Just the Most Spiteful, Indefensible Garbage

[Content Note: Homophobia.]

Texas Attorney General Ken Paxton issued a statement yesterday in which he argued that county clerks in Texas can refuse to issue marriage licenses if they have a religious objection to same-sex marriage, despite last week's Supreme Court decision, to which he referred as a "fabricated" constitutional right granted by an "activist" court.

His statement opens thus:

Friday, the United States Supreme Court again ignored the text and spirit of the Constitution to manufacture a right that simply does not exist. In so doing, the Court weakened itself and weakened the rule of law, but did nothing to weaken our resolve to protect religious liberty and return to democratic self-government in the face of judicial activists attempting to tell us how to live.
Without a trace of irony. The legalization of same-sex marriage doesn't tell anyone how they must live. On the other hand, the denial of same-sex marriage sure does.

He says a whole lot of crap about religious objections, as though there aren't county clerks with religious objections to divorce who nonetheless issue marriage licenses for second marriages all the fucking time, and then concludes with this trash wreck:
Texas must speak with one voice against this lawlessness, and act on multiple levels to further protect religious liberties for all Texans, but most immediately do anything we can to help our County Clerks and public officials who now are forced with defending their religious beliefs against the Court's ruling.
For all Texans. Except those who do not practice religion at all, or who practice a religion with no bias against same-sex marriage, or who practice a religion in which practicing such bias would be viewed as an unacceptable cruelty to one's fellow humans. Fuck all those people.

Per SCOTUSblog [H/T to Scott Madin], Paxton has 25 days "to seek rehearing from the Supreme Court. After that, there theoretically needs to be a lawsuit every time Texas unconstitutionally denies a marriage license. But since 'massive resistance' ended, the Nation has counted on State actors to 'get the message' from Supreme Court decisions. One expects that to happen here quite soon, too."

The Supreme Court is not likely (to put it politely) to grant a hearing, which requires one of the Justices in the majority to accept a petition for a rehearing of their ruling.

Paxton knows this. He's just delaying the inevitable about of sheer spite.

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Six Black Churches Burned

[Content Note: Terrorism; arson; white supremacy.]

Last Thursday, I mentioned that a predominantly black Baptist church in Charlotte, North Carolina, had been destroyed by a fire which was being investigated as arson. That was not, unfortunately, the only one. In the week since the AME Shooting, there have been six fires at Southern churches with largely or all black congregations:

The first fire came late June 21 when, police said, someone set fire to some hay bales just outside the College Hill Seventh Day Adventist in Knoxville, Tenn. The church sustained minor damage. Its van was also burned.

"Horror, I was like, 'Oh my gosh, what's going on?'" Pastor Cleveland Hobdy III told WATE-TV. Police told local news stations the fire is being investigated as arson but not as a hate crime.

Early June 23, God's Power Church of Christ in Macon, Ga., was on fire. When firefighters arrived, the front doors were wired shut and they had to enter through a side door, the local newspaper the Telegraph reported.

"'What's the church doing on fire?' That was my response to it," Associate Pastor Jeanette Dudley told WMAZ-TV. "I just couldn't believe it and once I got here, I did, I cried. I cried for a little bit."

The fire was ruled an arson, though police are not calling it a hate crime.

...Early June 24, someone called 911 to report that Charlotte's Briar Creek Road Baptist Church had been set ablaze.

"The Baptist church on Briar Creek Road right before Central, it's on fire," the caller told dispatchers. "It's really big."

It took more than 75 firefighters over an hour to get the fire under control and, by then, it had caused more than $250,000 worth of damage and demolished the church's main building, The Washington Post reported. Charlotte Fire Department Senior Investigator David Williams later told the Associated Press they determined the fire "was intentionally set."

...On June 26, the Glover Grove Baptist Church in Warrenville, S.C., burned down. Police said no cause for the fire had been determined.

"Everything is gone – books, robes, all my pictures, all my degrees," the Rev. Bobby Jean Jones told the Aiken Standard. "All the history is gone."

...Two other churches caught fire last week as well — Fruitland Presbyterian Church in Gibson County, Tenn., and the Greater Miracle Temple Apostolic Holiness Church in Tallahassee, Fla. Authorities believe the fires were caused by lightning and electrical wires, respectively, though they are still investigating.

"We want to be sure, 100 percent sure, that this was an accidental fire, not on purpose," Gibson County Fire Chief Bryan Cathey told WBBJ-TV.
Writing about the arsons for the Atlanta Black Star, David A. Love observes that there is a long history of white supremacists burning black churches, because of the particular role black churches play in black life in the United States: "From slavery and the days of Jim Crow through the civil rights movement and beyond, white supremacists have targeted the Black church because of its importance as a pillar of the Black community, the center for leadership and institution building, education, social, and political development and organizing to fight oppression. Strike at the Black church, and you strike at the heart of Black American life."

Which, of course, is the entire point. As I have said many times before: These are not "senseless" crimes. They make a perfect, terrible sense inside a framework of white supremacist terrorism, where "striking at the heart of Black American life" is precisely the objective.

These are not isolated incidents. They are connected, to each other and to an ugly history of white supremacist terrorism.

