Here Are Two Really Cool Headlines

[Content Note: Bigotry; videos may autoplay at links.]

Both care of CNN:

1. "National Review, conservative thinkers stand against Trump." Conservative thinkers [sic]. "National Review, the conservative magazine founded by William F. Buckley, published a special issue on Friday opposing Donald Trump's bid for the presidency. ...The issue features a blistering editorial that labels Trump a threat to conservatism, as well as essays by 22 prominent conservative thinkers from various ideological factions, in opposition to Trump's candidacy."

image of the cover of the National Review, with giant text reading AGAINST TRUMP

LOL. Okay, players. After spending decades playing a crucial role in cultivating a base of gross bigots, now they want to announce that they're "Against Trump," the inevitable Monster King to emerge from the cesspool of their own making.

2. "The Ted Cruz pile on: GOP senators warn of revolt should he win nomination." Well, I always find GOP senators revolting. But anyway.
In interviews with CNN, a growing number of Republicans are beginning to echo remarks made by the likes of former Sen. Bob Dole and Iowa Gov. Terry Branstad, warning that the party would suffer deep losses down the ticket and risk electing a Democratic president if the Texas senator wins the nomination.

"I think we'll lose if he's our nominee," said Orrin Hatch, the most senior Republican in the Senate.

"There's a lot of people who don't feel he can appeal to people across the board," Hatch said. "For us to win, we have to appeal to the moderates and independents. We can't just act like that only one point of view is the only way to go. That's where Ted is going to have some trouble."
There ain't a single candidate in the GOP primary who would appeal to moderates and independents!

So, basically, the Republican establishment is shitting its breeks over the thought of Trump or Cruz getting the nomination.

I would be delighted with their collective agita over their chickens coming home to roost, if it weren't for the fact that one of these jackasses will have a shot at the presidency. Sob.

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ABORTION ABORTION ABORTION

[Content Note: War on agency.]

I know Democrats hate saying the word abortion, because people who will never vote for them will continue to not vote for them if they say it, but seriously this is fucking ridiculous:

screen cap of the 'Statement by the President on the 43rd Anniversary of Roe v. Wade' reading: 'Today, we mark the 43rd anniversary of the Supreme Court ruling in Roe v. Wade, which affirmed a woman's freedom to make her own choices about her body and her health. The decision supports the broader principle that the government should not intrude on private decisions made between a woman and her doctor. As we commemorate this day, we also redouble our commitment to protecting these constitutional rights, including protecting a woman's access to safe, affordable health care and her right to reproductive freedom from efforts to undermine or overturn them. In America, every single one of us deserves the rights, freedoms, and opportunities to fulfill our dreams.'

When our ostensibly pro-choice President cannot even use the word "abortion" in a statement commemorating the Supreme Court ruling legalizing abortion, we are well and truly fucked.

The refusal to say the word aloud is not a neutral decision. It entrenches abortion stigma. Entrenching abortion stigma is fundamentally incompatible with being pro-choice.

ABORTION ABORTION ABORTION.

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On the Holtzclaw Verdict

[Content Note: Sexual violence; misogynoir; carcerality; police brutality.]

In December, former Oklahoma City police officer Daniel Holtzclaw, who was standing trial on charges that he sexually assaulted 13 black women, was found guilty on 18 of 36 charges: Four counts of first-degree rape, one count of second-degree rape, six counts of sexual battery, four counts of forcible sodomy, and three counts of procuring lewd acts. The jury recommended "a total of 263 years in prison."

[CN: Video may autoplay at link] Yesterday, District Judge Timothy Henderson agreed with their recommendation and sentenced Holtzclaw to 263 years, with the sentences to be served consecutively. Henderson also denied Holtzclaw's request for an appeal bond, so he will have to appeal the verdict from prison.

I heard about the sentencing yesterday afternoon, but I waited to write about it until I had some time to sit with it.

I am both an anti-rape advocate and a prison abolitionist. And this case, this sentence, challenges my principles.

