"Is This Our New Reality?"

[Content Note: War on agency; reproductive rights.]

Robin Marty: "Mom Charged For Helping Daughter Obtain Illegal Abortion: Is This Our New Reality?"

Pennsylvania mother Jennifer Whalen is being charged with multiple crimes after allegedly purchasing drugs off the internet and giving them to her then 16-year-old pregnant daughter, who wanted an abortion. Whalen said she purchased the drugs after being unable to find a clinic close enough to have a legal abortion and not wanting to take her daughter out of state to obtain one (based on her location, the likely nearest clinic would have been in New York state).

Whalen has been charged with "felony count of medical consultation and judgment and misdemeanor charges of unlawful acts – not licensed as a pharmacist, endangering the welfare of a child and simple assault," according to one news report. The charges themselves are horrifying — after all, helping your daughter end a pregnancy she doesn't want surely isn't "endangering the welfare of a child" or "simple assault" any more than forcing her to continue a pregnancy against her will would be. What is just as disturbing is the fact that the termination occurred in January of 2012, but the complaint wasn't issued until December of 2013, nearly two years later.

Why such a delay? According to National Right to Life News, which accesses a behind paywall article about the charges, "[I]t took nearly two years to file charges because the case was unusual and investigators had to research the drugs involved and other elements of the situation."

In other words, they had to work to find something to charge her with.
Read the whole thing here. This is what it looks like when a nation allows a federal right to be chipped away in state legislatures, leaving women et. al. with the ostensible right to abortion but no meaningful access and legal vulnerability via a patchwork of arbitrary laws.

Once again, I want to observe that Robin Marty is one of the most invaluable activists writing on reproductive rights in the US today. If you have a moment, you can thank her for her intrepid, indispensable, and brilliant reporting here.

Thank you, Robin.

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I Get Letters

This is definitely the best email I've ever received:

screen cap of an email addressed to me with the subject line 'Hello!', the entire body of which reads: 'I'm sorry but you are the grossest thing I could ever imagine.'

LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL!!! The cheery salutation "Hello!" is brilliant, but the "I'm sorry" makes it perfect.

Dude, if I am the grossest thing you could ever imagine, I'm sorry but you have a colossally unimpressive imagination.

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Please Support Shakesville

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The Walking Thread

[Content Note: Violence. Spoilers are lurching around undeadly herein.]

image of Daryl sitting near a campfire, looking despondent
Yup, that's pretty much how I feel, too.

After last week's episode, where we caught up with Grimes, Carl the Hat, Michonne, and absolutely no one else, this week we got to see what everyone else has been getting up to since the big Shootout at Patriarchy Corral.

First we meet up with Daryl and Blonde Girl, who narrowly escape some lurching zombies before setting up camp and building a fire. Time for s'mores! And looking very miserable!

Blonde Girl wants to go track the other survivors, but Daryl is all Daryl Downer about it, so Blonde Girl is like, "FINE I'LL DO IT MYSELF!" and runs off on her own, which is very smart obviously. Daryl follows her blah blah remains of a zombie attack blah blah oh noes they're being attacked blah blah stabby stab they're fine phew.

Blonde Girl writes about all of this in her diary. Are you there, Hershel? It's me, Blonde Girl. Later, she burns the pages. "No one's going to publish this!"

Next we meet up with Tyreese and the two young girls whom Carol had taken under her wing, Mika and Lizzie. Lizzie is almost certainly the real culprit in the arson for which Carol took the fall, and for which she was banished to not make Tyreese mad, so it's MEANINGFUL IRONY that Tyreese is now Lizzie's protectorate.

They've also got Baby Zombie Whistle Grimes in tow, because of course they do. Is anyone is surprised that Baby Zombie Whistle Grimes is still alive? I HOPE NOT. Because if you're surprised, you may be at risk for accidentally punching yourself in the face. SO BE CAREFUL.