The only people who can't see that are those unwilling to look.

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Bree Newsome, Y'all

[Content Note: White supremacy.]

Over the weekend, a 30-year-old black woman named Bree Newsome, who is an activist, filmmaker, and musician, strapped herself into climbing gear, scaled the 30-foot flagpole at the South Carolina state capitol, and removed the Confederate flag.

image of Bree Newsome, clinging to the flag pole high up in the air next to the capitol, with the Confederate flag in her hand
This is what civil disobedience looks like. [Photo by Adam Anderson.]

Newsome was arrested and charged with a misdemeanor count of defacing monuments on the Capitol grounds, which carries a fine of up to $5,000, a sentence of three years, or both. James Ian Tyson, the 30-year-old white male activist who supported Newsome from the ground, was also arrested and charged. More than $100,000 has been raised for their bail and "for other courageous activists taking direct action in the movement for Black lives."

Newsome, whose former classmates recall her as a principled and courageous leader, said on the day of her action and arrest: "We removed the flag today because we can't wait any longer. We can't continue like this another day. It's time for a new chapter where we are sincere about dismantling white supremacy and building toward true racial justice and equality."

Rev. Dr. William J. Barber II, the president of the North Carolina chapter of the NAACP, said that Newsome is a "committed, trained, non-violent messenger of the truth [with a] deep commitment [to] justice, love, and true inter-racial community. ...[Newsome] stands in a long tradition ...Fannie Lou Hamer, Rosa Parks, and more recently hundreds of protesters in Moral Monday...were all considered, at first, criminals for their acts of conscience. We stand in solidarity with her."

A lot of people have observed that Bree Newsome looks like a superhero in that already iconic photo. Of course she looks like a hero. That's because she is one.

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Open Thread

image of a quince tree bearing its yellow fruit

Hosted by quince.

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The Virtual Pub Is Open!

image of a pub Photoshopped to be named 'The Rainbow Saloon'
[Explanations: lol your fat. pathetic anger bread. hey your gay.]

TFIF, Shakers!

Belly up to the bar,
and name your poison!


(And please don't forget to tip your bartender!)

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The Friday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by RAINBOWS.

Recommended Reading:

Michael: First Gay Couples Get Marriage Licenses in Arkansas, Texas, Tennessee, Nebraska

Jessica: [CN: War on agency] Kansas Judge Blocks GOP's Radical Abortion Ban

Lizzie: [CN: Disablism] I Happily Took Anti-Depressants During My Pregnancy

Rebecca: [CN: Fat hatred; illness; images of surgery] My Cancer Pt. II, Medical Fat Shaming Could Have Killed Me

Monica: Cisgender Added to Oxford Dictionary

lostsleep: The Golden Girls Living Room and Kitchen Modular Set

Sameer: First Photo of Taye Diggs as 'Hedwig and the Angry Inch' Lead

Leave your links and recommendations in comments. Self-promotion welcome and encouraged!

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



Queen: "We Are the Champions"

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It Is So Ordered

[Content Note: Homophobia; misogyny; religious supremacy.]

There are a lot of reasons I really love Justice Anthony Kennedy's opinion on Obergefell v. Hodges, which legalized same-sex marriage nationally. But my favorite thing is how he turned same-sex marriage opponents' arguments on their head, while explaining the court majority's reasoning behind their landmark ruling.

In a very real way, lots of Kennedy's descriptions of marriage are antiquated, although his emphasis that marriage is not "less meaningful for those who do not or cannot have children" and reminder that the "ability, desire, or promise to procreate is not and has not been a prerequisite for a valid marriage in any State" were both very welcome. Even the very idea that a state-recognized partnership is inherently more meaningful than people who have the option to marry but simply choose to be together without a legal bond is antiquated.

Which is kind of fitting, really, given how long past due we are to enact this basic right. That the Court's view of marriage in the US is so dated is sort of a perfect and terrible commentary on the regrettable delay of this decision.

The opposing respondents' views of marriage are even more shrouded in impenetrably hostile retrofuckery, and it is here where Kennedy's arguments really shine.

Using language hovering somewhere between poetry and hyperbole, Kennedy waxes rhapsodic about the (supposed) specialness of marriage: It "allows two people to find a life that could not be found alone" and "is essential to our most profound hopes and aspirations." He sings the institution's praises so unreservedly and enthusiastically that one imagines marriage equality opponents couldn't help but agree.

Kennedy also concedes their essential argument—that marriage is indeed a precious tradition. "The centrality of marriage to the human condition makes it unsurprising that the institution has existed for millennia and across civilizations. Since the dawn of history, marriage has transformed strangers into relatives, binding families and societies together. ...There are untold references to the beauty of marriage in religious and philosophical texts spanning time, cultures, and faiths, as well as in art and literature in all their forms."

And then Kennedy pivots, arguing that the acknowledgment of marriage's cultural importance and central role in the nation's traditions is precisely why it cannot be denied to same-sex couples.

