help Residents of Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands Recover After Hurricane Maria.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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EAR.

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Today Is Shakesville's 13th Anniversary

Thirteen years ago today, I launched Shakesville — then Shakespeare's Sister — because George W. Bush was making me so angry and I couldn't get over that he was our president and Al Gore, who won the popular vote, was not. I couldn't even contain my simmering fury that such an aggressively unqualified, incompetent, dishonest jerk was sitting in the Oval Office, while his sinister vice-president dictated the most bigoted policy. And boy oh boy was I in fits about the fact that their rank partisanship and lack of patriotism underwrote heinous actions that warranted investigation by a Special Counsel.

Gee. How things have changed.

(Where's my goddamned Christmas tree?)

If I sound jaded, that's because I am. How could anyone who pays attention not be? It's demoralizing to be right back in the place — except even worse — than where this community started. The arc of the moral universe doesn't feel like it's bending toward justice; it feels like it's coiling around my fucking neck.

That doesn't sound terribly celebratory, I know. But it wouldn't be honest if I wrote this post and pretended that my thirteenth year of blogging was anything but the hardest so far. It has been the worst year since I began, by distances for which humans don't even have names.

All of the good things I wrote last year on this day are still true: I am profoundly grateful for this community, which I think is full of awesome people, and I am forever changed for the better because I made the decision to start this blog. Y'all help see me through the hard times, and I hope I help see y'all through right back.

In an era of cultivated divisiveness, community is more important than ever.

I find, in my personal life, that my friends and I are having increasingly frequent conversations the purpose of which is to center us, to shore our connection, to tether us lest we come unmoored; get lost in a vast sea of anxiety and rage and general overwhelm.

Sometimes we make literal plans for worst case scenarios. Sometimes we just try to figure out how to exist in this time and place.

I once wrote: "Democracy at its best is, after all, unlimited optimism shot through with a cold streak of cynicism. ...That is the way I have always practiced democracy. That is the way I will always practice democracy." But, if I'm honest, that isn't how I feel now. That equation has reversed. I now feel like I'm practicing unlimited cynicism shot through with a bolt of optimism. Which makes me feel very off-balance, for a start, and quite profoundly sad.

I'm incandescently angry at what's happening to my country, and to the world, because of this garbage president and his garbage administration and his garbage party, all of whom are vile scum with hard stones of petrified malice where their empathy should be.

I'm scared to do this work in a way I have never been before, too, which is really saying something, given that threats of violence have long been a routine part of my every day.

But I am also resolved. I am nothing if not tenacious.

As you might have noticed.

In the first thing I ever posted, I wrote about my intention to connect dots that others hadn't connected: "The thing I've noticed about the political blog culture is that for people who spend their days immersed in it, often we are the first to draw connections between a story we read here and a story we read there. It's not uncommon that I'll see a post on one of the blogs I read regularly that reflects an insight I've had myself, though sometimes the dots I managed to connect don't form a full picture anywhere else for days."

What I wanted to do when I started this thing was to tease out full pictures of what is happening, from a perspective that doesn't have much representation in corporate press. What I wanted to do was tell the truth, and defend progressive values.

I think I've done well, even if it makes me a Cassandra and a broken record and a drag, sometimes.

I'm going to keep doing it. For a whole lot of reasons, not least of which is this: Fuck Donald Trump. I resist him and everything for which he stands with everything I've got.

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We Resist: Day 259

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Here are some things in the news today:

Yesterday by me, in case you missed it: Every. Damn. Time.

Arelis R. Hernández and Jenna Johnson at the Washington Post report that Donald Trump is mystified equally by science and by altruism:
Trump passed out yellow bags of rice and then started tossing rolls of towels into the crowd as if he were shooting free throws. The crowd laughed and cheered him on. When he contemplated doing the same with the cans of chicken, the crowd gently told him no.

The church is also distributing water purification kits, and a member explained the process to the president.

"Wait," Trump said, "you put it in dirty water?"

"And then you can drink it after 10 to 12 hours," she explained.

"Would you do it? Would you drink it?" he asked.

"Sure," she said.

"Really?" Trump said, a disgusted look coming across his face.

"Really," she said.

"Is this your company or something?" Trump asked the woman, seeming suspicious of the aggressive pitch.

"No," she said, "I'm part of the church."
There are no words.