Baby Zombie Whistle Grimes is really living up to her name, as Mika and Lizzie hide in the woods with her while Tyreese fails to save some strangers from a zombie attack. Before he dies, one of the strangers tells Tyreese to follow the train tracks to find a safe haven. Oh boy. I mean, the last place that Tyreese believed was a safe haven was Captain Murder's Murder Compound, so PROCEED WITH CAUTION, TYREESE.

In another non-surprise, Carol reappears. Because of course she reappears, and of course she reappears specifically with the group where she can play mother to three young girls. You didn't expect Tyreese to carry that baby, did you?

Next we meet up with Maggie, Sasha, and Bob. Sasha is fixing up Bob's shoulder, where he got shot, and it would be great if they had a bottle of alcohol to clean out the wound HA HA OH WELL. In a repeat of the scene we just saw with Blonde Girl and Daryl, because the writers of this show are fucking geniuses, Maggie decides she's going to take off to find Glenn, and Sasha and Bob reluctantly go after her.

A ways down the road—it seems like barely a hundred yards, but it could have been sixty-two miles, since time and space make no sense in this show and never will—the three of them find the Grimes Jail Escape Bus, on which Glenn is presumed to have escaped. The bus is filled with zombies, but is also closed tight. (Don't even think about how that is possible, because it will break your brain and/or infuriate you because this fucking show.) They work out a system where Sasha will let out one zombie at a time, Maggie will kill the zombie if it's not Glenn, and Bob will stand nearby uselessly.

It's a pretty terrific system until the zombies overwhelm Sasha. Maggie goes on a zombie killing spree, then gets on the bus to investigate. There is one male zombie with dark hair trapped face-down on the bus floor. IS IT GLENN?! (Of course it's not Glenn. It was never going to be Glenn.) Maggie turns over the zombie without the audience seeing its face, then kills it, and laughs mirthlessly. Cut to commercial. Oh the tension.

Just kidding. There is no tension.

When we come back from the break ("See you in two and two argle bargle!"—Zombie Chuck Woolery), we meet up with Glenn ("OMG HE'S ALIVE! I'M SO SURPRISED!"—No One), who is still back at Grimes Jail, passed out on a ledge with a zombie horde reaching for him and gurgling just below. So many flannel shirts!

He searches for Maggie and, having not found her, decides to bug outta there, wisely clad in riot gear. On his way out, he finds Fistbump Sister, aka Tara, who looks stricken. He tells her he needs her help to escape, and gives her a gun.

They fight their way outta Grimes Jail, which has been absolutely overrun by zombies, thanks to Captain Murder's awesome plan to ruin the jail in order to inhabit it (WHUT), and then they hit the road together so Glenn can find Maggie. Tara is wracked with guilt over having chosen the wrong side in the Shootout at Patriarchy Corral, and for having believed Captain Murder that Grimes Gang were bad people, when clearly they are THE BEST. She also lets it slip that Hershel's dead, and Glenn tells her that Hershel was "a great man." Eh.

A swarm of zombies descends on them, and Glenn collapses to the ground while Tara takes care of business. A truck pulls up and Tara shouts at them, "Hope you enjoyed the show, assholes!" which makes me laugh SO HARD.

Because Captain Murder is dead, and we can't go too long without another white patriarch to battle Grimes for the souls and loyalty of Grimes Gang, a white dude gets out of the truck and says to Tara in reply, "You got a damn mouth on you. What else you got?"

Welp. This new sanctuary looks like it will be fun!

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Daily Dose of Cute

image of Zelda the Black and Tan Mutt sitting on the loveseat while Lottie the Black and Tan Dachshund sits just above her on the back of the loveseat

Zelly and her pal Lottie.

As always, please feel welcome and encouraged to share pix of the fuzzy, feathered, or scaled members of your family in comments.

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Assvertising

[Content Note: Misogyny; patriarchy; gender essentialism; gender policing.]

Spudsy sent me the heads-up about this abysmal advert, the latest in the "Hail to the V" series produced by Summer's Eve:

A thin, young, white woman stands at a vanity in the bathroom, applying make-up, while a thin, young, white man is in the shower, lathering his body.

