Wow, Donald Trump. Wow.

[Content Note: Racism; misogyny; rape culture; video may autoplay at second link.]

Donald Trump is imploding:

As Donald Trump took the stage in a community college theater on Thursday night, something was off.

The usually punctual executive was nearly 40 minutes late. His voice was hoarse, his hair mussed, his tone defensive. He promised to take questions from the audience but instead launched into a 95-minute-long rant that at times sounded like the monologue of a man grappling with why he is running for president — and if it's really worth it or not. Even for a candidate full of surprises, the speech was surprising.

He scoffed at those who have accused him of not understanding foreign policy, saying he knows more about Islamic State terrorists "than the generals do." He took credit for predicting the threat of Osama bin Laden and being right on the "anchor baby situation," a position he says "these great geniuses from Harvard Law School" now back. He uttered the word "crap" at least three times, and promised to "bomb the s---" out of oil fields benefiting terrorists. He signed a book for a guy in the audience and then tossed it back at him with a flip: "Here you go, baby. I love you."

Trump called Republican rival Carly Fiorina "Carly whatever-the-hell-her-name-is," accused Democratic front-runner Hillary Rodham Clinton of playing the "woman's card" and said Sen. Marco Rubio (R-Fla.) is "weak like a baby." He then devoted more than 10 minutes angrily attacking his chief rival, Ben Carson, saying the retired doctor has a "pathological disease" with no cure, similar to being a child molester.

...Trump appeared to unravel on stage Thursday evening before a crowd of roughly 1,500 in Fort Dodge, a small industrial town 100 miles northwest of Des Moines. Many in the crowd were community college students who have never voted in a presidential election, along with teachers, local politicians and a number of farmers from the area. Rather than sticking to his usual, tidy 60 minutes, Trump kept going and going.

...At first, the audience was quick to laugh at Trump's sharp insults and applaud his calls to better care for veterans, replace the Affordable Care Act and construct a wall along the Mexican border. But as the speech dragged on, the applause came less often and grew softer. As Trump attacked Carson using deeply personal language, the audience grew quiet, a few shaking their heads. A man sitting in the back of the auditorium loudly gasped.

...After 95 minutes, Trump drew to a sudden but long-awaited end. Gripping the podium, he promised to unify the country and win. He also wondered aloud if he should just move to Iowa and buy a farm.
There is much, much more at the link.

What I find really interesting about this meltdown—especially with its protracted attack on Ben Carson, which included a demonstration of how a belt buckle could not stop a knife and a barking rhetorical asking "How stupid are the people of Iowa? How stupid are the people of the country to believe this crap?"—is that it is, at its essence, a protracted identification of all the people who are to blame for Trump's inevitable loss of the nomination.

His entire campaign has been built on scapegoating, on blaming other people and other nations for what he sees as the US' woes, and now he is setting up the scapegoats for his fall.

(As an aside: Many people who go on to win their party's nomination aren't leading at this point, and the front runner can change many times during the course of a primary. So it's not at all certain that he wouldn't retake the lead at some point, but Trump seems decidedly uncomfortable anywhere but the lead.)

Trump's favorite insult is "loser." It seems unlikely he's fixing to go out of this thing as a loser. Instead, as he slides out of the lead, he's much more likely to quit, to decide he doesn't want to run for president anyway, SO THERE.

Maybe there's not even any point to running, he muses. The cards are just stacked against him, you see.

The country is going to hell, Carson is a compulsive liar, Rubio is pathetic, Clinton plays the "woman's card," the media are scum, and US voters are stupid.

Poor guy. Can you blame him for wanting to quit?

He certainly hopes you won't. He hopes you will blame literally everyone and anything else.

So, yeah. He's imploding. But he's imploding in a very specific way—in a way that will appeal to his supporters who have enthusiastically embraced his message of scapegoating from Day One. It's not Donald Trump's fault. It's that black candidate, that Latino candidate, that female candidate, the media, stupid people, Mexico, China.

Trump will go out the same way he came in: On a cresting wave of racism and misogyny.

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Open Thread

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Marldegebegeep: "What is the silliest song that gets stuck in your head?"

[Video autoplays at link] Probably "The Ladybugs' Picnic," which has gotten stuck in my head on the regular for 40 years and counting, lol.

