Math Is Hard

[Content Note: Misogyny; racism.]

'Women for Trump' signs! I love this. [crowd cheers] Women for Trump! I don't get these polls. Every place I go, I see hundreds of women for Trump, and then I see a poll: "He is not doing well with women." I don't know; I don't know.

You know, my daughter Ivanka—she wants child care and senior care...all of 'em! But you know women want safety for our country. They want a strong military; they don't want crime in their cities; they wanna be protected by law and order—they want law and order!

The women in this country want what I'm saying!

And we are really—I think we're saying it very strong. So, to the African Americans, I say: I will fix it. To the Hispanic Americans, I say: I will fix it. I will fight for you harder than anybody has ever fought for you! That's all of you! That's all of you! That's everyone.
Okay. 1. Bullshit. The only person Donald Trump fights for is Donald Trump. 2. Trump is the most aggressive monolithizer of people I believe I've ever encountered in national politics, which is really saying something. 3. Math is hard. Even if Trump is indeed seeing "hundreds of women" with Trump signs at his rallies, there are 125 million adult women or so in the United States, so.


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A Master Class on Revictimization

[Content Note: Sexual assault; rape apologia; revictimization.]

I've got a new piece at Shareblue, deconstructing the emerging media narrative being used to discredit the women who have reported being assaulted by Donald Trump — that their "timing" is suspect.

That CNN contributor Corey Lewandowski, who is still on Donald Trump's payroll, would push back against allegations made about Trump is hardly surprising. It is notable, however, how very precisely his defense follows a familiar script employed against survivors of sexual assault.

Lewandowski hit all the high notes of rape apologia: He finds the timing "interesting." He finds it unconvincing that they are not politically motivated. He questions why they are coming forward now — while casually brushing aside the obvious answer: Because they just saw Trump lie during a nationally-televised presidential debate, and they cannot bear to be silent anymore.

Over the course of several days leading up to the debate, we heard Trump admit that he kisses and gropes women without their consent, and that he walked in on naked pageant contestants. Women who had been subjected to these acts, many of whom have said they questioned themselves and/or what really happened, thus had their experiences validated by the very man who assaulted them.

During the subsequent presidential debate, moderator Anderson Cooper pressed Trump about whether his "locker room talk" had ever been more than just talk. Trump said no. Women to whom he had actually done these things then decided they could no longer keep their stories to themselves.

That is the "timing." It is not that it is October. It is that women who were, each individually, sitting with this history, were provided a compelling impetus to come forward by the man who harmed them.

And, because there is such a steep cost to being a woman who publicly alleges sexual assault against a famous man, there is safety in numbers. The more women come forward, the safer it feels to other women. This is a dynamic that we have seen time and again — most prominently in the Bill Cosby case.

Lewandowski is trading on the fact that the reflexive cultural response to allegations of sexual assault is disbelief and suspicion. In most cases, however, the abuser has not boasted about doing the very things he is accused of doing.
There is much more at the link.

And I really can't stress this enough: The "timing" is wholly the responsibility of Donald Trump.

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An Observation

[Content Note: Abuse.]

I'm having all kinds of feelings right now about the fact that women Donald Trump abused are obliged to tell their stories publicly, because those of us who saw what a terrible, abusive person he is from the jump were not only ignored, but viciously harassed for sending up the signal.

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More Assault Allegations Against Trump

[Content Note: Descriptions of sexual assault.]

Yesterday morning, I noted that four competitors in the Miss Teen USA pageant had alleged Donald Trump walked in on them while they were in various states of undress, which is also alleged to have done to Miss Universe and/or Miss USA contestants.

By the end of the day, there were at least seven more assault allegations against Trump.

First, the New York Times reported [CN: video may autoplay at link] the stories of two women who had been groped by Trump many years ago, and who felt compelled to come forward after Trump claimed during the last debate that his "grab women's pussies" comment was just "locker room talk," but that he had never actually done anything like that.

Jessica Leeds recounted sitting next to Trump on an airplane more than three decades ago: "About 45 minutes after takeoff, she recalled, Mr. Trump lifted the armrest and began to touch her. According to Ms. Leeds, Mr. Trump grabbed her breasts and tried to put his hand up her skirt. 'He was like an octopus,' she said. 'His hands were everywhere.' She fled to the back of the plane. 'It was an assault,' she said."

