Living History

by Jessica Luther, aka scatx, who can also be found at her own blog, Speaker's Corner in the ATX, and blazing trails of righteous fury on Twitter.

[Content Note: Rape culture; rape apologia and abetting.]

Ta-Nehisi Coates wrote an op-ed piece today for the New York Times in which he argues that the statue of Joe Paterno outside of the Penn State football stadium should stay. His piece is in reaction to calls that the statue be taken down after the recently-released Freeh report makes it clear that the beloved JoePa sheltered a child rapist for over a decade.

Here is how Garland Grey, in a post here at Shakesville on Monday in which he argued persuasively that the statue needs to go, describes this statue:

To have the major image of Joe Paterno on campus be this folksy cast of him with a giant grin and his tie askew in the wind, a single index finger in the air as if someone had just asked him how many sexual predators he was currently keeping quiet for is a capitulation to the worst parts of the University's culture.
He went on to say:
It allows those who apologized for him, who rioted for him, who to this day will defend him on social media, those people who do not understand your odd moral code where football isn't the most important thing in the world, those who reside in a moral universe in which their University's team winning is totally worth what Sandusky did to mostly poor, most minority kids because they can hang onto a sliver of doubt or can put this monstrous choice into some sort of perspective where Paterno isn't this totally vile, cynical figure, it allows those people a place on campus to which they can make a pilgrimage, to engage in fellowship with other people who believe as they do that revering this man's legend is much more important than the children he ignored his responsibility to.
I'd like to juxtapose this with how Coates argues for keeping the statue. Coates writes:
The problem here is not that Paterno shamed Happy Valley, but that Happy Valley, through its broad blindness, has shamed itself. Last week an artist who'd once painted Paterno with a halo altered his mural by removing it. This effort has less to do with the better rendering of Paterno and more to do with escaping the shame of hasty canonization.

Arguing for the statue's removal, the legendary coach Bobby Bowden said he wouldn't want Sandusky's crimes “brought up every time I walked out on the field.” That's the point. Sandusky's crimes should never be forgotten, nor should the crimes of the broader community. It is shameful to deify men who put nationalist ritual before children. But it is more shameful to pretend that this elevation was achieved by Joe Paterno's singular hand.

Removing the Paterno statue allows Happy Valley to forget its own compliance in a national crime, to expunge its own culpability in its ruthless pursuit of glory. The statue should remain, and beneath it there should be a full explanation of Sandusky's crimes, Paterno's role and some warning to all of us who would turn a pastime into a god and elect a mortal man as its avatar.
I'd like to unpack this a bit.

First, though the title of the piece suggests it, Coates does not just think that PSU should leave the statue as a remembrance. The final paragraph shows that he thinks it is not okay as is and that there needs to be change. I am not sure that leaving a somehow-altered version of the statue is even something being discussed in Happy Valley but we agree that the statue—as is—is problematic.

Second, this entire piece is built around the belief that without the statue, a memory of the cover-up and the blatant disregard for the child victims of Sandusky will somehow be lessened. It will not remain as visceral, it will not haunt the campus as much, it will not serve as the warning that it should. I do not buy this idea. If memory and remembrance and warning is the goal, as Kristin Lindsley said to me on Twitter today, "*IF* that is the goal (explanation/education) there is a museum on campus—relocate statue plus context and criticism of what happened."

This leads to my third point. This argument that the statue should stand does not take into account what it might mean to the victims of Sandusky that the grinning JoePa remains an image on campus in any capacity. One of the great frustrations of media coverage when it comes to the Sandusky trial has been the focus on how everyone else outside of the victims themselves will cope with what has happened. How will Penn State football move on? What will the Penn State community do to heal? Not that those aren't legitimate questions. Yet when they take precedence in any capacity over the most direct victims (some of them still children) of Sandusky's crimes, we are doing it wrong.

No, I don't know what each victim would say about this statue. Survivors, even victims of the same predator, are not a monolith. Some may be okay with it staying, or want it to stay. Some may agree with Coates that it can stay with modification. Some will certainly not want Paterno's statue to remain, because its looming presence stands to trigger a visceral, incapacitating anxiety. In deference to the safety that was previously denied them, it should go. Full stop.

And here's the rub. The culture that Paterno created, that he exploited, that made him rich and powerful, that led to people creating an aw-shucks-isn't-he-the-best statue, THAT culture is the exact one that makes it so that we will never know the extent of Sandusky's abuse. We will never know all the victims. We can't. He abused and raped boys across decades. And so, we will never know how they all feel about this statue or what we should do with it. The group who should have a say cannot possibly ever have one, not in its entirety.