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Ink

We've previously had super fun threads (the most recent) in which we share images of our tattoos and discuss the process of choosing art and what it's like to get tattooed, etc., so here's another one! Share your ink, talk about your tattoos, ask questions of inked folks if you're considering getting a tattoo, whatever you like!

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I haven't gotten any new ink in ages; the most recent piece I got, which is several months ago now, is this little flame emerging from the darkness, on my finger:

image of my left hand with a tattoo of a flame emerging from darkness on my ring finger

Care of my friend and tattoo artist Jake. I know I've said this eleventy biebillion times, but I love working with Jake so much, for all the reasons. I've recommended him to basically everyone I know, lol, and they all love him, too!

So: What's up with you?

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Generally Awesome

[Content Note: Star Wars spoiler. It's a minor one, but, you know, if you don't want to know ANYTHING, then skip this post!]

So, I love Carrie Fisher. I love her, imperfect though she is as are we all, because she is an outspoken advocate for people with mental illness; because she is a brash and funny survivor; because her stage show Wishful Drinking is fucking amazing; because she navigates tough and vulnerable like a champ, never succumbing to the expected stereotypes of women as either imperviously strong or pitiably weak; because she was, and is, Princess Leia.

I love Princess Leia.

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Me as a kid, sound asleep with Princess Leia buns.

The prequel trilogy upended the idea of Leia as a princess by traditional definitions, when we learned that the Queen was an elected position on Alderaan. So, when Leia returns in the forthcoming sequel, she won't be a princess anymore.
If you're a Star Wars fan, you already know that you're going to do a lot of emoting in the theater when the next movie comes out. So prepare yourself for another wave of emotion with this news: Princess Leia isn't a princess anymore. According to Entertainment Weekly's latest interview with J.J. Abrams and Carrie Fisher, the rebel leader has a new title that reflects her role as, well, a rebel leader. "She's referred to as General," Abrams told EW. "But … there’s a moment in the movie where a character sort of slips and calls her 'Princess.'"

Let's pause on the latter half of that quote for a moment and do some imagining: At some point during the new Star Wars, a character — let's be honest, it's some unnamed rebel soldier, but we can hope that it's Han Solo — calls General Leia, "princess." Then, Leia turns — hopefully toward the camera, in a close-up, hopefully while her melancholy theme from the original trilogy transitions to the trumpets you hear in the rebel throne room at the end of A New Hope (not that we're already deeply invested in this moment) — and, with deadly seriousness, intones: "I'm no princess. I'm your general."
I WANT THAT SCENE. But I am happy enough just lingering forever on these words: "General Leia."

GENERAL LEIA.

General Leia!!!

Okay, I'm done.

Wait, one more.

GENERAL LEIA.

Now I'm really done.

In other wish fulfillment musings, I want to see the "I love you." "I know." moment recreated in this sequel so badly. Except, this time, I want it to be Han who says, "I love you," and GENERAL LEIA to say, "I know."

P.S. General Leia.

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LOL Sure

[Content Note: Class warfare; bigotry.]

This is an actual headline in the Wall Street Journal today:

screen cap of a headline reading: 'Populism on the Rise in GOP Race for President'

Just for the record, here is how populism is defined:
Populism is a doctrine that appeals to the interests and conceptions (such as hopes and fears) of the general population, especially when contrasting any new collective consciousness push against the prevailing status quo interests of any predominant political sector. Populism is commonly defined as: "the political doctrine that supports the rights and powers of the common people in their struggle with the privileged elite."
Sure, populist rhetoric is "on the rise" among GOP candidates—see, for example, "We must take our government back!"—but that doesn't mean actual populism is.

To the absolute contrary, the GOP candidates are the loyal servants of the political elite. They are anything but advocates for "the rights and powers of the common people in their struggle with the privileged elite."

Cool Orwell impression, Wall Street Journal.

And, the thing is, even if any or all of the Republican candidates really did have some legitimate sympathy for the empowerment of the "common people," it would be a very select and limited subset of the common people. You don't get to claim to be a populist while despising and marginalizing more than half the population as a centerpiece of your platform.

Which is moot anyway. This is a lie. The GOP's entire raison d'ĂȘtre is to uphold privilege. That is the opposite of populism.