Rachel Crooks recounted meeting Trump in an elevator and introducing herself, because the company for which she worked did business with his: "They shook hands, but Mr. Trump would not let go, she said. Instead, he began kissing her cheeks. Then, she said, he 'kissed me directly on the mouth.' It didn't feel like an accident, she said. It felt like a violation. 'It was so inappropriate,' Ms. Crooks recalled in an interview. 'I was so upset that he thought I was so insignificant that he could do that.'"

The Trump campaign responded to the story by publishing a statement on the campaign website, which read, in part: "This entire article is fiction, and for the New York Times to launch a completely false, coordinated character assassination against Mr. Trump on a topic like this is dangerous. To reach back decades in an attempt to smear Mr. Trump trivializes sexual assault...It is absurd to think that one of the most recognizable business leaders on the planet with a strong record of empowering women in his companies would do the things alleged in this story, and for this to only become public decades later in the final month of a campaign for president should say it all."

There's a lot to unpack there. I will simply note, again, that the only reason these stories became "public decades later" is because the women he assaulted saw him lie during a presidential debate and refused to let him get away with it.

Leeds' and Crooks' stories are very much like those of Jill Harth and Temple Taggart, which were already public.


And so there were. By the end of last night, we had also learned [CN: video may autoplay at link] People writer Natasha Stoynoff's harrowing tale of being assaulted by Trump while on assignment: "When we took a break for the then very-pregnant Melania to go upstairs and change wardrobe for more photos, Donald wanted to show me around the mansion. There was one 'tremendous' room in particular, he said, that I just had to see. We walked into that room alone, and Trump shut the door behind us. I turned around, and within seconds, he was pushing me against the wall, and forcing his tongue down my throat." Saved by the butler, she went back to the interview, and then:
I tried to act normal. I had a job to do, and I was determined to do it. I sat in a chair that faced Trump, who waited for his wife on a loveseat. The butler left us, and I fumbled with my tape recorder. Trump smiled and leaned forward.

"You know we're going to have an affair, don't you?" he declared, in the same confident tone he uses when he says he's going to make America great again. "Have you ever been to Peter Luger's for steaks? I'll take you. We're going to have an affair, I'm telling you." He also referenced the infamous cover of the New York Post during his affair with Marla Maples. "You remember," he said. "Best Sex I Ever Had."
We also learned that former Miss USA contestant Cassandra Searles had posted on Facebook about Trump's predatory behavior, including "that time he continually grabbed my ass and invited me to his hotel room."

And that former Miss Arizona Tasha Dixon said Trump came "waltzing in" on pageant contestants in their dressing rooms, and another contestant, who preferred to remain anonymous, described yet another, separate incident.

And that Mindy McGillivray "said she was groped by Trump at Mar-a-Lago 13 years ago. She said she never reported it to authorities. But her companion that day, photographer Ken Davidoff, vividly remembers when McGillivray pulled him aside moments after the alleged incident and told him, 'Donald just grabbed my ass!'"

And that [CN: video may autoplay at link] there is footage from a 1992 Entertainment Tonight Christmas special of Trump looking "at a group of young girls and said he would be dating one of them in ten years."
In the clip, Trump asks one of the girls if she's "going up the escalator." When the girl replies, "yeah," Trump turns to the camera and says: "I am going to be dating her in 10 years. Can you believe it?"
There may well be some that I've missed. The floodgates have opened.

Trump has gotten away with this behavior for a very long time. There are certainly lots of women he has abused over many decades. And every member of the Republican Party who has supported this guy, and continues to support him, is abetting his continued abuse. The last thing he needs is more power.


Yes, yes we do. And our choice is between a woman who used her position as Secretary of State to faciliate the prevention of sexual violence around the globe, or a man who is himself a sexual predator.

My support and solidarity with every woman who is speaking out.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker BellsBromeliad: "What's your most effective (for you) coping mechanism for getting through this horrific election?"

Picturing the potential celebration on Election Night. *wink!*

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



The Rescues: "Break Me Out"

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The Wednesday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by vanilla.

Recommended Reading:

Reina: [Content Note: Rape culture; misogyny] Why Do Misogynists Like Donald Trump Love to Talk About How Much They Respect Women?

Katherine: [CN: Incest] Donald Trump Once Said He Has 'Sex' in Common with His Daughter Ivanka

Andy: President Obama Smells Himself to Prove He's Not a Demon

Cassie: The Smithsonian's New African American Museum Was a Long Time in the Making

Maddie: [CN: Moving GIF at link] Try Not to Cry While Watching Earth Rise From the Moon in HD

Rachel: Couple Celebrates 50 Years of Marriage in Wedding Outfits They Wore in 1966

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Whut. And Wrong.