Coates compares the Paterno statue to another:
The need to clean history so that the record might reflect our current values, and not our sordid past, is broad. In Columbia, S.C., there stands a statue of Ben Tillman, the populist South Carolina senator who helped found Clemson University and, in his spare time, defended lynching from his august national offices. For years there have been calls to remove Tillman's statue, emanating from those who think it a shame to continue to honor him. But in a democracy, memorial statues are not simply comments on their subjects, but comments on their makers. That Americans once saw fit to honor a man who defended terrorism from the Senate floor is a powerful statement about our identity and history.

Whereas Tillman's most spectacular sins were known at the time of his lionization, Paterno's only later came to light.
Tillman died in 1918. The people whom he hurt most directly with his words and actions may still be alive (and certainly things he did reverberate now). They may have still been alive when they made first calls to take the statue down. Odds are very low, though. Because Paterno turned his back when he could have instead called the police, for all we know, Sandusky was abusing children in the weeks or days leading up to his arrest. Child victims of Sandusky may live in or near Happy Valley right now and they may live and work there for decades. Because we cannot know how many people Sandusky abused we cannot know if one (or more) work on the campus. In this case, I'm going to guess odds are high that they do. Beyond that group, it is guaranteed—GUARANTEED—that every single day on that campus multiple victims of sexual violence walk past the statue.

While the statue could potentially serve as a reminder to some of the abject failure at PSU in a way that might prevent another one, it will certainly remind at least some of the victims of the abuse that they endured while that smiling man did not do anything.

Fourth, I want to go back to Coates' phrase, "the need to clean history," which implies that the removal of the statue is primarily about erasing what has happened (he charges that this will lead to forgetting and expunging culpability). I think this, maybe more than anything in this piece, bothered me.

What Sandusky did and what Paterno covered up is not history.

There is a privilege here to be able to step back and see this statue as part of a history and not as part of the now, to try to see the value in it for posterity instead of the triggering damage it could do in the present and future to both the direct victims of Sandusky and sexual assault victims at large. We are not looking back on this series of events from the year 2112.

The removal of the statue from campus is not about how or if people fifty years from now will remember Paterno, the conspiracy, the crimes. It is about making PSU and Happy Valley a safer, less-triggering space for any and all potential Sandusky victims right at this very moment and in the decades to come.

In the end, I am not in disagreement with Coates. That statue cannot remain exactly how it is now. There is no lesson in that. Also, I think remembering is important and necessary. But those things cannot eclipse our consideration for what that image means to those hurt the most.

As @graceishuman wrote today (and echoing EVERYTHING Garland Grey wrote on Monday):
Seems to me Ta-Nehisi's argument is about forcing people who aren't survivors to deal with it which is not accomplished at all by triggering survivors. Want to force people to deal with the reality of abuse? Make them listen to survivors. Don't leave up monuments to abuse.
[Note: Coates has, in the past, handled the topic of the triggering of sexual assault victims problematically.]

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For the Record

I don't give a fuck if Daniel Tosh or Louis CK thinks I lack a sense of humor.

I don't give a fuck if fans of Daniel Tosh or Louis CK think I lack a sense of humor.

I don't give a fuck if any teller and/or defender of rape jokes that uphold the rape culture, or any other kind of comedy that makes fun of survivors of any trauma, vulnerable people, marginalized people, powerless people, thinks I lack of sense of humor.

I can spend all day not scanning my comedy credentials.

Everyone who's anyone already knows I'm the Most Humorless Feminist in all of Nofunnington, anyway.

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What I'm Listening To

Nina Simone, "Revolution"


[Lyrics here.]

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Quote of the Day

"That's not a term I would use."—Republican presidential candidate Mitt Romney, earlier today, responding to a questioner at a campaign event who described President Barack Obama as a "monster."

Such an interesting turn of phrase, that. That's not a term I would use, but I certainly agree with the sentiment. Is what it means.

[Via @philipaklein.]

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Matilda

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Olivia

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Sophie

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Wednesday Blogaround

This blogaround brought to you by twitching whiskers.

Recommended Reading:

Rinku: Why Our Vision of America's Future Must Count People of Color's Needs [Content Note: The post at this link contains discussion of racism and white privilege.]