What a superfun election this is!

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



Tori Amos: "Silent All These Years"

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Assvertising

[Content Note: Rape culture.]

This is an actual fucking ad that somehow made it through multiple levels of approval for publication in Bloomingdale's holiday catalog:

image of an ad from the catalog, featuring a thin young white woman laughing and looking to her right, while a thing young white man stands to her left, leering at her, accompanied by the text: 'Spike your best friend's eggnog when they're not looking.'

I don't even know where to begin with this trash, besides crumpling it up in a ball and firing it directly into the sun. Everything about it is terrible, but I am especially grossed out by the fact that these two are described as "best friends" in this rape scenario. That is one remarkably contemptible vision of friendship.

Don't worry, though—Bloomie's is super sorry, y'all.

screen cap of a tweet from the Bloomingdale's account reading: 'We heard your feedback about our catalog copy, which was inappropriate and in poor taste. Bloomingdale's sincerely apologizes.'

They heard your feedback on an ad that already got published and distributed to thousands of people, and now they know it was in "poor taste."

"Poor taste." Always my favorite (ahem) description of the rape culture.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Just look at that face! Who's a good girl, Zelly? YOU ARE!

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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In the News

Here is some stuff in the news today...

[Content Note: Police brutality; death] Fucking hell: "Police in South Boston, Virginia broke their own rules and Tased a man multiple times, then reneged on a planned trip to the hospital, before he died in their custody, MSNBC reported. Newly-released footage shows three officers using the devices against 46-year-old Linwood Lambert while he was handcuffed both in front of a local hospital and in a patrol car. The Tasers were used 20 times over the course of a 30-minute period." Although a lot of the focus of police brutality is understandably centered on shooting deaths, Taser deaths are also a grave concern. How does any human being get to the point where Tasing someone 20 times is an acceptable thing to do?

[CN: War on agency] What happens when your state-funded investigation of Planned Parenthood turns up no wrongdoing? Oh just lie about it: "[Nebraska state] investigators focused on the clinics' handling of fetal tissue and found no evidence of wrongdoing, no different than the results of state investigations around the country. However, nearly two months after state investigators completed the investigation, [Republican Nebraska Gov. Pete Ricketts] penned a column attacking Planned Parenthood and repeating dubious claims made by CMP that have been repeatedly debunked, including by the investigation he ordered. 'Videos from this investigation revealed top Planned Parenthood doctors negotiating prices for the body parts of aborted babies,' Ricketts wrote on October 9, repeating a claim that has been discredited by a range of observers."

[CN: Homophobia; child abuse] Goddammit: "A judge in Utah has removed a foster child from the home of a gay married couple because he says the child would be better off with heterosexual parents. April Hoagland and Beckie Peirce of Carbon County, Utah believe the judge, who would not cite the 'research' which led to his decision, is religiously motivated." Of course he wouldn't cite any research, because there's none that exists which could possibly justify his gross decision.

[CN: Racism; surveillance] Not surprising, but totally appalling: "An Oregon Department of Justice investigator used a search tool to racially profile Twitter users who used the #BlackLivesMatter hashtag, the state's attorney general said in a letter to a civil rights organization Tuesday in which she said she was 'appalled' by the practice and has suspended the investigator. Attorney General Ellen F. Rosenblum, responding to complaints form the Portland chapter of the Urban League, wrote Tuesday that she has ordered her department to stop using the online search tool and launched an investigation, saying the practice 'raises many troubling questions' about law enforcement profiling throughout the state." Ya think?

[CN: Child neglect and abuse; violence; death; racism] Everything about this story is making me so angry and so sad: The police say that Katerra Lewis, a black woman, left her infant daughter in the care of an 8-year-old boy who killed the baby when she wouldn't stop crying. Lewis says, via her attorney, that she did not leave the children alone, but there's no more detail on that at the moment. Media are reporting the police account as though it is definitely fact. The 8-year-old has been charged with murder in juvenile court, which starts a criminal justice path rather than a therapeutic one. And I really don't believe that would happen to an 8-year-old white child. A baby is dead, and nothing being done in response seems to be helping anyone. Just fuck.