And by the way, you know that so-called Commission on Presidential Debates? The head guy used to work for Bill Clinton! Did you know what? I just found that out! The head guy worked for Bill Clinton! Ai yi yi what a rigged deal this is. But here's the story— I have no respect for that group, by the way. I'm done. It sounds good. Presidential Commission. Give me a break! That's why I was so happy what we did to annihilate the enemy the other day. So happy.

Two things:

1. The man to whom Trump is referring, Mike McCurry, did indeed work for Bill Clinton. He was the press secretary for Bill Clinton's administration, and he is well-respected communications consultant. He is also the co-chair of the Commission on Presidential Debates with Frank Fahrenkopf (see?), who served as chair of the Republican National Committee (Reince Priebus' current gig) from 1983 to 1989, during the Reagan administration. So, if it matters that one guy worked for Bill Clinton, it matters that the other guy worked for the RNC. But Trump conveniently leaves out that part.

2. Trump isn't saying here that he won't show up to the third debate, but he's definitely laying the groundwork for justifying a withdrawal. One of the worst things about him, among a lot of awful things, is that he's a chickenshit who continually masks his own cowardice behind accusations of "rigging." He's playing with fire. People who lose faith in their governmental institutions are dangerous. And he's willing to tear the whole thing down just so he doesn't have to admit he's afraid to lose to a girl.

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Daily Dose of Cute

image of Zelda the Black and Tan Mutt sitting on the floor next to me with a plushy toy on her head, giving me A Look
"Very amusing, Two-Legs."

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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In the News

Here is some stuff in the news today...

Y'all! Shareblue's Benchmark Politics site is up and running! This is super exciting, because Anthony Reed's polling model is amazingly accurate, and also because Anthony is a super smart and incredibly kind dude with whom I love working, and you know how I love promoting the work of awesome people! If, in these waning weeks of the election, you are biting your nails and get some relief from being on top of the polling and forecasts, bookmark this page, because it will be continually updated so you've got access to the latest numbers.

Speaking of Shareblue, I've got a new piece there on some of the new policy Hillary Clinton has introduced this week, carrying on with unflappable dedication to the people she hopes to serve as president, even in the middle of a chaotic and scary campaign.

Wow: "LGBT kids are perfect exactly the way they are."—Hillary Clinton, calling for an end to conversion therapy. We are alive at a time when a United States presidential candidate says that LGBT kids are perfect exactly as they are. What you have to understand, if you aren't two hundred million years old like I am, is that I lived through administrations in which LGBT USians weren't mentioned by the president at all. This is something. It is good.

In other election news: Utah's biggest newspaper just endorsed Clinton (!!!), and Donald Trump thinks it's "pretty sad" that he could lose the election because of women. P.S. In the most recent polling, Clinton is winning women by 33 points.

[Content Note: Carcerality; self-harm; torture] Thank Maude: "Chelsea Manning has emerged from seven days of solitary confinement as punishment for having tried to take her own life during a spell of despair related to her treatment as a transgender woman at the hands of her military jailers. The army private, who is serving 35 years in the harshest sentence meted out to any source of an official government leak in modern history, announced her return to the general population of the military prison in Fort Leavenworth, Kansas, in a tweet. 'I'm back. I'm OK. I'm resting and trying to get back in the groove of things.'" I'm relieved she is okay, but I'm filthy angry she was sent to solitary in the first place.

[CN: White privilege] I've said before to read everything Jessica Mason Pieklo writes, and this is no exception: "Ruth Bader Ginsburg Shows Why White Feminists Must Do Better."

[CN: Video may autoplay at link] "Ancient Stars Spotted at Milky Way's Heart."

What have you been reading?

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Welp


Image Descriptions: A map of the US showing nearly all states going red (Republican) if only men voted, and a map of the US showing nearly all states going blue (Democratic) if only women voted.

Thank Maude for the 19th Amendment.

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Another Revelation of Trump's Sexual Predation

[Content Note: Sexual assault.]

Though the dominant news story about Donald Trump's sexual predation has been the Trump Tape, in which he talked about kissing and grabbing women's genitals without their consent, as you may recall, I also flagged another instance buried deep in a CNN news story, in which Trump describes walking in on Miss Universe and/or Miss USA contestants while they were undressed, and saying he "gets away with it" because he owns the pageant(s).