On the one hand, I am very happy indeed that his victims (at least some of them, because he was acquitted on some counts) were believed and that he was held accountable for his profound abuse. Especially given the particulars of this case: A white cop, who preyed on black women. It is important that his predation and harm has been recognized, that the survivors have been heard and their trauma acknowledged, that he has been stopped.

On the other hand, I am well aware that he is being sent into a prison system where he is very likely to be sexually assaulted himself. Or killed. Or held in isolation for the rest of his life, which is tantamount to subjecting him to torture under the auspices of protecting him.

I have said dozens of times in this space that more violence is not a solution to violence. And I believe that. Even in the case of Daniel Holtzclaw.

Mariame Kaba, aka Prison Culture, whose work has been an invaluable part of my education and transformation into a prison abolitionist, wrote last night (which I am sharing with her permission): "Sentencing ANYONE for ANYTHING to 263 years in a cage exposes the actual purpose of prison as punishment (nothing more) and revenge. Will any human being live for 200 years?"

That strongly resonates with my immediate response upon reading of the sentence: "What is the point, really the point, of a 200+ year sentence? But what else is there to do with him?"

The point, as Mariame correctly observes, is punishment and revenge.

Is punishment and revenge justice? Is it even an effective strategy to dismantle the rape culture and eradicate rape?

The answer is no, on both counts.

But we have no alternatives at the moment. All we have is cages.

And we justify those cages by saying that Holtzclaw is remorseless. There's nothing to do with a remorseless predator but lock him up and throw away the key.

But what if his remorselessness is a function of his having been cloistered in a community, a profession, a culture in which remorse is not an expectation? What if even Holtzclaw would experience and express remorse if anyone around him expected and facilitated the empathy he lacks?

What if the fact that we can't, or won't, envision anything but a cage as a prison entrenches that remorselessness?

We have created prisons of which dehumanization is a central feature, where emotional and psychological rehabilitation isn't on offer, and then use evidence of continued remorselessness as a justification for that very dehumanization and neglect.

And we pretend there is no other way. But there are other models. Prisons that don't look like prisons, as we expect them to look. And don't function like prisons, as we expect them to function. And to which no one is sentenced for 263 years.

I have no sympathy for Daniel Holtzclaw. None. But it is in a case like this that we must pause and consider what we are prioritizing, a case where it is so, so easy to hear a sentence of 263 years and think, "Take that, you fucker!" I feel that. A part of me feels that. That is a part of me that doesn't long for justice, but revenge.

I don't want to be a person who longs for revenge.

Longing for revenge is what has created the corrupt, violent, dehumanizing prison system we have now. Has obliterated visions of alternatives that are truly just.

I want real justice for the women he victimized. I take up space in solidarity with them, and I certainly respect and understand that they may might be celebrating this sentence. They aren't obliged to feel any other way. It is the closest thing in the US there is to justice right now. There are no alternatives for accountability besides cages.

There never will be, if we don't imagine them and advocate for alternatives, even and especially when it is hard.

I am glad that Holtzclaw was held accountable. I am not glad he was sentenced to 263 years in prison. I am angry that the latter is the only option offered for the former. I ache that we have no finer solutions to heinous interpersonal violence than state violence.

And I am impatient for change.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

What political subject will most quickly exhaust you if you're obliged to debate it?

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Squirrel Appreciation Day

Since today is Squirrel Appreciation Day, here is a video I took recently of Olivia and me watching our resident squirrels out the window, recovering their nut stash from their hidey-holes. They're TOO CUTE!


Video Description: A grey squirrel does some important squirrel business, digging underneath fallen leaves to find the nuts it buried below earlier in the year. It pulls up an acorn and holds it in its wee hands, munching. Then it scurries around, picking through the leaves in search of more buried treasure. It hops up on a rock, standing on its hind legs, watching a car pass, then goes back to nut-hunting. I pan to the left, and there is another grey squirrel also engaging in important squirrel business. Olivia the White Farm Cat, who is sitting beside me, watches the squirrel intently through the window. Second Squirrel hops around, investigates a plant, and then runs up a tree. First Squirrel hops back up on the rock, stands up, looks around, and then scurries away.