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Lisa Friedman at the New York Times: Trump Takes a First Step Toward Scrapping Obama's Global Warming Policy. "The Trump administration will repeal the Clean Power Plan, the centerpiece of President Barack Obama's effort to fight climate change, and will ask the public to recommend ways it could be replaced, according to an internal Environmental Protection Agency document. The draft proposal represents the administration's first substantive step toward rolling back the plan, which was designed to curb greenhouse gas emissions from the power sector, after months of presidential tweets and condemnations of Mr. Obama's efforts to reduce climate-warming pollution. But it also lays the groundwork for new, presumably weaker, regulations by asking for the public and industry to offer ideas for a replacement."


Sam Thielman at TPM: Russia Appeared to Target Wisconsin's Elections Body Via a Banner or Popup Ad. "Nearly lost amid the deluge of reports about Kremlin-run Facebook and Twitter campaigns designed to influence the American electorate, the Department of Homeland Security last week messily notified 21 states, including Wisconsin, that Russia had targeted their election systems. The Wisconsin Elections Commission (WEC) then quietly issued a press release describing an unsuccessful August 2016 cyberattack that took the form of neither a targeted phishing attack nor an attempt to crack a password, but an ad. The elections commission said that the state IT division's protective measures had 'blocked an advertisement embedded in a publicly available website from being displayed on a WEC computer.' When the state Department of Enterprise Technology provided the IP address it had blocked to DHS, the agency identified that address as 'connected to Russian government cyber actors,' according to the release."

Bright Line Watch: The Health of American Democracy: Comparing Perceptions of Experts and the American Public. "The public is quite concerned about the state of U.S. democracy, especially those who disapprove of [Donald] Trump. Americans' ratings of democratic performance are often worse than those of experts, especially in the areas experts identify as the most important. ...Far from being complacent, the American public is in many ways more alarmed than political scientists are about the health of U.S. democracy. They are, for instance, less sanguine about the administration of elections and about protections for free speech and less certain that political parties can compete freely and that people's rights to protest are protected."


[Content Note: Video may autoplay at link] Jon Delano at CBS Pittsburgh: Pro-Life Rep. Tim Murphy Will Not Seek Re-Election After Reports of Urging Abortion. "Published reports said Murphy met earlier on Wednesday with Republican leadership in Washington DC, after a report surfaced Tuesday that he suggested his mistress have an abortion, despite the congressman's [anti-choice] stance." Welp.

Darryl Fears at the Washington Post: Interior Department Whistleblower Resigns, Calling Ryan Zinke's Leadership a Failure. "An Interior Department executive turned whistleblower who claimed the Trump administration retaliated against him for publicly disclosing how climate change affects Alaska Native communities resigned Wednesday. Joel Clement, a scientist and policy expert, was removed from his job by Interior Secretary Ryan Zinke shortly after the disclosure and reassigned to an accounting position for which he has no experience. Clement was among dozens of senior executive service personnel who were quickly, and perhaps unlawfully, reassigned in June, but he was the only person who spoke out."

[CN: White supremacy] David Lewis at the Stranger: We Snuck into Seattle's Super Secret White Nationalist Convention.
White nationalists generally don't want to look like characters out of American History X anymore. Fashion choices at the convention ranged from Ruby Ridge to Mad Men, but most of the people there looked like you might run into them on Capitol Hill or in the U-District. That said, there is a type. According to my observations, the standard Seattle Nazi is a white male under 30 who either works in the tech industry or is going to school to work in the tech industry. "You're also a coder? Do you mind if I send you something I've been working on?" I heard that more than once.

...Speakers encouraged followers to take the Gandhi approach and continue getting punched in the face a la Richard Spencer. The media will have no choice but to turn to its side, their reasoning went. Taylor, Dr. Johnson, and the other speakers are all pretty married to this strategy. They also disapprove of their followers using ethnic slurs in public because it gives the media soundbites to latch onto.

Much bleaker is Dr. Johnson's Seattle-suitable, "secret agent" racism plan. Basically, white nationalists meet in secret at conventions like Northwest Forum while paying "lip service to diversity" at their day jobs. They move into positions of power where they can hire other racists and keep non-whites from getting into the company. Two years ago, this method would have seemed like a total joke, but these guys really do mostly work in tech, and they were doing a lot of networking.