This Court's cases and the Nation's traditions make clear that marriage is a keystone of our social order. ...[J]ust as a couple vows to support each other, so does society pledge to support the couple, offering symbolic recognition and material benefits to protect and nourish the union.
He further addresses their argument that marriage cannot be changed for its value to be preserved, observing that marriage has, in fact, changed: It has changed to recognize that women are not properties of their husbands; it has changed to recognize that women are autonomous beings within their marriages, not a merged entity with their husbands; it has changed to recognize and equally value interracial relationships.

These changes, Kennedy notes, "were not mere superficial changes. Rather, they worked deep transformations in its structure, affecting aspects of marriage long viewed by many as essential."

And, contrary to the opposing respondents' claims that changing the institution of marriage undermines it, Kennedy observes: "These new insights have strengthened, not weakened, the institution of marriage."

There is much, much more to appreciate in the Court's ruling. Among those things is the Kennedy's repeated refusal to equivocate, the repetition in stating what has been decided: "This analysis compels the conclusion that same-sex couples may exercise the right to marry. ...The limitation of marriage to opposite-sex couples may long have seemed natural and just, but its inconsistency with the central meaning of the fundamental right to marry is now manifest. ...It is now clear that the challenged laws burden the liberty of same-sex couples, and it must be further acknowledged that they abridge central precepts of equality. ...The Court now holds that same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental right to marry. No longer may this liberty be denied to them."

No longer may this liberty be denied to them.

"The Court, in this decision, holds same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental right to marry in all States. ...They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right. It is so ordered."

It is so ordered.

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Amazing Grace

President Obama just delivered the eulogy at Rev. Pinckney's funeral in Charleston. I will post video and a transcript below when they become available.

He ended the service by singing "Amazing Grace," and the entire room joined him.

As @brownandbella pointed out on Twitter: "The first black president singing Amazing Grace at the podium of a black church founded by a man who planned a slave revolt."

This is a day in the United States of America, y'all.

UPDATE: Here is video of the President singing "Amazing Grace."


Video Description: President Obama, standing at a podium at the front of a large audience, and in front of black church members and Rev. Pinckney's family, begins to sing "Amazing Grace" a capella, and the people in the room join him, then musicians begin to accompany him. After one verse, the President shouts the names of the victims, saying each of them "found that grace!" He then says: "Through the example of their lives, they've now passed it on to us. May we find ourselves worthy of that precious and extraordinary gift as long as our lives endure. May grace now lead them home. May god continue to shed his grace on the United States of America."

UPDATE 2: A full 40-minute video of the President's eulogy is now available on YouTube care of PBS. Please note that the video autoplays at the link.

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...But What Do the Hateful Dipshits Think?

[CN:anti-marriage equality hate, religious supremacy]

In the light of today's amazing pro-equality Supreme Court ruling, a lot of news outlets have rushed to find out what the various presidential candidates think about this, especially the ever-growing number boarding the GOP Bullet Train to the Future Wagonette to the 19th Century.

Liss and I were discussing whether there was even any point to addressing it here. Essentially, all of the GOP candidate opinions are garbage, and all of the Dem candidates opinions seem to be not-garbage. (If you want to read more roundups, you can read them at the National Journal, Politico, NBC New York and Detroit Free Press, among others.)

However, it is true that the GOP candidates hold several different flavors of dipshittery; the opinions clearly reflect a divide among the candidates. (Some of them overlap, because they're trying to make some kind of Nasty Neapolitan Bigotry Blend.) But if you don't want to actually have to read their hateful words, here is what flavor each one is primarily serving up:

Flavor 1: (Constitutional Bullshit Tracks) I am a hateful dispshit who is going to fight this because argle bargle STATE'S RIGHTS/THE TENTH AMENDMENT/SUPREME COURT OVERREACH. (Jindal, Perry, Walker, Fiorina)

Flavor 2: (Heavenly Hateful Hash)I am a hateful dispshit who is going to fight this because GOD'S LAWS AND NATURE'S LAWS. (Huckabee, Santorum)

Flavor 3: (Chip Chip Chip) I am a hateful dipshit, but not quite as silly as those guys. If elected I will appoint justices/support legislation to pursue a Roe strategy on this,since we probably can't directly overturn this. But give me time...(Rubio)

Flavor 4: (Crappy Camouflage Ripple) I am a hateful dipshit who is trying to sound like a somewhat less hateful dipshit by saying I oppose this. But I *also* sort of don't oppose it, because something something "law of the land" "protect religious freedom."(Carson, Graham, Bush, Christie, Kasich)

Flavor 5: (Punt-n-Pass Pistachio) What do you think? I have yet to express my own opinion. Rest assured I am a hateful disphit! (Paul, Pataki)

Flavor 6: (Spencer's Gifts Supreme) I am Donald Trump, and I blame Jeb Bush and John Roberts! Because I am a hateful dipshit, but in the bizarre, crass, and cheaply made fashion of an unwanted gift from the local mall's novelty shop. Comes with bonus Pop Up Pecker Lighter or the Fart-o-Nater Extreme!

And that's today's Hateful Dipshit Report!

Mmmm. Ice cream.

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Daily Dose of Cute

image of Zelda the Black and Tan Mutt standing on the back patio, looking up at me and grinning and wagging her tail
Zelly is very happy about the Supreme Court's decision today. "It's a DAY!"