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Discussion Thread: Assessing the Candidates

Since I've been talking about how I assess the candidates today: How do you assess candidates running for office? (This question is not limited to US voters.) Do you even bother assessing the candidates in all parties, or are there certain parties you don't even bother seriously considering? Do you assess local candidates differently from national candidates?

Please note that this thread is not an invitation to stump for a particular candidate, although you are welcome to cite examples of specific kinds of assessments that have mattered to you. And, as always, please use I language, making sure not to imply or plainly state that your way is the best or only way. Do not tell anyone else how they should vote.

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[Content Note: There are flickery disco balls in this video.]



Laura Branigan: "Gloria"

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Assessing the Candidates, Part Two

[Part One.]

Here is another curious thing about engaging with Sanders Stans: The axiomatic assumption, stemming from the (unjusitifed) conclusion that if I prefer Hillary Clinton as a candidate I must hate Bernie Sanders; that if Sanders gets the nomination, I won't support him.

I am not a Democratic partisan, but I have always supported the Democratic nominee, with various degrees of enthusiasm. Sometimes, it has only been to defeat the Republican nominee, and that's more than enough for me.

(No one else is required to agree.)

The truth is, every time there has been a Democratic primary in my voting lifetime, I have never supported the eventual Democratic nominee during the primary. My horse has lost every single time.

And sometimes, that has been a good thing! It's impossible to overstate how much more successful a presidency Barack Obama's has been than John Edwards' would have been, since he turned out to be a huge dirtbag.

Even though Obama wasn't my first choice, I happily cast a vote for him. Twice.

If I had the opportunity to cast a vote for him a third time, I would.

And I spent an awful lot of time criticizing President Obama during the '08 primary, appealing to him to do better. I have spent an awful lot of time criticizing him during his presidency. Because I saw someone who I thought was capable of doing better.

(Though it may have escaped the Sanders Stans' notice, I've spent an awful lot of time criticizing Clinton, too.)

I expect more. Always more.

Which brings me again to the point that criticisms of Sanders are not because I hate him, or would refuse to support him if he is the eventual nominee, but because I have legitimate disagreements with him, and because I recognize he could be the nominee, and I want him to be the best candidate possible if that is the case.

Candidates don't get stronger through deference, but challenge.

Clinton has navigated an enormous amount of challenge to her policies and principles on the national stage, from both progressives and conservatives. It has demonstrably made her a stronger candidate, even just since the last time she ran.

For that reason, and others, it is my estimation that Clinton is better prepared overall for the presidency, of two candidates neither of whose proposed policies and historical records perfectly align with my priorities (and in both cases vastly differ on some issues).

That doesn't mean I would hate a Bernie Sanders presidency, were he to win the nomination and the general election. To the contrary, I'm open to the possibility that I could like a President Sanders.

Just like I have liked President Obama.

The things I didn't like about his candidacy, well, I don't like about his presidency, either. And there are other things I didn't even expect that I don't like. But there have been a lot of things I didn't expect that I do like, too.

The same will probably be true of whoever the next Democratic president is. Not certainly. But probably.

Don't mistake my measured approach as passionless indifference. Trust that someone who has spent the last 11 years of her life writing about politics doesn't do it because she's apathetic. I just don't need to despise one candidate to prefer another.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Sophie, having taken up residence on my boob shelf yet again.

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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In the News

Here is some stuff in the news today...

Today is National Hugging Day. Never hug anyone without their consent! Also: Not everyone likes hugging, and that is okay.

[Content Note: Class warfare; institutional harm; clean water access] President Obama has declared a state of emergency in Flint, Michigan, because of the water contamination crisis. [CN: Video may autoplay at link] Julie Bosman, Monica Davey, and Mitch Smith detail, for the New York Times, how local officials minimized and mocked residents' complaints about the toxic water, as those people were being slowly poisoned.

[CN: Assassination] "The murder of ex-Russian spy Alexander Litvinenko in 2006 in the UK was 'probably' approved by President Vladimir Putin, an inquiry has found. Mr Putin is likely to have signed off the poisoning of Mr Litvinenko with polonium-210 in part due to personal 'antagonism' between the pair, it said." How surprising, said nobody. Because Putin is a terrible and terrifying nightmare human who regards international law as quaint suggestions that don't apply to Garbage Kings.