...In the two years since I'd interviewed Charles Krafft, Seattle had somehow gone from virtually no open racists (although I've worked retail at places with pretty open whites only management policies) to being the kind of place to which you'd travel all the way from Sweden to study a new style of racism.
[CN: White supremacy] Zoe Tillman at BuzzFeed: The Justice Department Is Investigating Harvard's Admissions Practices. "'This is further proof that Attorney General Sessions and the Trump administration will continue to invoke civil rights only to further their own political agenda — not provide equal protections for all Americans. It speaks volumes that Jeff Sessions' Justice Department is prioritizing attacking affirmative action at a time when white nationalists are marching openly in the streets,' American Oversight executive director Austin Evers said in a statement." Fucking hell.

[CN: White supremacy] Breanna Edwards at the Root: Federal Judge Officially Dismisses Guilty Verdict Against Joe Arpaio, Who Purposefully Ignored Court Order, Illegally Detained Latinos While Sheriff.
Former Maricopa County, Ariz., Sheriff Joe Arpaio will officially have his criminal record scrubbed clean after a federal judge accepted his presidential pardon Wednesday.

According to the Arizona Republic, at the request of Arpaio's defense lawyers as well as lawyers from the U.S. Department of Justice, U.S. District Judge Susan Bolton dismissed Arpaio's guilty verdict with prejudice, meaning that the case can never be tried again.

You'd think the DOJ lawyers especially would have other things to work on and worry about given, you know, how many accusations of police brutality the nation has been grappling with for the past few years. But, yet, here we are, securing the freedom of a windbag who continually harassed Latino people, has a laundry list of horrific things that happened in his jail while he was running it, and, because one cannot be too much of a racist caricature apparently, continues to insist that our former President Barack Obama's birth certificate is fake.
Sob.

[CN: Homophobia; shooting] Joe Jervis at Joe My God: Man Whose Life Was Saved by Married Lesbian Cop to Speak at National Convention of Anti-LGBT Groups. "Via press release from hate group leader Tony Perkins: 'There were times when we wondered if House Majority Whip Steve Scalise (R-La.) would ever speak at VVS again. But next week, the miraculous recovery of my good friend will literally take center stage, as Steve makes a return trip to the biggest gathering of pro-family conservatives in the country after a shooting that rocked the country.'" Gross.

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Here Is Something Nice


Kazuo Ishiguro, who has written a number of extraordinary novels including A Pale View of Hills, The Remains of the Day, and Never Let Me Go, has been awarded the 2017 Nobel Prize in Literature for "novels of great emotional force" in which he "has uncovered the abyss beneath our illusory sense of connection with the world."

Ishiguro told the BBC that receiving the award was "flabbergastingly flattering," and "a magnificent honour."
He said he hoped the Nobel Prize would be a force for good. "The world is in a very uncertain moment and I would hope all the Nobel Prizes would be a force for something positive in the world as it is at the moment," he said.

"I'll be deeply moved if I could in some way be part of some sort of climate this year in contributing to some sort of positive atmosphere at a very uncertain time."
Well, I'm certainly very positive on this decision! I love his work. He is one of my favorite novelists, and I have always heard that he is a kind person.

So congratulations to Kazuo Ishiguro — and let me also acknowledge his wife Lorna MacDougall, without whose brutally honest collaboration he would not be the same writer.

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The Thursday Blogaround

I meant to post this yesterday afternoon, and then got distracted, so here it is this morning...

This blogaround brought to you by waves.

Recommended Reading:

Teresa Jusino: San Juan's Carmen Yulín Cruz Emphasizes Grassroots Donations to Puerto Rico in Light of Trump's Disastrous Publicity Stunt

Miriam Zoila Pérez: [Content Note: War on agency] House Passes Bill Banning Abortions After 20 Weeks

Andy Towle: [CN: LGBTQ hatred] Trump's Strategic HHS Plan Erases All Mention of LGBTQ People and Their Health Needs

Jessica Mason Pieklo: [CN: Nativism; racism] Trump Administration Argues Immigrant Detainees Deserve No Due Process

Jeff Jarvis: Moral Authority as a Platform

Melanie Ehrenkranz: [CN: Harassment] Tinder Thinks 'Sassy' Emoji Are the Answer to Shitty Men Online

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker ivyceltress: "Carpets, rugs, or hardwood floors?"