[CN: Misogynist terrorism; disablist language] Aziz Ansari's new show Master of None is terrific! I've watched the first five episodes and loved them so far. And this interview, about his much-discussed episode on sexual harassment (which I've not yet seen) is great: "Go on any famous woman's Instagram and there are [indecent] death threats in the comments everywhere. No one is giving Drake death threats—only female celebrities get that. It's fucked up. I don't understand it. I don't know how you can be that disgusting of a human being to write those things, and also, if you're not aware that it's happening overwhelmingly more to women than it is to men, you're [being willfully ignorant]. The seed of that episode came from a bit during my Madison Square Garden special where I'd talk about women getting followed home by creepy dudes, and I'd ask during the bit, 'Raise your hands if you're a woman and you've been followed home,' and everyone would raise their hand. ...Then, I'd ask all the guys if they expected all the women to raise their hands, and none of them really did. ...And the problem is people aren't talking about it. What I've learned, as a guy, is to just ask women questions and listen to what they have to say. Go to your group of female friends and ask them about times they've experienced sexism at their job, and you'll get blown away by the things they tell you. You'll think, 'What the fuck? This is way darker than anything I'd imagined.'"

[CN: Misogyny; video may autoplay at link] Listen, I think it's shit when people talk crap about Donald Trump's hair, not least of all because it's literally the least offensive thing about him, and I think it's shit when Donald Trump talks crap about Hillary Clinton's hair. In fact, it's extra crap squared, because it's misogynistic body and choice policing: "Asked by host Mark Levin what Clinton's appeal to voters is, Trump simply said: 'Well, she has a new hairdo, did you notice that today?' The quip prompted Levin to suggest Clinton is wearing a wig. 'I tell you what it really was shocking to see it because you're right it must be, it was massive. Her hair became massive,' said Trump, whose own hair has been the subject of scrutiny. Warned that his comments might get him in trouble, Trump brushed off the potential for sparking controversy. 'I don't care. I'm a person that tells the truth,' Trump said." This fucking guy.

Meanwhile, Jeb! is just promising to chest-bump anyone who pledges support to him now. Good grief.

Neat! "An international team of scientists has found a new [earthlike] planet so close to Earth it is possible to study the atmosphere using optical telescopes. ...Its average density resembles that of Earth, and is well matched by a rock/iron composition, the researchers said. ...'It's too hot to be habitable. There's no way there's liquid water on the surface. But it is a lot cooler than the other rocky planets that we know of.' In fact, scientists are excited that GJ 1132b is cool enough to possibly have an atmosphere. 'If we find this pretty hot planet has managed to hang onto its atmosphere over the billions of years it's been around, that bodes well for the long-term goal of studying cooler planets that could have life," [lead researcher Zachory Berta-Thompson from the Massachusetts Institute of Technology] said. 'We finally have a target to point our telescopes at.'"

Whoooooooooooops! "Seattle police are investigating after a drone collided with the city's giant Ferris wheel on Wednesday afternoon. There were no injuries in the incident in which the drone hit the wheel and then a table as it fell to the ground. The incident has added weight to calls to introduce national registers for the unmanned aerial vehicles (UAV)."

And finally! So much squeeeeeeee! "Dale the Takin Reunited with Mom at Cincinnati Zoo." TOO CUTE!!!

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Quote of the Day

[Content Note: War on agency.]

"The trend [of abortion clinics struggling to stay open because of legislative hostility to abortion access] is disturbing. It's taking root in states we traditionally think of as 'friendly' to abortion rights, without many people noticing."—Nikki Madsen, executive director of the Abortion Care Network, in a must-read piece by Molly Redden for the Guardian on the erosion of abortion access, even in "blue" states.

Without many people noticing.

I know exactly what Madsen means here. She surely doesn't mean people like her, who dedicate their lives to noticing. And she doesn't mean anti-choice fuckos, who dedicate their lives to closing clinics.

She means all the people who take Roe for granted and imagine that it functions as an on-off switch for abortion. The people who don't understand (or care) that abortion can still technically be legal, but totally inaccessible for millions and millions of pregnant people who need abortions. The "pro-choice" people who only care about abortion during elections, when they use it as a bargaining chip and a cudgel to get feminist voters in line.

Roe is not a magical abortion access password. It has to be defended, not just against full repeal, but against the state legislative restrictions enacted to render it a hollow statute.