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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In the News

Here is some other stuff in the news today...

The funeral for Rev. Clementa Pinckney has begun in Charleston, and thousands of people lined up today to pay their respects. President Obama is scheduled to give the eulogy. Letters to Rev. Pinckney from his wife and daughters were tucked into the program for the service. Blub.

[Content Note: Transphobia; anti-immigrationism; abuse] Jennicet Gutiérrez: "I interrupted Obama because we need to be heard." A must-read.

[CN: Terrorism; death] Fucking hell: "Terrorists attacked sites in France, Tunisia, and Kuwait on Friday, leaving a bloody toll on three continents and prompting new concerns about the spreading influence of jihadists. In France, attackers stormed an American-owned industrial chemical plant near Lyon, decapitated one person and tried unsuccessfully to blow up the factory. In Tunisia, gunmen opened fire at a beach resort, killing at least 27 people, officials said. At least one of the attackers was killed by security forces. And the Islamic State claimed responsibility for a suicide bombing in one of the largest Shiite mosques in Kuwait City during Friday prayers. ...Local news reports said at least 24 people had been killed and wounded in the assault, which was extraordinary for Kuwait and appeared to be a deliberate attempt to incite strife between Shiites and Sunnis. ...There was no immediate indication that the attacks had been coordinated. But the three strikes came at roughly the same time, and just days after the Islamic State, the militant group also known as ISIS or ISIL, called for such operations during the Muslim holy month of Ramadan."

As I mentioned yesterday, the Supreme Court also issued a terrific and major decision regarding a housing discrimination case, and Alice Ollstein explains how that decision could have an impact on voting rights: "The case hinged on whether victims of housing discrimination had to prove the government, banks or other entities consciously set out to discriminate against them—an often impossibly high legal bar—or whether they could simply prove they were disproportionately hurt by a certain policy." The Court decided for the latter. "Senior Attorney Kathy Culliton-Gonzalez with the Advancement Project, which is involved in several voting rights lawsuits around the country, said the ruling is 'very helpful' because it asserts that it's not necessary to prove intentional voter suppression based on race."

[CN: War; violence; sexual assault; torture; death] This is a difficult but important read: "For decades the terrible crimes perpetrated against women under the Khmer Rouge were hidden from view. BuzzFeed News' Jina Moore talked to the victims of the dictatorial regime who are now getting their day in court."

[CN: Police brutality; racism; misogyny; othering] There is a whole lot to unpack here fuhhhhhhhhk: "An interview with the Baltimore cop who's revealing all the horrible things he saw on the job." (In recommending this, by the way, I'm not at all suggesting it be read without scrutiny and skepticism. It absolutely should be!)

All right, Scotland! "New data from the Scottish government shows that the country generated 49.8 percent of its electricity from renewables in 2014, effectively meeting its target of generating half of electricity demand from clean sources by the end of this year."

Cool: "A Neptune-sized alien world about 30 light-years from Earth is unlike any exoplanet yet found. The bizarre planet, named Gliese 436b, has a huge comet-like tail of mostly hydrogen gas extending more than 9.3 million miles, computer models suggest. The cloud of gas around the planet has a circular head about 1.8 million miles in diameter. A planetary tail of that size had never before been seen around such a small exoplanet."

And finally! "Anna Paterek took her horse Magic to a murky river and attempted to coax him into the water. It takes a few tries before the horse finally makes his way to the edge of the water. Once he steps in, it only takes a few moments before..." I won't spoil it for you! *wink*

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Image of the Day

image of a graphic showing the United States, entirely blue, labeled 'Where same-sex couples can now marry'
From the Washington Post.

1. This is actually gonna take a minute. States without legalized same-sex marriage have some shit to sort out to catch up with this decision. But STILL.

2. It's not just the 50 states. This decision has also legalized same-sex marriage in all US territories. Woot!

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SCOTUS RULES IN FAVOR OF MARRIAGE EQUALITY!!!

I WILL WRITE MORE SHORTLY IN THIS SPACE BUT I WANTED TO POST THIS IMMEDIATELY BECAUSE OMG YAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAYAY!!!

UPDATE 1: Here is the full Supreme Court ruling [PDF] on Obergefell v. Hodges.

And here is the money quote, care of Justice Anthony Kennedy: "The court now holds that same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental right to marry. No longer may this liberty be denied to them."

UPDATE 2: It was, as per usual, a 5-4 decision. Kennedy wrote the ruling, and he was joined by Justices Ginsburg, Breyer, Sotomayor, and Kagen. Justices Roberts, Scalia, Alito, and Thomas were dissenting.

UPDATE 3: Last night, Iain and I were sitting on our deck, talking about this then-imminent decision. He asked me if I felt optimistic, and I said I did. "Twenty-four hours from now," I said, "same-sex marriage could be legal in the entire nation." And so it is. What a happy, happy day. I am vibrating with joy!

UPDATE 4: I'm reading through the ruling right now, so I can pull out some of the highlights for y'all, and I'm crying so hard that my glasses are fogging up.

Here's another great quote from Kennedy's ruling: "They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right." BOOM!