Jeremy: With Latest Comments, Chick-Fil-A Can No Longer Deny Anti-LGBT Policy [Content Note: The post at this link contains homophobic rhetoric and discussion of homophobia.]

Pam: Boy Scouts of America Recommits to Official Anti-Gay Bigotry: 'It Is Absolutely the Best Policy' [Content Note: he post at this link contains heterocentric rhetoric and discussion of homophobia.]

Bill: The Right-to-Life Convention: Why They Hate Birth Control and Love Mitt Romney

Miriam: Is It Safe? Asking the Wrong Question in the Home Birth Debate [Content Note: The post at this link contains discussion of infant/parent mortality.]

Mike: Frustrations of an Asian American Whedonite [Content Note: The post at this link contains discussions of racism and cultural appropriation.]

Renee: Alleged Jaywalking Leads to Taser Incident in Florida [Content Note: The post at this link contains imagery and descriptions of police misconduct.]

Andy: Lesbian Soldier with Cancer Fights for Her Life, Family's Equality [Content Note: The post at this link contains discussion of homophobia.]

Tigtog: Deleting Blog Comments: Exercise of Property Rights vs Free Speech

Resistance: Bus Driver Catches Falling 7-Year-Old

Leave your links and recommendations in comments...

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime



Elton John and Kiki Dee: "Don't Go Breaking My Heart"

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An Observation

[Content Note: Sexual violence.]

I really love, ahem, how Daniel Tosh inciting rape against an audience member has turned into a referendum on whether feminists have a sense of humor.

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Today in Mitt Romney Stands in Front of Something

image of Mitt Romney at a campaign event standing in front of a giant sign reading: 'Obama's Upside-Down Economy'
Obviously, this is just a terrific picture of Mitt Romney doing normal campaign stuff, like giving a thumbs-up while standing in front of a giant sign that features the President's name and the word ECONOMY in superhuge type. I am definitely getting the impression that Mitt Romney approves of the economy as it is being managed under President Obama, which is I'M PRETTY SURE the message he totes wants to send.

The other possibility is that he DOES NOT LIKE the way the economy is being managed under President Obama, which would, I confess, explain the upside-down part. In which case: I AGREE! The economy IS very upside-down, in that very rich people with gold-plated moon mansions like Mitt Romney pay no taxes while self-employed entrepreneurs sometimes pay an almost 50% tax rate! BOOOOO! Boo that terrible economy and BOO MITT ROMNEY! WHERE ARE HIS TAX RETURNS, ANYWAY?!

What I'm saying is that Mitt Romney is a master of messaging. You should totally vote for him lulz.

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Top Five

Here is your topic: Top Five Favorite Video Games. Go!

Please feel welcome to share stories about why your Top Five picks are what they are, though a straight-up list is fine, too. Please refrain from negatively auditing other people's lists, because judgment discourages participation.

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Considering the Rape Culture

[Content Note: Rape culture; rape apologia.]

All day yesterday, I saw responses to Louis CK's appearance on The Daily Show, some of those responses in direct tweets and emails to me, that are some variation of: Men so rarely consider rape culture at all that what Louis CK did was remarkable.

A lot of them stated plainly: Men never think about the rape culture.

Implicit in those responses is the idea that Louis CK was not feigning awareness in a contrived bit of ass-covering because he doesn't want to be known as a rape apologist, but instead genuinely had some sort of epiphany leading to a heightened sensitivity to rape culture, which I do not believe. (Frank Lee has some thoughts about what authentic reflection might have looked like.) But I'm going to set that aside for now in order to address the notion that men rarely or never consider rape culture.

Because I am calling bullshit so hard on that conventional wisdom.

I previously noted that the broad use of "men" in this convention excludes a lot of men who have had, by necessity or choice, occasion to consider rape culture. "Men," as it is being used when men are said not to consider rape culture, generally means privileged straight cis men who have never been victimized by sexual violence. Already, this notion stands on wobbly legs.

But let us consider, then, the alleged failure to consider rape culture of those privileged straight cis men who have never been victimized by sexual violence.

If those men never consider the rape culture, then how is it that virtually all of them know its tropes and narratives? How is it that virtually every male person is, by the time he hits puberty, capable of sophisticated victim-blaming, armed with a full arsenal of rape culture memes and stereotypes? How are they all so perfectly versed in the language of rape culture that tasks women with "crying" rape and "claiming" to have been raped, rather than reporting it? How is it that I have heard male children talking about how women lie about rape? And why it is that so many privileged straight cis men complain about being "profiled" or "made to feel like rapists" by women doing the quickening step in front of them, or giving them an anxious side-eye in an otherwise abandoned space?