[CN: Hostility to consent; anti-choice fuckery] This would be unbelievable if I didn't believe that Republicans are capable of just about anything but decency: "Carly Fiorina has been accused of 'ambushing' a group of children, after she ushered pre-schoolers, who were on a field trip to a botanical garden, into an anti-abortion rally in Des Moines. ...The alleged ambush occurred when Fiorina hosted a 'right to life' forum at the Greater Des Moines botanical garden. Entering the rally, before a crowd of about 60 people, she directed around 15 young children towards a makeshift stage. The problem, one parent said, was that the children's parents had not given Fiorina permission to have their children sit with her—in front of a huge banner bearing the image of an unborn foetus—while she talked about harvesting organs from aborted babies. 'The kids went there to see the plants,' said Chris Beck, the father of four-year-old Chatham, one of the children Fiorina appeared with." WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK.

Right on: "Low-wage workers will strike and protest in Charleston, South Carolina in the lead-up to the Democratic debate there Sunday night, according to the Fight for 15, the union-backed movement to raise the minimum wage. Hundreds of fast-food, home care, child care, and other low-wage employees will converge on the city, according to Fight for 15 Organizing Director Kendall Fells, with more actions targeting both Democrats and Republicans planned for the primary season."

[CN: Racism; sedition] Good grief: "As the armed occupation of Malheur National Wildlife Refuge nears its fourth week, the militia is now raking through Native American artifacts housed on the property. In a new video posted to the Bundy Ranch's Facebook account, several ranchers search boxes of artifacts that belong to the Paiute tribe. As members of the group sift through documents and objects, holding them up to the camera, LaVoy Finicum talks about how poorly the artifacts have been stored and proposes a dialogue with local Paiute. ...Members of the tribe have repeatedly slammed the militia, telling the ranchers to 'get the hell out.' 'We as Harney County people can stand on our own feet,' Jarvis Kennedy of the Burns Paiute Tribal council said at a press conference earlier this month. 'We don't need some clown to come in here and stand up for us.'"

[CN: Racism] Idris Elba on the lack of diversity on television: "I knew I wasn't going to land a lead role [in the U.K.]. I knew there wasn't enough imagination in the industry for me to be seen as a lead. In other words, if I wanted to star in a British drama like Luther, then I'd have to go to a country like America. And the other thing was, because I never saw myself on TV, I stopped watching TV. Instead I decided to just go out and become TV." (Note: Elba has criticism for the US, too. He doesn't think it's a bastion of diversity, just because he found more opportunity here than in the UK.)

Awwwwww: "President Barack Obama revealed on Wednesday that he had turned down a chance to speak at his own daughter's graduation later this year. ...'Malia's school asked if I wanted to speak at commencement and I said no,' Obama said, according to ABC. 'I'm going to be wearing dark glasses...and I'm going to cry.'" ♥

Cool: Over the next few days, "Mercury will be close to the Sun, over in the East, and Jupiter will be over in the West, with Venus, Saturn, and Mars between the two. Pluto is near Mercury, but is invisible to the eye, requiring a telescope for viewing. The last time an alignment such as this occurred was about 10 years ago. This pre-sunrise configuration will be similar for other northern latitudes."

And finally! I love this so much: "A Fair Shake For Youth is a New York City-based organization using dogs to build empathy and self-esteem in students. Students are given the opportunity to work with therapy dogs each week. Through structured activities, they are able to build relationships with the dogs based on honesty, positive communication, mutual respect, and trust. ...After spending time with the dogs, students learn to appreciate each dog's differences and relate that same idea back to the people they encounter. The program encourages students to work towards building respectful relationships, and to advocate for others. In doing so, students begin to feel valuable, lovable, and empowered."

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Bernie Dissing Planned Parenthood Is Pissing Me Off

[CN: failure of contracaeption, restrictions of choice]

I've been thinking about why Bernie Sanders’ dismissal of Planned Parenthood as an “establishment” organization (after they gave their endorsement to Clinton) is bothering me.

Because, really, who cares? Especially Bernie, if this is so establishment, and he is so not-establishment.