UPDATE 5: Okay, here is a collection of quotes from the ruling for you to enjoy (and no, I will not be posting any quotes from the dissent because FUCK THAT):

This Court granted review, limited to two questions. The first, presented by the cases from Michigan and Kentucky, is whether the Fourteenth Amendment requires a State to license a marriage between two people of the same sex. The second, presented by the cases from Ohio, Tennessee, and, again, Kentucky, is whether the Fourteenth Amendment requires a State to recognize a same-sex marriage licensed and performed in a State which does grant that right.

...Marriage is sacred to those who live by their religions and offers unique fulfillment to those who find meaning in the secular realm. Its dynamic allows two people to find a life that could not be found alone, for a marriage becomes greater than just the two persons. Rising from the most basic human needs, marriage is essential to our most profound hopes and aspirations.

The centrality of marriage to the human condition makes it unsurprising that the institution has existed for millennia and across civilizations. Since the dawn of history, marriage has transformed strangers into relatives, binding families and societies together. ...There are untold references to the beauty of marriage in religious and philosophical texts spanning time, cultures, and faiths, as well as in art and literature in all their forms. It is fair and necessary to say these references were based on the understanding that marriage is a union between two persons of the opposite sex.

That history is the beginning of these cases. The respondents say it should be the end as well. To them, it would demean a timeless institution if the concept and lawful status of marriage were extended to two persons of the same sex. Marriage, in their view, is by its nature a gender-differentiated union of man and woman. This view long has been held—and continues to be held—in good faith by reasonable and sincere people here and throughout the world.

The petitioners acknowledge this history but contend that these cases cannot end there. Were their intent to demean the revered idea and reality of marriage, the petitioners' claims would be of a different order. But that is neither their purpose nor their submission. To the contrary, it is the enduring importance of marriage that underlies the petitioners' contentions. This, they say, is their whole point. Far from seeking to devalue marriage, the petitioners seek it for themselves because of their respect—and need—for its privileges and responsibilities. And their immutable nature dictates that same-sex marriage is their only real path to this profound commitment.

...The ancient origins of marriage confirm its centrality, but it has not stood in isolation from developments in law and society. The history of marriage is one of both continuity and change. That institution—even as confined to opposite-sex relations—has evolved over time.

For example, marriage was once viewed as an arrangement by the couple's parents based on political, religious, and financial concerns; but by the time of the Nation's founding it was understood to be a voluntary contract between a man and a woman. ...As the role and status of women changed, the institution further evolved. Under the centuries-old doctrine of coverture, a married man and woman were treated by the State as a single, male-dominated legal entity. As women gained legal, political, and property rights, and as society began to understand that women have their own equal dignity, the law of coverture was abandoned. These and other developments in the institution of marriage over the past centuries were not mere superficial changes. Rather, they worked deep transformations in its structure, affecting aspects of marriage long viewed by many as essential.

These new insights have strengthened, not weakened, the institution of marriage. Indeed, changed understandings of marriage are characteristic of a Nation where new dimensions of freedom become apparent to new generations, often through perspectives that begin in pleas or protests and then are considered in the political sphere and the judicial process.

...Under the Due Process Clause of the Fourteenth Amendment, no State shall "deprive any person of life, liberty, or property, without due process of law." The fundamental liberties protected by this Clause include most of the rights enumerated in the Bill of Rights. In addition these liberties extend to certain personal choices central to individual dignity and autonomy, including intimate choices that define personal identity and beliefs.

The identification and protection of fundamental rights is an enduring part of the judicial duty to interpret the Constitution. That responsibility, however, "has not been reduced to any formula." Rather, it requires courts to exercise reasoned judgment in identifying interests
of the person so fundamental that the State must accord them its respect. That process is guided by many of the same considerations relevant to analysis of other constitutional provisions that set forth broad principles rather than specific requirements. History and tradition guide and discipline this inquiry but do not set its outer boundaries. That method respects our history and learns from it without allowing the past alone to rule the present.

The nature of injustice is that we may not always see it in our own times. The generations that wrote and ratified the Bill of Rights and the Fourteenth Amendment did not presume to know the extent of freedom in all of its dimensions, and so they entrusted to future generations a charter protecting the right of all persons to enjoy liberty as we learn its meaning. When new insight reveals discord between the Constitution's central protections and a received legal stricture, a claim to liberty must be addressed. Applying these established tenets, the Court has long held the right to marry is protected by the Constitution.

...In defining the right to marry these cases have identified essential attributes of that right based in history, tradition, and other constitutional liberties inherent in this intimate bond. ...This analysis compels the conclusion that same-sex couples may exercise the right to marry. The four principles and traditions to be discussed demonstrate that the reasons marriage is fundamental under the Constitution apply with equal force to same-sex couples.

...A first premise of the Court's relevant precedents is that the right to personal choice regarding marriage is inherent in the concept of individual autonomy. ...A second principle in this Court's jurisprudence is that the right to marry is fundamental because it supports a two-person union unlike any other in its importance to the committed individuals. ...A third basis for protecting the right to marry is that it safeguards children and families and thus draws meaning from related rights of childrearing, procreation, and education. ...That is not to say the right to marry is less meaningful for those who do not or cannot have children. An ability, desire, or promise to procreate is not and has not been a prerequisite for a valid marriage in any State. ...Fourth and finally, this Court's cases and the Nation's traditions make clear that marriage is a keystone of our social order. ...[J]ust as a couple vows to support each other, so does society pledge to support the couple, offering symbolic recognition and material benefits to protect and nourish the union.