Woman: Did you know Summer's Eve Cleansing Wash is PH-balanced and gentler than soap, which makes it perfectly formulated for a woman's V?

Man: Huh?

Woman: Did you know you're using it?

The man freezes, terrified, and looks at the bottle of soap in his hand, which is labeled "Summer's Eve." Guitar music. Cut to a montage of the man doing Very Manly Things: Splitting wood in the backyard, cracking a raw egg into a glass and drinking it, playing drums in the garage, punching a speedbag, belly-flopping into a pool, karate chopping wood planks suspended between two cement blocks, pulling a roped car with his teeth, welding a helmet, mowing the grass on a riding mower while wearing the helmet, drinking beer and crushing the can.

He flops down on the couch beside the woman. "That was close," she says.

Images of the line of Summer's Eve body washes, accompanied by text reading: "Hail to the V."
Every single thing about this commercial is fucking terrible.

Once again, I will note how it is women who are called "the weaker sex," and yet the patriarchy defines men's masculinity as so delicate, so fragile, so easily compromised, that even using a soap intended for women necessitates putting one's body through painful demonstrations of masculine strength in order to protect it.

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



John Legend: "If You're Out There"

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In the News

Here is some stuff in the news today!

Congratulations to Meryl Davis and Charlie White, who won the first ever Olympic gold for the US in ice dance. You can see their winning performance here.

Federal Judge Arenda L. Wright Allen has declared Virginia's same-sex marriage ban unconstitutional, writing: "The plaintiffs [two same-sex couples] ask for nothing more than to exercise a right that is enjoyed by the vast majority of Virginia's adult citizens. They seek simply the same right that is currently enjoyed by heterosexual individuals: the right to make a public commitment to form an exclusive relationship and create a family with a partner with whom the person shares an intimate and sustaining emotional bond." Judge Wright Allen's decision is stayed pending appeal, so same-sex couples won't be able to legally wed until the case is resolved in the United States Court of Appeals for the Fourth Circuit.

[Content Note: Violence; guns] Adrian Broadway, a 15-year-old Arkansas teenager, is dead after the father of a classmate on whom she and friends were playing a prank shot and killed her. "The teenagers told police they had thrown toilet paper, eggs and mayonnaise on a car parked there. As they were leaving, a man came out of the house and opened fire. Broadway was struck in the head and died." Broadway is black, as is the man who shot her, Willie Noble. Noble has been charged with "one count of first-degree murder, one count of a terroristic act, and five counts of aggravated assault." Which, you know, probably would not have been the case if Noble were white. That's not an argument against charging Noble; it's an argument for charging white men who kill black teenagers.

[CN: Gun violence; racism] George Zimmerman, citing an ongoing Department of Justice civil rights investigation, refuses to say whether he regrets killing Trayvon Martin. "Certainly, I think about that night and I think my life would be tremendously easier if I stayed home." Fuck. You.

[CN: Food insecurity; class warfare] Food stamp use among military families is again on the rise. This is not what "support the troops" is supposed to mean. I'd love to hear conservatives who incessantly wail about the moochers and takers on SNAP practice some ideological consistency and argue that the people serving the nation are also just lazy and need to work harder. (No, I wouldn't. I'd love for them to abandon that bootstrap bullshit altogether.)

Actress Ellen Page publicly discloses that she is a lesbian in a moving speech about the harm being obliged to remain publicly closeted does: "I suffered for years because I was scared to be out. My spirit suffered, my mental health suffered and my relationship suffered. ...We deserve to experience love fully equally without shame and without compromise."

[CN: Rape; domestic violence] Last night was the premiere of The Tonight Show Starring Jimmy Fallon, which I was really enjoying until Mike Tyson appeared as part of a comedy bit. It was really jarring to see Fallon, who spoke lovingly about his baby daughter in his opening monologue, yuk it up with a man who has raped and beaten other people's daughters. Boo.

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Michael Dunn Verdict: Hung Jury

[Content Note: Gun violence; racism.]

As you may have heard, the murder trial for 47-year-old white man Michael Dunn, who shot and killed 17-year-old black teen Jordan Davis resulted in a hung jury over the weekend.