Legal abortion is only worth as much as the number of people who have reasonable and affordable and unencumbered access to it.

The people working on closing clinics understand this. Every pro-choice person needs to understand it, too.

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What Lurks Beneath (the Hospital Gown After Surgery)

by Tekla, who tweets about feminism, history, and jokes under @alketrolyat. And is very, very professional and serious.

[Content Note: Hostility to consent; discussion of illness and surgery.]

Frankly, this is kind of a story about pubes. I'm super embarrassed to even write that to you! But shouldn't we fight to talk about our bodies as normal? It still feels like a feminist act to talk about women's bodies in ways that would make dudes go "groooossssss" and say whatever, dudes! The grownups are talking!

So a week ago I went to the hospital and got operated on. I have Crohn's disease and a recalcitrant section of intestine was slowly losing its grip and not meeting ANY of its quarterly performance review goals (like: stop necrotizing, already). After like two years of feeling really sick every single day, I caved. Slice me! Do it already!

This particular slice was only supposed to be about five inches long, which it is. The incision starts in my belly button and extends downward about 4-5 inches and then stops, kinda right below the curve of my belly. Therefore, I didn't think this would involve any shaving of any hairy areas. Or anything. (dun dun dunnnn)

I woke up from surgery in the blissful cloud of Our Lady of Intravenous Opiates, so I didn't notice anything weird for like a day. But on day two, I was hobbling unassisted to go pee, and when I arrived in the restroom, I discovered someone (HOPEFULLY A MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL) had shaved, like, half of my area. My lady garden. WHATEVER. This gave me, essentially, a labial mullet. It was horrible. I didn't sign up to have my downstairs styled after what's his name in the Breakfast Club.

I guess this was done in case the incision had to go lower, though it would have had to go several more inches in length before said shaving became relevant. But okay, I get that you might have to do that just in case.

My problem is that nobody TOLD me. When you have surgery they tell you a billion things to watch out for, like there's a .0001% chance they'll accidentally leave forceps inside of you or something. But you shave an intimate area of my body and you don't even let me know? Like, "hey, we might have to give you an extremely dated hairstyle on your sex organs!! Just FYI!!"

Seriously though, this may seem frivolous but I think there's a lot to be said about how this was treated so cavalierly. Like, if there was any chance at all they were going to shave half my HEAD, I think they would have absolutely told me and probably made me sign a dozen consent forms. But because it's my vulva, nobody says anything?

Did they think I wouldn't care, like they already thought these millennials all shave down there and they would be doing me a favor? But I'm supposed to have control over that. Any hair on my body should be subject to MY choice for removal or glorious hippie growth or any maintenance level in between.

And there's endless wrangling over body hair, mostly by anti-feminists who want to act like all feminists do is sit around and talk about plaiting Gloria Steinem quotes into their pits. It's not like it's "more feminist" to adhere to one grooming ideal or another, but it's feminist as shit to make sure any body modification is subject to my informed consent.

After a major medical intervention, I should never wake up to any surprises about my body. I've had severe chronic illness since I was eighteen, which equates to seven years of trying desperately to control the rights to my body. Having that control means everything to people with disabilities and chronic illness.

And even in seemingly small ways—it's not like hair doesn't grow back—it's still important for health care providers to respect every part of the patient. And I'm allowed to be mad as hell that you interfered in my personal biz.

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Stop. Just Stop.

[Content Note: Racism; privilege; entitlement; auditing.]

If you need a good primer on what's been happening at the University of Missouri (Mizzou) and why, this piece by Nicole Garner is pretty good. It is not comprehensive, because the scope and duration of events leading up to this moment is vast, but it provides a more than decent snapshot.

And if you haven't yet read the piece by Terrell Jermaine Starr I linked yesterday, that's important background, too.

Important background before you read this garbage by New York Times Self-Appointed White Male Liberal Auditor of Women of All Colors and Men of Color, Nicholas Kristof.

Kristof is, naturally, Very Concerned about free speech and liberal intolerance, because of course he is. "Moral voices," he says, "can also become sanctimonious bullies." And the actions born of defending inclusion and safety of marginalized people, he warns, "is sensitivity but also intolerance, and it is disproportionately an instinct on the left."