...There is no difference between same- and opposite-sex couples with respect to this principle. Yet by virtue of their exclusion from that institution, same-sex couples are denied the constellation of benefits that the States have linked to marriage. This harm results in more than just material burdens. Same-sex couples are consigned to an instability many opposite-sex couples would deem intolerable in their own lives.

...The limitation of marriage to opposite-sex couples may long have seemed natural and just, but its inconsistency with the central meaning of the fundamental right to marry is now manifest.

...If rights were defined by who exercised them in the past, then received practices could serve as their own continued justification and new groups could not invoke rights once denied.

...Many who deem same-sex marriage to be wrong reach that conclusion based on decent and honorable religious or philosophical premises, and neither they nor their beliefs are disparaged here. But when that sincere, personal opposition becomes enacted law and public policy, the necessary consequence is to put the imprimatur of the State itself on an exclusion that soon demeans or stigmatizes those whose own liberty is then denied. Under the Constitution, same-sex couples seek in marriage the same legal treatment as opposite-sex couples, and it would disparage their choices and diminish their personhood to deny them this right.

...It is now clear that the challenged laws burden the liberty of same-sex couples, and it must be further acknowledged that they abridge central precepts of equality. Here the marriage laws enforced by the respondents are in essence unequal: same-sex couples are denied all the benefits afforded to opposite-sex couples and are barred from exercising a fundamental right. Especially against a long history of disapproval of their relationships, this denial to same-sex couples of the right to marry works a grave and continuing harm. The imposition of this disability on gays and lesbians serves to disrespect and subordinate them. And the Equal Protection Clause, like the Due Process Clause, prohibits this unjustified infringement of the fundamental right to marry.

These considerations lead to the conclusion that the right to marry is a fundamental right inherent in the liberty of the person, and under the Due Process and Equal Protection Clauses of the Fourteenth Amendment couples of the same-sex may not be deprived of that right and that liberty. The Court now holds that same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental right to marry. No longer may this liberty be denied to them.

...The respondents also argue allowing same-sex couples to wed will harm marriage as an institution by leading to fewer opposite-sex marriages. This may occur, the respondents contend, because licensing same-sex marriage severs the connection between natural procreation and marriage. That argument, however, rests on a counterintuitive view of opposite-sex couple's decision-making processes regarding marriage and parenthood. Decisions about whether to marry and raise children are based on many personal, romantic, and practical considerations; and it is unrealistic to conclude that an opposite-sex couple would choose not to marry simply because same-sex couples may do so.

...The respondents have not shown a foundation for the conclusion that allowing same-sex marriage will cause the harmful outcomes they describe.

...The Court, in this decision, holds same-sex couples may exercise the fundamental right to marry in all States. It follows that the Court also must hold—and it now does hold—that there is no lawful basis for a State to refuse to recognize a lawful same-sex marriage performed in another State on the ground of its same-sex character.

...No union is more profound than marriage, for it embodies the highest ideals of love, fidelity, devotion, sacrifice, and family. In forming a marital union, two people become something greater than once they were. As some of the petitioners in these cases demonstrate, marriage embodies a love that may endure even past death. It would misunderstand these men and women to say they disrespect the idea of marriage. Their plea is that they do respect it, respect it so deeply that they seek to find its fulfillment for themselves. Their hope is not to be condemned to live in loneliness, excluded from one of civilization's oldest institutions. They ask for equal dignity in the eyes of the law. The Constitution grants them that right.

It is so ordered.
UPDATE 6: My phone is, of course, buzzing like a buzz-monster with celebratory texts! Yayayayayay! And my friend B, who just got engaged to his future husband, texted me this amazing piece of perfection (which I'm sharing with his permission):

screen cap of a tweet reading: 'So sorry to hear about the crumbling of your traditional marriage this morning! Wish you both well navigating this scary new world!'

That is hilarious and LOL FOREVER. But also? I have long said (most recently here): "Not only does legalized same-sex marriage neither demean nor diminish my different-sex marriage, I am of the very firm opinion that expanding legal access to marriage makes my marriage worth more, not less, by virtue of the value conferred by inclusivity."

This is a GREAT DAY for all of the people who have worked tirelessly for decades, sometimes until their dying day, advocating for legal marriage for same-sex couples.

This is a GREAT DAY for all of the people who brought these cases, who subjected themselves and their relationships to public scrutiny in ways most of us couldn't bring ourselves to do.

This is a GREAT DAY for all the lawyers who worked on the cases that led to this ruling.

This is a GREAT DAY for every person who wants and/or needs same-sex marriage as a legal option.

This is a GREAT DAY for all the LGB people who don't even give a fuck about getting married, but feel validated by the fact that they now have another piece of equality conferred by this decision.

This is a GREAT DAY for all the LGBTQ people who recognize that marriage is just one step on a long journey to comprehensive and meaningful equality, but needed like whoa a big win to fill their sails with air to keep them moving on their way.