Jurors could not come to one decision about the charge of first degree murder, but did find Dunn guilty for the attempted murders of Tevin Thompson, Leland Brunson, and Tommie Stornes, who were riding in the SUV with Davis the evening of his death.
By way of reminder, Dunn and his girlfriend stopped at a Jacksonville convenience store, where Davis and his friends were sitting in an SUV in the parking lot, listening to music, which Dunn described as "thug music." Dunn asked them to turn down the music, the unarmed teens refused, there was some sort of argument, then Dunn his semi-automatic pistol from his glove compartment and shot into the SUV nine times, hitting Davis twice and killing him. Dunn then left the scene, returned to his hotel room, and ordered pizza. He was arrested the next day. Dunn claimed that he had felt threatened and acted in self-defense.

And a jury could not unanimously determine that his actions constituted murder.

Stand Your Ground laws are grotesque, particularly because of the way they are unevenly applied in a deeply racist nation. Following the verdict, the day before what would have been their son's 19th birthday, Jordan Davis' parents, Lucia McBath and Ron Davis, spoke about the mistrial:
"[Jordan] was a good kid. It wasn't allowed to be said in the court room, but we'll say it. He was a good kid," said Davis' father Ron. "There are a lot of good kids out there. …They should have a voice. They shouldn't have to live in fear…that if they get shot, it's just collateral damage. …We do not accept a law that would allow collateral damage to our family members. …We expect the law to be behind us, and protect us. That's what I wanted the law to do — to protect Jordan as we protected Jordan."
The law should not leave room for an armed white man to justify killing an unarmed black kid (or anyone else) on the basis that he "felt threatened." In November 2012, I wrote about what execrable garbage it was for Dunn to claim that that he "felt threatened."



I feel like I'm running out of ways to write that "feeling threatened" is not a justification for violence (nor a justification for bullshit self-defense gun laws). The United States is a country with powerful systems of privilege and entrenched bigotry, where fear of the Other is continually exploited by people in power. Lots of people "feel threatened" by lots of stupid shit that is underwritten by nothing but stereotypes, straw, and ghosts.

...I suspect Dunn didn't "feel threatened" until after he'd gone to the car and then been (quite rightly) told to get to fuck.

I suspect Dunn walked over to the car all puffed-up and prepared to Be Respected, and instead the kids in the car refused to automatically bend to his will, and probably (quite understandably) scoffed contemptuously at his evident belief he owns the world.

I suspect that made his authority, his world view which is preciously perched on a precipice of crumbling privilege, feel threatened.

I suspect that Dunn is one of those guys who loves that whole Fox News Bill O'Reilly War on Everything "your birthright as a Real American is being eroded" shtick that grows toxic insecurity in old white conservative dudes like mold in a petri dish.

I suspect he's one of those guys, a kind of guy who unfortunately feels familiar to me, who just gets explosively enraged when people he perceives as his inferiors don't do what he wants them to do, because he thinks he has the right to demand it.

I suspect that Dunn erupted like an emotional volcano because he was fear-raging at being denied some show of deference to which he believes he's entitled, sheerly by virtue of who he is.

Or: He "snapped," as it is known in the common parlance when white men behave this way, as though it is inexplicable behavior instead of inevitable behavior when certain portions of any population are told they are special and then their frustrations at a world that treats them otherwise redirected onto scapegoats by the very tricksters who created their discordance of identity in the first place.

I suspect that the problem was not that Dunn "felt threatened" in that particular moment, but that he "feels threatened" all the time, in ways that are carelessly encouraged by all the institutions that exploit the impotent rage of people whose identities and self-worth are inextricably tied to unearned privilege, fanning the flames of their insecurity that their privilege, nay their very identities, are being eroded by nefarious Others whose very existence is an existential threat.

And I suspect that as long as the people who exist in this constant state of corrosive anxiety are the most likely to stockpile and carry weaponry, Jordan Davis will not be the last victim of a man who "feels threatened."