Now, there is a new report that he did the same thing to competitors in the Miss Teen USA pageant, some of whom were as young as 15:

"I remember putting on my dress really quick because I was like, 'Oh my god, there's a man in here,'" said Mariah Billado, the former Miss Vermont Teen USA.

Trump, she recalled, said something like, "Don't worry, ladies, I've seen it all before."

Three other women, who asked to remain anonymous for fear of getting engulfed in a media firestorm, also remembered Trump entering the dressing room while girls were changing. Two of them said the girls rushed to cover their bodies, with one calling it "shocking" and "creepy."

...Trump, who owned the Miss Universe, Miss USA, and Miss Teen USA pageants from 1996 until last year, has publicly bragged about invading beauty queen dressing rooms, calling it one of his prerogatives of ownership.

...Until now it was never alleged that this behavior extended to the teen pageant, in which contestants can be as old as 19 or as young as 14.
Meanwhile, his campaign manager, Kellyanne Conway, appeared on Good Morning America with George Stephanopoulos and admonished Republicans who are equivocating on their support for Trump to "stop pussyfooting around." Because this is all a big fucking joke to this despicable campaign.

Rage. Seethe. Boil.

UPDATE: I've got more on this at Shareblue.

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Red Flag. Red Flag. Red Flag.

[Content Note: Abuse; misogyny.]

Yesterday afternoon, on Twitter, Jamil Smith flagged something notable about Donald Trump's latest attack ad:


The screen cap, one of the final frames of the ad, shows Trump, wearing his red "Make America Great Again" baseball cap and giving the thumbs up, with text along the bottom of the screen reading: "Donald Trump will protect you. He is the only one who can."

Smith observed: "Saying 'Donald Trump will protect you; he is the only one who can' will remind many women of what they've heard from their abusive partners." Indeed.


This is not an exaggeration. Any man who has put himself in the role of my "protector" (which has always been unsolicited) has inevitably distorted that "protection" into the exertion of control. Because, ultimately, I had to be "protected" from myself. As much as, if not more than, anyone else.

Caring about someone, even so intimately that you would risk your own safety to preserve theirs, is not the same as viewing oneself as a fixed-state "protector." I want people in my life who care about me and my well-being; who would try to shield me from harm if I needed it. I want people in my life for whom I would do the same.

But those relationships must always be centered in the shared agreement that we are each competent governors of our own lives; that we each know what's best for ourselves; that there will be other people in our lives whom we trust, too.

"I'm the only one who protect you" is not an offer of safety. It's a threat of control.

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This Is Just a Real Thing That Happened


"We're doing something that's incredible; it's a movement. But, if we don't win, all it is is a little asterisk in history. There's never been anything like this. So go and register. Make sure you get out and vote November 28th."

Whooooooooops!

For the record, Election Day is Tuesday, November 8.

2016.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Mira: "What's your favorite animated film/tv show?"

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



Esperanza Spalding with Algebra Blesset: "Black Gold"

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Photo of the Day

black and white image of a little girl who appears to be white at a Clinton rally, wearing a t-shirt that reads: 'Girls Just Want to Have [equal sign symbolizing the word equality]'
[Photo: Erin Schaff for Hillary for America.]

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Working for Every Vote

I've got a new piece at Shareblue about Hillary Clinton's commanding ground game:

Hillary Clinton campaigns hard, whether she is ahead in the polls or trailing in the polls. She does not take anything for granted. Not the unpredictable nature of national politics, not votes, and not the voters who cast them.

She has said, often, that she is working for every last vote and that she will work hard, if elected, for every person in the country, irrespective of whether they voted for her. Because that is what good public service entails.

A significant part of working for every vote means building a solid and successful ground game. And so she has.

The numbers do not lie: Clinton is trouncing Donald Trump in the ground game.
There is oh so much more at the link!

This is really something that doesn't get discussed enough during presidential campaigns—especially this one, with its regrettable disproportionate focus on "optics."

The way that campaigns are run matters. Not just in terms of content, but in terms of efficacy.

Clinton works hard, and she's built a team that works hard. A diverse team, filled with people who have expertise in the areas in which they're working. She draws talent, and she puts it to effective use.

That tells us something about the kind of president she'll be. And it's the kind of president we should all want.

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