And this is a GREAT DAY for anyone who believes that everyone should have the option to get married, and everyone who believes that the institution of marriage is worth more when it is not used as a point of division but opened wide to anyone who wants access.

This new world is pretty fucking great, and I am happy to be in it.

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On Bristol Palin's Pregnancy Announcement

[Content Note: Reproductive policing.]

Yesterday, Bristol Palin, the oldest daughter of former vice-presidential candidate Sarah Palin, whose teenage pregnancy was hidden for the first part of Palin's campaign, made an announcement on her blog that she is again pregnant. Under the headline "Big News," this is the entirety of the post:

(I'm announcing this news a lot sooner than I ever expected due to the constant trolls who have nothing better to talk about!!!)

I wanted you guys to be the first to know that I am pregnant.

Honestly, I've been trying my hardest to keep my chin up on this one.

At the end of the day there's nothing I can't do with God by my side, and I know I am fully capable of handling anything that is put in front of me with dignity and grace.

Life moves on no matter what. So no matter how you feel, you get up, get dressed, show up, and never give up.

When life gets tough, there is no other option but to get tougher.

I know this has been, and will be, a huge disappointment to my family, to my close friends, and to many of you.

But please respect Tripp's and my privacy during this time. I do not want any lectures and I do not want any sympathy.

My little family always has, and always will come first.

Tripp, this new baby, and I will all be fine, because God is merciful.
Because Palin is part of a politically active anti-choice family, and because she herself is anti-choice, and because she is Christian and unmarried, and because she is conservative and says shitty antifeminist things, there are a whole lot of people making a whole lot of jokes, and pointing out her hypocrisy, and reveling in the schadenfreude of it all.

I don't have a single joke to make, nor do I feel the tiniest bit of schadenfreude. I just feel really damn sad after reading that pregnancy announcement.

That doesn't mean I don't care that her politics are garbage. Frankly, the fact that she espouses anti-choice and sexually repressive beliefs is part of what makes me so goddamn sad reading this, because she's clearly internalized all the attendant shame around sex and choice inherent to those beliefs—and now she does not feel like she has any meaningful choice but also can't be happy that she's pregnant.

It's just "a huge disappointment" to people who love her and to total strangers who share her beliefs. She's just trying to keep her chin up, because life is tough. She doesn't want sympathy because she is pregnant. There is absolutely no joy in this announcement. It's shame and resignation. That ain't funny.

She couldn't even reveal this information, with which she's struggling and which she know will disappoint people, on her own time frame, because the people who make a pastime out of policing the Palin women's reproduction have forced her to disclose it before they do. That isn't funny, either.

None of this is funny. It's tragic.

The reason I advocate for comprehensive reproductive rights options and reproductive justice is because I don't want pregnant people to feel shame about unwanted pregnancies, and because I want them to have the choice to terminate unwanted pregnancies, without judgment. This is the exact opposite of that.

I don't wish a sad, disappointing pregnancy on Bristol Palin. What I wish is that she felt like she could get an abortion without shame, if being pregnant is not what she wants.

And I wish she could use this experience to understand why other women might want that option, even if she doesn't, and that it's okay.

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Open Thread

image of a black panther, resting on a branch

Hosted by a panther.

This week's Open Threads have been hosted by the letter P.

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Question of the Day

What is your favorite outdoor activity?

"I don't like outdoor activities" and "I can't participate in outdoor activities" are, of course, perfectly acceptable answers.

This is probably pretty obvious, but my favorite outdoor activity is this.

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"Conversion Therapy" Ruled Fradulent

[Content Note: Homophobia; abuse.]

More good news from the courts today, this time care of a state jury in New Jersey:

In a landmark victory, a state jury in New Jersey found today that a "conversion therapy" program offering services it claimed could change clients from gay to straight was fraudulent and unconscionable.

The jury ordered JONAH (Jews Offering New Alternatives for Healing), the group's founder, and a counselor to pay $72,400 to compensate five plaintiffs for fees they paid to the group and for mental health counseling one of the plaintiffs needed afterward.

The SPLC filed the lawsuit – Michael Ferguson, et al., v. JONAH – in 2012. Brought under New Jersey's Consumer Fraud Act, the case was the first of its kind nationally. It was heard before Superior Court Judge Peter F. Bariso Jr.

SPLC co-counsel were attorneys from Cleary Gottlieb Steen & Hamilton LLP, and Lite DePalma Greenberg LLC.

The case was more about exposing consumer fraud than obtaining monetary damages.

"This verdict is a monumental moment in the movement to ensure the rights and acceptance of LGBT people in America," said David Dinielli, SPLC deputy legal director. "Conversion therapy and homophobia are based on the same central lie – that gay people are broken and need to be fixed. Conversion therapists, including the defendants in this case, sell fake cures that don't work but can seriously harm the unsuspecting people who fall into this trap.

"We're proud of our clients, who survived these so-called treatments and had the courage to call to account the people who defrauded them with their false promises."

...Conversion therapy has been discredited by virtually every major American medical, psychiatric, psychological and professional counseling organization. Many who have undergone the therapy have reported increased anxiety, depression, and in some cases, suicidal ideation.