He details (and misrepresents) student action at Mizzou and Yale, arguing that the photographer, Tim Tai, who was disallowed into the safe space created by black Mizzou students, "represented the other noble force in these upheavals—free expression." As though insisting on accessing a space created by people who do not consent to your documenting their lives is the same as "free expression." As though one is entitled to access, and to draw a boundary is limiting expression. Bullshit.

For the record, no one is stopping me from writing these words, even if black students at Mizzou might quite reasonably have told me, had I inquired, that I was not allowed to insert myself into a safe space they created for themselves. I have free expression. What I don't have is the right to own the space, time, lives, experiences of other people.

Kristof filters all of this through his Validity Prism and declares: "I suggest we all take a deep breath."

Oh okay. I will take you up on that suggestion, sir. I will take a deep breath to fill my lungs with all the air I will need to shout the following: To argue that "both sides" of every issue are owed equal respect and tolerance of their positions is abject trash.

It flattens the power imbalance between racists and people of color, misogynists and women, anti-choicers and pro-choicers, MRAs and feminists, homophobes and transphobes and the LGBTQIA community, disablists and people with disabilities, anti-immigrationists and immigrants/refugees, etc., and further renders those power imbalances invisible when one makes the contemptible argument that "both sides" need to be heard to protect free expression, and that people who are defending themselves against grave harm are the real intolerant ones.

In a decent country, in which marginalized people's safety was prioritized over privileged people's "free speech," and in which incitement weren't a concern generally until after someone is already fucking dead, no one would be making this despicably hostile and implicitly privilege-upholding argument.

But in this country, with our reflexive reverence for a policy of "free expression," as if speech exists in a void, we're more worried about the supposed "intolerance" expressed by marginalized people who draw boundaries in defense of their own safety, because a minor restriction on a privileged person's unfettered right to engage in hate speech, or assert their "right" to access to marginalized people's spaces and lives, is considered a more burdensome encroachment on freedom than the right of people at whom hate speech is directed to live a life free of rhetorical terror.

And actual terror, given the preponderance of evidence across cultures that violent hate speech in the public square begets actual violence within the square.

Anyone who understands my oft-cited turns of phrase "This Shit Doesn't Happen in a Void" and "My Rights End Where Yours Begin" ought to be able to understand why protecting speech that attacks marginalized people is in practice a wildly irresponsible policy, particularly in a culture with deep institutional biases that confer more weight upon privileged voices and the messages they carry.

The US's "absolutist" free speech laws are routinely defended on the basis that if some speech is limited, it's a slippery slope until your speech is limited—but that's demonstrably manifest horseshit. There are other countries which don't have absolutist free speech laws—they have mature free speech policies in which mature people acknowledge the fundamental difference between "unpopular speech with a purpose" and "wanton hate speech with no purpose except hate," even if that hate speech is dressed up in a tuxedo to masquerade as Thoughtful Dissenting Dialogue. And there's no slippery slope, because the difference is easily discernible.

The irony, of course, is that the US already doesn't have absolutist free speech laws, anyway—which is why we're not allowed to yell "Fire!" in the proverbial crowded movie theater. (Or at a crowded book-burning, ahem.) The damnable lie that makes restrictions on hate speech so difficult to find support for even among US progressives is that we have absolutist free speech. We don't.

We're just eminently more willing, in continuation of our grand history of giving the finger to marginalized people, to turn an indifferent eye to the patently fucking obvious relationship between uncensored hate speech and hate crimes. And we're dishonest enough to slap a "free speech" sticker on it.

This, too, is part of the culture of violent entitlement. It isn't just men who feel entitled to women's bodies; it's privileged people of all classes feeling entitled to say whatever they want to say, irrespective of the harm it may cause, and feeling entitled to inhabit every space created by marginalized people, irrespective of how that may violate marginalized people's right of consent.

And when I say "harm," I do not mean, as Kristof and so many others have mischaracterized the harm being experienced by black students on campuses across the US, "hurt fee-fees." I mean the incessant drumbeat of reminders that one is less than, that one's safety and esteem is valued less than the right of a privileged person to demean you, that you don't have the right to draw boundaries and protest and expect more, that your citizenship is second-class, that your life doesn't matter, that your voice doesn't matter, that you don't matter.