A combination! Also: Tile.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Zelda's reaction to everything Trump ever says: YAAAWWWNNN!!!

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The What Happened Book Club

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As promised, here is the first installment of the What Happened Book Club, where we'll do a chapter a week.

That pace will hopefully allow people who need time to procure the book a better chance to catch up, and let us deal with the book in manageable pieces: I figured we will have a lot to talk about, and one thread for the entire book would quickly get overwhelming.

So! Let us begin our discussion with Chapter One: Showing Up.

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The title serves a dual purpose, as the chapter begins with Hillary reckoning with showing up at Donald Trump's inauguration, and ends with Hillary feeling hopeful "for the first time since the election" watching millions of women showing up to the Women's March.

These are dark days she describes — days when many of us were wondering if we'd ever be able to pick ourselves up off the floor ever again, no less keep showing up.

But part of the reason many of us admire Hillary Clinton is because she embodies a tenacity, an indefatigability, an indomitable spirit, a full-on fucking ferocity that is also within ourselves. Often it's easier to appreciate and laud those characteristics in other women than it is to extol those virtues in our own damn selves, in no small part because they are qualities we are obliged to model.

Persistence doesn't seem as extraordinary when the only other option is giving up; when it doesn't look heroic, but looks like the haggard face in one's mirror, gazing back with tired eyes settled in dark circles. The evidence of our own persistence does not give us reason to cheer — although it should. So we cheer for each other.

We cheered for Hillary Clinton.

And that makes it hard to read how hard it was for her to lose. How sad she was, too. And how scared: "The new President's speech was dark and dystopian. I heard it as a howl straight from the white nationalist gut. Its most memorable line was about 'American carnage,' a startling phrase more suited to a slasher film than an inaugural address. Trump painted a picture of a bitter, broken country I didn't recognize."

Hillary notes that her inaugural speech would have been very different indeed. As would everything else, literally everything else, from that day forward until this day and beyond. If she were our president, everything would be different. And that is tough to contemplate. It doesn't get any easier, no matter how many days pass.

If anything, it's only getting harder. At least for me. I can only begin to imagine how Hillary feels.

Anyway. It was a short chapter, but plenty of insight into Hillary's thinking during those days, from her process deciding whether to attend the inaugural to her choice not to attend the Women's March, lest she be a distraction.

It's so frank, so unvarnished, so personal, so raw. It's no wonder her detractors hate it. It lays bare the bankruptcy of their reflexive insults: Inauthentic, calculating, robotic, cold. She was never any of those things, and never has it been more evident.

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We Resist: Day 258

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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The administration planted a bunch of bullshit stories with the stenographers of the political media this morning about how Donald Trump is on the outs with Rex Tillerson. Then, having raised speculation that Tillerson might resign, it was announced that Tillerson would make a statement. His statement turned out to be a bunch of ass-kissing about how much he loves Trump and isn't going anywhere.


Why today? Well:


Trump was probably quite worried about this announcement:


Which just goes to show you how clueless he really is, since there was never anything about which to worry, as the Republican Congressional majority continues to carry water for their president.


Insert an epic eyeroll and a great heaving sigh here. P.S.


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In other news...


Esme Cribb at TPM: The Most Jaw-Dropping Remarks from Trump's Puerto Rico Trip.
On his way out of the White House on Tuesday, Trump incorrectly claimed that roads on Puerto Rico have been cleared and congratulated himself on doing what he dubiously claimed was "a great job."

Then he called on residents of the hurricane-pummeled island — many of whom lack electricity, access to water and sewage treatment after a Category 4 storm hit nearly two weeks ago — to give the federal government a hand.

"We need their truck drivers," Trump said. "Their drivers have to start driving trucks. We have to do that, so at a local level they have to give us more help."

A U.S. labor union told CNN on Saturday that the island is facing not only a shortage of diesel fuel, a necessity for powering the trucks, but also a possible shortage of the vehicles themselves. "It is unclear if there are trucks available to move the containers, fuel to operate the trucks, or road access to the distribution centers," the Teamsters union said.

When he landed on the island, Trump informed Puerto Ricans that the federal relief effort to rebuild their shattered infrastructure is coming out of government coffers.

"I hate to tell you, Puerto Rico, but you've thrown our budget a little out of whack, because we spent a lot of money on Puerto Rico, and that's fine," Trump said. He then compared Hurricane Maria to Katrina, which he called a "real catastrophe."