Stand Your Ground laws empower privileged men who feel fearful of a world that doesn't bend to their will, who have never been obliged to learn how to sit with fear. It empowers privileged men who mistake the right to be safe with the right to feel safe, whose feelings of unsafety are rooted in prejudice and bigotry, who "feel threatened" by people who don't share their privilege refusing to conform to their expectations, their demands. Men who only care about their own right to be and feel safe, and no one else's.

The most pointed problem with "Stand Your Ground" laws is that people who feel unsafe, irrespective of whether they have a legitimate reason to feel unsafe, implicitly have their fears justified. The laws intrinsically convey people are trying to hurt you and there's something scary out there and you should feel afraid, always afraid. So, ironically, these laws do not in any way encourage feelings of safety and security in fearful people. They entrench fear.

And that makes the world a very dangerous place for the people they're afraid of. People like Jordan Davis.

Michael Dunn killed Jordan Davis because he, Dunn, had to feel for a moment the way people without his privileges may feel, with reason, for an entire lifetime. We don't need gun laws that say feeling fearful or insecure or powerless or out of control or angry is the same thing as being threatened, so go ahead and shoot.

We need laws that unequivocally value the lives of black boys, as much as they value the right of privileged men to "feel safe."

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Blog Note

Hi, everyone. I'm going to try to get back to work today, although my back is still in pretty bad shape, so we'll see how it goes. It might be a bit slow for the next couple of days, and hopefully only a couple of days. I'm playing it by ear, and I appreciate your patience while I'm working through these health issues.

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Sunday Shuffle

Howard Shore, Over Hill

How about you?

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The Virtual Pub Is Open

image of a pub Photoshopped to be named 'The Shakesville Arms'
[Explanations: lol your fat. pathetic anger bread. hey your gay.]

TFIF, Shakers!

Belly up to the bar,
and name your poison!

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Blog Note

I'm going to be posting the Virtual Pub shortly, because we're taking a long weekend, and I just wanted to let you know why.

For one, my back is still royally screwed up. But also because I have some personal stuff to attend to over the next couple of days.

I lost an old family friend unexpectedly last week, and the funeral is this weekend. He's not someone to whom I was close; he was a dear friend's father, and I am so sad for my friend and his family. I'm sad that they lost Terry, and I'm sad that they lost him in such a sudden way, not that death is necessarily easier even when one is prepared for it.

And I am sad that Terry is gone. It's true to say we weren't close, but we were glad to see each other when we did. He was woven into the fabric of my life for a very long time. He is in all of the pictures from the major events in my young life, proms and graduations and parties, because I shared those events with his son. I went to Terry's wedding, when he was remarried, and I swam in his pool and made out on his couch and hung my legs over the side of his boat and danced with him at a bar.

Lots of dads can be intimidating when you're a kid, you know? But Terry always made me feel welcome. He was always nice to me.

He was a a first degree black belt in Okinawan karate, and an avid boat enthusiast. He loved my friend, his son.

I am sad that he is gone.

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Although I am always appreciative of well-wishing, there is no need at all to feel obliged; I just wanted to post something informational for the Shakers who tend to worry when I deviate from my routine.

See you Tuesday.

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Recommended Reading

[Content Note: Violence against women; white supremacy.]

Lauren Chief Elk: "There is No 'We': V-Day, Indigenous Women and the Myth of Shared Gender Oppression."

This is a really important piece for a whole lot of reasons, primary among them the idea that tasking the state with anti-violence solutions is fundamentally incompatible with anti-violence when the state itself is committing and/or abetting violence in marginalized communities.

Follow Lauren on Twitter here.

[H/T to Amanda.]

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Money Well Spent

[Content Note: Rape culture.]

As I mentioned on Tuesday, the Indiana State legislature has declined to support a bill that would fund a study to research why Indiana's rate of sexual assault is the second highest in the nation.

Meanwhile: The Indiana Office of Tourism Development paid $100,000 to develop a tourism campaign with the hot new slogan "Honest-to-Goodness Indiana."

I guess "Aw Shucks Indiana" was too WILD.

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