In a landmark pre-trial ruling on Feb. 5, the judge excluded several leading conversion therapy proponents, including Joseph Nicolosi and Christopher Doyle, from testifying as defense experts. Bariso ruled their opinions were based on the false premise that homosexuality is a disorder.

In a blistering opinion that garnered international media attention, Bariso wrote that "the theory that homosexuality is a disorder is not novel but – like the notion that the earth is flat and the sun revolves around it – instead is outdated and refuted."

...The judge will consider whether to cancel JONAH's business license, among other remedies, in the coming weeks.
Something tells me he's not going to be keen to leave in business the peddlers of a fraudulent business based on an "outdated and refuted" theory.

This is really terrific news, especially since this very case "helped spark legislation in Congress to protect consumers from conversion therapy nationwide."

Criminalizing conversion therapy, much like getting rid of the Confederate flag in public spaces, is not an endpoint but a beginning. Conversion therapy is a monetized model of the homophobic shaming and abuse that is the central feature of a heterocentric culture that arbitrarily privileges straightness, and we mustn't regard rulings against conversion therapy as being more meaningful than what is really is; what will be truly meaningful is dismantling the homophobic culture that drives people to seek conversion therapy in the first place.

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The Make-Up Thread

Here is your semi-regular make-up thread, to discuss all things make-up.

Do you have a make-up product you'd recommend? Are you looking for the perfect foundation which has remained frustratingly elusive? Need or want to offer make-up tips? Searching for hypoallergenic products? Want to grouse about how you hate make-up? Want to gush about how you love it?

Whatever you like—have at it!

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image of me on my deck wearing green eye shadow and pink blush

Nothing special today: No foundation, just some blush (Too Faced's Perfect Flush Blush in Something About Berry), mascara (Almay's Black Steel), and eye shadow (Mildew highlighted with Maui Wowie, by Urban Decay).

Because I'm lazy and also love my Urban Decay Naked palettes, I tend to wear brown and beige eyeshadow, which highlights the blue in blue eyes. But my eyes look totally different depending on what color eyeshadow I'm wearing (and what color my top is), varying from violet to grey, and if I wear green and/or gold eyeshadow, as I'm doing today, it really brings out the green in my eyes.

When I was in high school, there was a girl who accused me (on multiple occasions!) of wearing colored contacts because my eyes "changed colors" so dramatically. No matter how much I told her I didn't wear colored contacts (even going so far as to remove my clear contacts from my eyeballs in the locker room one day), and tried to explain how color works, she was insistent that I was pulling some sort of EYEBALL TRICKERY.

Full Disclosure: I am not an eyeball witch. I do, however, own multiple eyeshadow colors.

What's up with you?

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Please note, as always, that advice should be not be offered to an individual person unless they solicit it. Further: This thread is open to everyone—women, men, genderqueer folks. People who are make-up experts, and people who are make-up newbies. Also, because there is a lot of racist language used in discussions of make-up, and in make-up names, please be aware to avoid turns of phrase that are alienating to women of color, like "nude" or "flesh tone" when referring to a peachy or beige color. I realize some recommended products may have names that use these words, so please be considerate about content noting for white supremacist (and/or Orientalist) product naming.

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The Evolution of Criticizing a Male-Authored Comic as a Female Reviewer

[Content Note: Rape culture; misogyny.]

Step 1. Write a detailed review about a comic tie-in. You don't really need to be angry at this stage, although nothing is stopping you from being angry because anger can be a healthy natural response to oppression. But let's be honest, if you've been reviewing for awhile (or even just consuming media for a few years), this is so much of the same shit on a different day. If you had to describe your feelings at this point, they would probably be "welp, that's a damn shame, better go write up a review to save everyone their five bucks and also from being triggered into a PTSD episode and losing the afternoon".

Step 2. Post the review on your best friend's site because you know there will be fully one-billion male trolls and mansplainers. And on a friend-of-a-friend's site because you really are just trying to save everyone their damn five bucks and also because at this point it's kinda become a piece for women to talk about how wearying it is to yet again have another fictional 'verse being consumed by on-screen rape like rape is the intellectual property equivalent of Galactus the planet-devourer. WINTER IS COMING.

Step 3. Weather, as predicted, fully one billion male trolls and mansplainers in the comments, all of whom are very very interested in explaining that you interpreted the comic incorrectly and that of course we aren't meant to see the wives as ungrateful and gosh you'd think the little ladies like yourselves would have heard of unreliable narratives before and also trigger warnings are so silly and you sound very angry and irrational and hysterical and emotional and childish and naive and you are a fascinating creature from another planet, worthy of considerable study like the odd specimen you are.

Step 4. Watch in amazement as the comic's creator says that the rape in the comic was necessary because without it the women being kept in slavery are "spoilt young girls". Watch him one-up the mansplaining trolls by calling your review "incredibly subjective" (read: unobjective, biased) and "very angry" (read: emotional, hysterical) but also "fascinating" (heard *in a Spock voice*). Watch him tell another critic that she is throwing "a teenage temper tantrum", and isn't realistic or practical for wanting rape to be handled with caution and care in comics.

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