...Then, during a tour of the devastation, he told survivors to "have a good time."

"Great to see you," Trump added.

During a later appearance where he handed out supplies, the president "tossed rolls of paper towels into the crowd," according to a White House pool report. "There's a lot of love in this room," he said. "Great people."

Trump later claimed that "most of the hospitals" on Puerto Rico were open. He said "the job that's been done" on the island "is really nothing short of a miracle." As of Friday, of Puerto Rico's 69 hospitals, only one was fully operational, according to FEMA.

"Flashlights," Trump said to the crowd, handing out the items at an aid center. "You don't need them anymore!" As of Monday, Reuters reported, the U.S. Energy Department said about 5.4 percent of customers had power restored.
What a colossal jerk he is.


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Every. Damn. Time.

[Content Note: Mass violence; terror; domestic violence.]

When I heard about Stephen Paddock's mass shooting in Las Vegas, I tweeted that it was probable he had a history of domestic violence. As happens every time, countless people (who don't understand what "probably" means) yelled at me that I was spreading disinformation, because the patriarchy is so thick in our culture that people reflexively want to silence any woman who speaks about toxic masculinity and affiliated violence, and defend any man about whom she may be speaking.

There are people so intent on giving even the fucking worst men the benefit of the doubt that they'd unaccountably believe a mass murdering piece of terrorist shit might have been a solid boyfriend.

Unlikely. To say the least.

And not just because it beggars belief to presume that someone who kills dozens of people and injures hundreds more refrains from interpersonal abuse. Also because there is a demonstrable link between domestic violence and mass violence.

This time was no different: Paddock was "remembered for berating his girlfriend" by Starbucks employees, who recalled he "had a nasty habit of berating Marilou Danley in public. 'It happened a lot,' Esperanza Mendoza, supervisor of the Starbucks, said Tuesday."

If that is how he treated Danley in public, we can imagine how he treated her behind their constantly closed blinds.

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I have been writing in this space for years about expressed misogyny and domestic violence as a precursor to mass violence, public shootings, and acts of terror.

Elliot Rodger. Ben Moynihan. Marc Lépine. Seung-Hui Cho. George Sodini. Anders Behring Breivik. Jaylen Fryburg. Mark Dorch. Christopher Harper-Mercer. All of these men had expressed a resentment of and hatred for women.

December 2012: Adam Lanza goes on a killing spree at an elementary school. He started his rampage by killing his mother.

April 2013: Tamerlan Tsarnaev, one of the brothers who bombed the Boston Marathon, is reported to have been arrested for domestic violence against his girlfriend several years before the bombing.

February 2015: Cedric Ford goes on a shooting spree, wounding 14 people and killing three others across multiple sites after being "served a protection from abuse order just hours before the first shooting."

June 2015: Dylann Roof justifies his mass murder of parishioners at the AME church in Charleston by asserting his ownership of white women.

November 2015: Robert Dear shoots at a Planned Parenthood facility, killing three people. He has a history of anti-choice vandalism, stalking, peeping, and domestic violence.

June 2016: Omar Mateen goes on a deadly shooting spree at Pulse Nightclub in Orlando. He has a history of domestic violence, including against an ex-wife whose parents had to physically extricate her from the marriage.

July 2016: Micah Xavier Johnson ambushes police and kills five officers. He was discharged from military service for sexual harassment.

July 2016: Mohamed Lahouaiej Bouhlel goes on a violent rampage in Nice on Bastille Day, after his wife threw him out of the house and filed for divorce. A neighbor said: "He kept to himself but would always rant about his wife. He had marital problems and would tell people in the local cafe."

September 2016: Arcan Cetin kills five people at the Cascade Mall in Burlington, Washington. He has a criminal record that includes domestic violence assault charges.

January 2017: Alexandre Bissonnette kills six Muslims at their mosque. He is found to have a history of making "frequent extreme comments in social media denigrating refugees and feminism."

Which is not even the complete list of misogynist mass killers, nor a comprehensive accounting of the incidents of mass violence committed by people with a history of domestic violence.

When the Huffington Post analyzed five years of data on mass shootings, they found "that a majority of these mass shootings were related to domestic violence. In 57 percent of the incidents, a family member or an intimate partner was among the victims."