Here’s why: it’s personal.

Like a lot of people, especially women, I found that when "the establishment" was against me, Planned Parenthood was there.

Some people reading this may or may not remember that emergency contraception, popularly known as “Plan B, ” has not always been available over the counter in the United States. In fact, the GOP worked mighty hard to make sure we Slutty McSluttersons could not access this medication, which helps prevent fertilization in case of contraception fail.

And here's the thing about Plan B: it works better the sooner one takes it. 72 hours is the maximum stretch time, but the closer one takes it to the time of the sex act, the better.

So yeah, back in the bad old days, in [Midwestern State], on a weekend, in [Small Town], I had a major contraception fail. And getting Plan B would have been really tough under laws requiring doctor consult and prescription. 72 hours on a weekend night? Maybe. Good luck.

But Planned Parenthood, via internet, was there. I was able to do a distance consult via phone, and got a prescription to take to the pharmacy well within the 24 hour mark, which is really optimal for avoiding pregnancy.

Why do I write about this? Because this is what Planned Parenthood does: it finds a way. It used distance prescribing as a work around the stupid GOP-driven law.

And today, it finds a way to work around stupid GOP-driven attacks, as much as it possibly can. (And all the while defending from very real physical attacks on its buildings, its staff, and its clients.)

Frankly, that feels pretty damn anti-establishment to me. It’s not that I don’t understand the importance of calling out big banks and the like. I do. It’s just that that attacking Wall Street rings pretty fucking hollow when you're simultaneously dissing an institutions that protects us from the assaults coming straight out of Main Street.

For Bernie Sanders to dismiss Planned Parenthood as “establishment” is a dismissal of my lived experiences. And I doubt I am alone.

So goodbye, Bernie. Speaking for myself only, the last reserves of good will I had for you have run out. And good luck. You’ll need it if you plan to win a revolution while turning up your nose at the revolutionaries who are already fighting.

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Assessing the Candidates

[Content Note: Class warfare; institutional harm; clean water access.]

So, one of the many interesting (ahem) things to me about engaging with Sanders Stans is the reflexive assumption that anyone who prefers Hillary Clinton—or anyone who says anything even vaguely positive about Clinton and/or vaguely negative about Bernie Sanders—necessarily hates Sanders and necessarily loves Clinton.

While each candidate certainly has their diehard supporters, lots and lots of people I know and/or read, especially progressive people who tend to be super engaged in US politics, don't love or hate either candidate, tend not to believe there's such a thing as a flawless candidate who is beyond criticism, and are scrutinizing both candidates' campaigns and policies to assess who, in their estimation, would make the better president, of two imperfect choices.

I'm one of those people. And many of us look at things beyond (though including) policy prescriptions listed on websites and stump speech promises and voting records.

For example: I look at campaign staff, its diversity and its structure and its efficacy and its decency. I look at how candidates respond to crisis and criticism. I look at voter outreach efforts, especially to marginalized populations, where voters are disproportionately likely to be disenfranchised. I look at the precise language used to discuss issues of concern to me. I look at candidates' debating style, and how diplomatic they tend to be during debates and interviews. I look at their negotiating skills. I look at their preparedness and flexibility and versatility. I look at how capable they seem of being able to pivot, when they are proven wrong. I look at their willingness to be accountable for mistakes and fuck-ups and endorsements of shitty policy. I look at the quality of their apologies, and whether they are willing to apologize at all. I look at how much they value transparency.

This is not a complete list, but you get the picture. In addition to policy, I am keen to assess the attributes that I want to see in a president. I want a president who is competent, effective, unflappable, adaptable, accountable. Who knows when to stand their ground and when to compromise. Who understands that diplomacy and negotiation are huge parts of the president's job, and who is a solid diplomat and negotiator.

And I look for examples, on the campaign trail, of how a candidate might respond to something if they were president. Amanda Terkel provided a perfect example of Clinton's and Sander's contrasting styles describing how they each responded to the water crisis in Flint:

On Saturday, Sen. Bernie Sanders (I-Vt.) called on Michigan Gov. Rick Snyder (R) to resign over the lead poisoning crisis in Flint.