#BlackLivesMatter cannot be and is not just about ending police killings. It's also about making black lives matter in every aspect across our culture. That necessarily includes treating with the undiluted contempt it deserves anyone in a position of power on university campuses who would engage in or tolerate racism.

And anyone who uses his platform at the paper of record to argue that black students fighting for air need to "take a breath."

Without a trace of fucking irony.

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker kiwi_a: "What's one experience you've never had that you'd really like to?"

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Quote of the Day

[Content Note: Sexual violence; misogynoir; police brutality.]

"The lack of mass media coverage of the investigation of and trial for Holtzclaw emerges from the unique intersection of racism and sexism in the lives of black women. Historically and contemporarily, the victimization of black women in the U.S. through sexual and other forms of violence does not incite a widespread call to action. With the notable exception of black women bloggers, journalists, and scholars documenting the investigation and the trial as well as a handful of news outlets covering the basic details of the case, there has been a deafening silence around a demand for justice for the black women who came forward. There is no nationally trending hashtag conveying the gravity of crimes allegedly committed by Holtzclaw while on duty. [There] is, however, "A Justice For Daniel Holtzclaw" Facebook page that attracts new likes and followers every day. Where is the uproar?"—Treva Lindsey, in a must-read piece: "The Rape Trial Everyone in America Should Be Watching."

[Previous Holtzclaw: Today in Rape Culture; Lying, Racist Cops.]

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The Wednesday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by spaghetti sauce.

Recommended Reading:

Rafi: The Winner of Last Night's GOP Debate: Barack Obama!

Atrios: Daddy Party

Prison Culture: [Content Note: Racist policing; violence] No Fear: On Black Children and Racism

Nicole: [CN: Hostility to consent; classism; racism; Christian Supremacy] Why the Trend of Adoption Crowdfunding Makes Me So Uncomfortable

Kenrya: [CN: Police brutality; racism; death] No Civil Rights Charges for Milwaukee Cop Who Killed Dontre Hamilton

TLC: [CN: Transphobia] DC Office of Human Rights Report: Anti-Trans Employment Discrimination Widespread

Ezekiel: Macbeth Is Now a Woman: Why Gender-Swapped Casting Needs to Happen More

Valerio: [CN: Animal harm] Painting Ponies to Prevent Casualties

And finally! I don't often link to individual posts at Captain Awkward's place, so I just wanted to say: You're reading Captain Awkward, right? You should be reading Captain Awkward!

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



Taylor Dayne: "Tell It to My Heart"

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This is so good.

[Content Note: Racism; entitlement; hostility to consent.]

Terrell Jermaine Starr: "There's a good reason protesters at the University of Missouri didn't want the media around."

I'm not even going to excerpt it. Just go read the whole thing.

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Goop Reads

[Content Note: Fat hatred.]

Shaker Beth_in_Mpls emails, which I am sharing with permission: "Hi Liss. I'm sure you'll be as thrilled as I was to learn that Gwyneth Paltrow now has her own publishing imprint. I can't wait to buy Finding Your Favorite Fishmonger: Advice on Living the Goop Life, soon to be a best seller and eventually a Hollywood blockbuster starring Gwyneth Paltrow and some white guy."

LOLOLOL! Thrilled doesn't even begin to cover it!

The first Goop title, a cookbook by Paltrow called It's All Easy: Delicious Weekday Recipes for the Super-Busy Home Cook, will be published in April. A Goop-branded book on beauty will follow in fall 2016. Beyond that, GCP said additional titles will be announced in the near future.

Paltrow said that the imprint will allow her and her team at Goop to reach a wider audience. "With so much incredible content now being produced at goop.com on a daily basis, we're excited to memorialize it for audiences across the world."
Fuck yeah!

Personally, I'm really looking forward to this one:

image of a fake book cover I've photoshopped with a still from the film 'Shallow Hal' in which Gwyneth Paltrow wore a fat suit, and the title 'Advice from a Lady Who Thought It Was Cool to Wear a Fat Suit'

I mean, that's just excellent judgment, right there. TELL ME HOW TO LIVE MY LIVE AND BE A PERFECT PERSON, GWYNETH PALTROW!

Open Wide...