And that is just mass shootings directly related to domestic violence. If any incident in which the perpetrator had any history of domestic violence were included, the number would shoot up exponentially.

"The pattern," wrote Pamela Shifman and Salamishah Tillet in the New York Times in 2015, "is striking. Men who are eventually arrested for violent acts often began with attacks against their girlfriends and wives. In many cases, the charges of domestic violence were not taken seriously or were dismissed."

This is the reality of mass violence:


Not all men who commit domestic violence go on to become mass killers — but virtually every man who commits a public act of violence has a history of domestic violence.

We continue to ignore this glaring red flag at our collective peril.

Which is only but one of many reasons that we should be taking the public health and safety crisis of domestic violence much more seriously than we do. Starting with the fact that women deserve to live lives free from abuse.

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[Image embedded in tweet is a figurine of the character Aughra from The Dark Crystal holding her eyeball in her hand. She is sitting on my coffee table in my living room.]

Welp, I do indeed have conjunctivitis — confirmed by the doc, who prescribed me some drops that have to be put in both eyes every three hours (what?!) for seven days (omg).

My eyes are, as you can imagine, supremely irritated, so content may still be spotty today, as I give my eyes plenty of chances to rest. By which I mean: Be closed, which they want to do 100% of the time at this point, lol.

Thanks for the support and kindness and patience, everyone. ♥

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We Resist: Day 257

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One of the difficulties in resisting the Trump administration, the Republican Congressional majority, and Republican state legislatures is keeping on top of the sheer number of horrors, indignities, and normalization of the aggressively abnormal that they unleash every single day.

So here is a daily thread for all of us to share all the things that are going on, thus crowdsourcing a daily compendium of the onslaught of conservative erosion of our rights and our very democracy.

Stay engaged. Stay vigilant. Resist.

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Blog Note

I've got what I suspect is a bad case of conjunctivitis (pink eye) which started last night and got precipitously worse overnight. When I woke up, one eye was swollen shut altogether, my face is swollen, and I'm running a fever — so I need to get to the doctor ASAP.

Since I am struggling to see the screen even as I type this, and because I'm feeling like hot garbage, I won't be able to produce much content today, but I will put up a We Resist Thread for sharing newsworthy items throughout the day.

I'll be back as soon as I can.

As always, well-wishing is welcome, but no one should feel obliged. Thanks so much for your patience and understanding. ♥

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Kathy_A: "Favorite movie-going experience?"

I love going to the movies, and I've had a lot of great movie-going experiences, but the first one that came to mind was seeing the Scottish premiere of Star Wars: Episode II — Attack of the Clones with Iain while we were living in Edinburgh in 2002.

It was a charity event to raise money for Rachel House, a hospice for terminally ill children.

So it was simultaneously a very fun and exciting movie-going experience and also one that supported an excellent cause.

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The Monday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by waves.

Recommended Reading:

Heather Dockray: [Content Note: Terror; white male privilege; disablism] Every Euphemism People Have Used Instead of Calling Stephen Paddock a Terrorist

Kenrya Rankin: [CN: Racism; neglect] Committee on Natural Resources Dems Demand Hearing on Trump's Hurricane Response in Puerto Rico and the U.S. Virgin Islands

Kate Conger: Equifax Was Warned About Vulnerability But Failed to Patch It

Britta Lokting: Meet the 12-Year-Old Trailblazer Fighting for Equality in Kids' Books

David Pescovitz: Fantastic Trailer for New Jane Goodall Documentary

Kaila Hale-Stern: An Artist Answered Our Call to Draw a Male Superhero Like Wonder Woman

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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RIP Tom Petty (ETA. Or Not)

UPDATE: Tom Petty remains in critical condition. The Los Angeles Police apparently made a mistake. I hope it's a mistake that Petty recovers to enjoy. That doesn't seem likely at this moment, but fingers crossed! If Petty does recover, that would definitely be the most rock and roll thing ever.

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Rock and roller Tom Petty has died at age 66 after suffering cardiac arrest and subsequently being removed from life support. I feel very, very sad. My condolences to his family, friends, colleagues, and fans.


I wish I could say more than that, but I can't at the moment. The truth is, that's probably all of value I have to say, anyway.

Well I know what's right
I got just one life
In a world that keeps on pushin' me around
But I'll stand my ground.

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