Three days later, Snyder remains in office, and Sanders has moved on after generating a fair amount of media attention.

On Thursday, Hillary Clinton went on national television and chastised Snyder for refusing to ask for federal assistance in order to help the affected residents.

Two hours after that interview aired on "The Rachel Maddow Show" on MSNBC, the governor did just that.

Clinton had also already dispatched two of her top aides—including one with years of experience working for a Michigan senator—to the state to assist Flint Mayor Karen Weaver (D) with whatever she needed.

..."As far as what Hillary Clinton has done, she has actually been the only—the only—candidate, whether we're talking Democratic or Republican, to reach out and talk with us about, 'What can I do? What kind of help do you need?'" Weaver said.

Amanda Renteria is the Clinton campaign's national political director and one of the staffers who went to Flint last week to talk with the mayor. She has experience in the state, having previously served as chief of staff to Sen. Debbie Stabenow (D- Mich.).

"When this came about and [Clinton] read about it, her immediate response has been, 'Let's see what's going on, and what can we do to help?'" Renteria told reporters during Tuesday's conference call.

...Last week, the Clinton campaign also called on the Federal Emergency Management Agency to conduct an "expedited review" of Flint's water infrastructure and said the Obama administration should immediately set up a "health monitoring and surveillance system" to test residents for lead poisoning. It's less exciting and headline-grabbing than getting Snyder to resign, but also more likely to happen.
The disparity in these responses matters a lot to me. Because it gives me a picture of what the candidates' respective presidencies might look like.

And while some people might argue that Sanders would respond differently if he were already president, it means something to me that Sanders responds like someone running for president while Clinton responds like someone who is president.

This is but one example of many, as I have been observing both candidates on the campaign trail, along with reviewing their proposed policies and records, listening to what they are saying now and what they have said before. Listening to what both their supporters and critics have to say. Reading what people who have worked with and for them have to say. Talking to other people whose opinions I respect about what they think.

The other day, I was chatting with my friend Imani Gandy (the following shared with her permission), who is not particularly enthusiastic about either candidate, and she described Clinton as "robotically competent." Which is a pretty great description! If not necessarily a particularly complementary one, heh.

Being robotically competent doesn't inspire a lot of people, but one of the things I've most valued about President Obama's presidency is how competent it has been. I implicitly trust President Obama to know what he's doing and to not be a fucking embarrassment.

And even when I have disagreed with the President's agenda, sometimes vehemently, I don't think he's come to his decisions down a path of unpreparedness or incompetence or untrustworthiness.

I was born during the Nixon administration, spent my childhood during the Reagan administration, spent a significant part of my adulthood during the George W. Bush administration. To me, being able to trust a president (who generally shares my priorities) to be reliably competent, to know what to do, is pretty important.

Now, you might have a whole different set of metrics for how you assess who is the best candidate, who earns your vote.

Maybe policy is all that matters to you. Maybe you just want to be inspired. Maybe you just want to vote for a woman because holy fuck enough with the dudes already. Maybe you have all kinds of reasons that look nothing like mine.

And that's fine. I'm not telling you what your metrics should look like. I'm telling you what mine are.

You don't have to assess a potential president in the same way I do, nor do you have to agree with the way I assess potential presidents. But do me the favor of not talking to me like I haven't fucking thought about it.

I have.

[Related Reading: My Vote. Mine.]

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Absolutely Shameless

[Content Note: Domestic violence; disablism.]

On Monday, Track Palin, the oldest son of Sarah Palin, was arrested and charged with domestic violence after, according to the police statement, their investigation revealed Track Palin had committed a domestic violence assault on a [woman], interfered with her ability to report a crime of domestic violence, and possessed a firearm while intoxicated."

The Palin family, via their attorney, "declined to comment on the matter other than to say in an email that respect for the family's privacy is appreciated."

Except: The next day, while campaigning for Donald Trump, Sarah Palin then attributed her son committing violence against a woman whom he was dating to having PTSD from his military service—and then blamed President Obama for that:

—talk about a commander-in-chief who will never leave our men and our women behind. Lemme get a little bit personal on this. Um, I'm talkin' about not leaving our wounded warriors behind also. Our wounded warriors who come home from the battlefield bringing new battles with them. Our wounded warriors, sometimes in body and in mind, coming back different than when they left for the warzone.

I can talk personally about this—I guess it's kinda the elephant in the room—because my own family going through what we're going through today, with my son, a combat vet, having served in a striker brigade, fighting for you all, America, in the warzone. But my son son, like so many others, they come back a bit different; they come back hardened; they come back wondering if there is that respect for what it is that their fellow soldiers and airmen and every other member of the military so sacrificially have given to this country.

And that starts from the top, and it's a shame that our military personnel even have to wonder if they have to question if they're respected anymore. It starts from the top. The question, though, that comes from our own president, where they have to look at him and wonder, 'Do you know what we go through? Do you know what we're trying to do to secure America and to secure the freedoms that have been bequeathed us?'

So when my own son is going through he what he goes through, coming back, I can certainly relate with other families who kinda feel these ramifications of some PTSD, and some—some of the woundedness that our soldiers do return with. And it makes me realize more than ever: It is now or never, for the sake of America's finest, that we have that commander-in-chief who will respect them and honor them
Now, I have no idea if Track Palin has been diagnosed with PTSD, or if he has even sought diagnosis and treatment, and, if so, whether he was turned away and denied care. I also don't know if PTSD played any part in this act of domestic violence.

What I do know is that people with PTSD, including myself, are accountable for harming other people, even if we've been triggered, and need to get treatment to manage their PTSD, and I also know his family, unlike many other veterans' families, can afford to pay for private care.

It is a shame on this nation that we don't provide better services to returning combat veterans. That is certain.

But it is shamless of Sarah Palin to lay the blame on President Obama. It was not President Obama who launched the wars of choice in which her son and other servicemembers fought. And it was not President Obama, nor his party, who has refused to robustly fund services for those veterans.

It was her party.

And the man she just endorsed has spent his entire campaign talking about using US military might to police the world, to continue endless war and endless gutting of the social safety net.

If Palin is looking for someone to blame, she should try finding a fucking mirror.

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker DesertRose: "Do you have pets? If so, how many and what species?"

Two dogs, three cats.

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The Wednesday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by plants.

Recommended Reading:

Afroze: [Content Note: Islamophobia; violence; harassment] What It's Like Being Muslim in a Western Society in 2016

Jenn: [CN: Islamophobia; violence] Bronx Man Assaulted for Wearing Shalwar Kameez, Called "ISIS" During Attack

Digby: [CN: Bigotry; disablist language] The Downside of Being Bigoted, Negative Jerks

Oliver: [CN: Disablism; racism; queerphobia; violence; self-harm] Why Racial Justice Needs to Include Mental Health

thekooriwoman: [CN: Racism; police brutality] Justice?

Izetta: Where My People At? A Constant Striving for Visibility

Michael: [CN: Misogyny] Where's Rey? Insider Says Lucasfilm Vendors Removed Star Wars Character to "Improve Sales"

Katharine: First Wonder Woman Footage Arrives in Man's World

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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GROSS!!!

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"Florida poll: Trump 48%!!, Cruz 16%, Rubio 11%, Bush 10%." Alarm explanation points original.
Florida's Republican primary would be a Donald Trump blowout if held today, according to a Jan. 15-18 poll by Florida Atlantic University Business and Economics Polling Initiative. Trump leads with a whopping 47.6 percent support among likely Republicans, followed by 16.3 percent for Ted Cruz, 11.1 percent for Marco Rubio, 9.5 percent for Jeb Bush, and 3.3 percent for Ben Carson, who in November had 14.5 percent support in the same poll. Since that poll, Cruz gained six points and Rubio lost seven.
I don't even have words. Except, as always: FUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUCK!

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Today in Manclaiming

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Man braids! Not just braids. But man braids! Man braids for men!

Man braids only belong in men's hair, ladies. Don't even try putting your womanly hair in man braids!

[H/T to my friend D.]

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



Diana Ross: "Reach Out (I'll Be There)"

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