For people who never consider the rape culture, they sure have an amazing working knowledge of it.

And what of the 4% of men who are serial rapists? Do the one out of every twenty-five men who have raped multiple people never consider rape culture, do you suppose?

Those legs are a-wobbling, they are.

Iain has noted before that no cis straight man is really as disconnected from rape culture as so many of them assert themselves to be, that most men have experienced a lone woman quickening her pace on a sidewalk ahead. Some men use that as an opportunity to empathize with the woman. And some of them use that as an opportunity to get angry with her for "treating me like a rapist."

All of us live in the rape culture. All of us are presented with opportunities to consider it.

That we are exhorted to identify with its various purveyors of contempt for consent, rather than with its primary targets and survivors, is another self-perpetuating trick of the rape culture. But a failure of empathy is not a failure of consideration.

It's not that privileged straight cis men who have never been victimized by sexual violence don't "think about" rape culture. It's that they don't think about it from the perspective of a potential victim.

And I'm really goddamn tired of being obliged to pretend that's the same thing.

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Open Thread

Ursula the Sea Witch from Disney's 'The Little Mermaid.'
Hosted by Divine Ursula.

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Question of the Day

Suggested by Shaker Phoenix_in_ash: "Which historical figure would you like to see a movie made about?"

Shirley Chisholm.

I remember reading awhile ago that Regina King, whom I love, was maybe going to play Chisholm in a movie, but there's nothing on her IMDb page about it. There's a great documentary about Chisholm made a few years ago, but a feature film would be pretty damn cool.

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There Are More Things I Have to Say

Ugh. So many shitty responses to the Louis CK thing. I am working on a follow-up. I will post it tomorrow morning.

I have spent what feels like half the day sitting here just staring at my computer screen, trying to figure out how to write something through a sausage casing of contempt.

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Photo of the Day

image of brilliant auroral colors in the sky over Crater Lake, Oregon
National Geographic: During a particularly intense solar storm—triggered by titanic eruptions on the sun Friday—a kaleidoscope of auroral colors paints the sky over Crater Lake, Oregon, early Sunday. [Photograph by Brad Goldpaint]

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Important George W. Bush News!

1. George W. Bush is still SUCH a jerk!

In case there was any doubt, George W. Bush made it abundantly clear in a recent interview that although it was "awesome" being president for eight years, he doesn't miss life in political office.

"Eight years was awesome and I was famous and I was powerful," Bush told the Hoover Institute's Peter Robinson. "But I have no desire for fame and power anymore. … I crawled out of the swamp and I'm not crawling back in."
He is the worst. He is like a worst thing made out of worsts with lots of little worsty bits all over it.

2. Whooooooooooooooooooooooooops!

an image of George W. Bush's book 'A Charge to Keep' behind my couch

And thus was the unceremonious end to BushQuotes. I was just about to pick it back up where I left off before the July 4 holiday, and then I read the above quote about his eight "awesome" years of being famous and powerful, and once I was done ragebarfing, I realized I would be thinking about that glib fucker treating the presidency like a stint on The Bachelor every single day from now on, and just no. The End.

But if anyone's got a copy of No Apology lying around...

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Quote of the Day

[Content Note: Misogyny.]

"Pretty girls aren't usually funny."—Joseph Gordon-Levitt at Comic-Con, evidently trying to compliment Emily Blunt, who reportedly "bristled" at the comment.

I really just can't get enough of having profound truths about women laid on me by dudes this week.

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Top Five

Here is your topic: Top Five Places You'd Like to Have a Picnic. (Not necessarily places where it's appropriate to have a picnic, lol, although those are fine answers, too.) Go!

Please feel welcome to share stories about why your Top Five picks are what they are, though a straight-up list is fine, too. Please refrain from negatively auditing other people's lists, because judgment discourages participation.

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Random Nerd Nostalgia: The Agony and Ecstasy of Young Love

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[Description: A picture of a comic book cover, titled "THE AGONY AND ECSTASY OF YOUNG LOVE." Above the cover is the title "9 of the Greatest Love Stories Ever!" (ed: EVAH!!!!) "Plus: Many other Special Features! SPECIAL CONTEST PRIZES ANNOUNCED! Paul answers your letters!" (ed: Who is Paul? I do not know!) "100 romantic pages for only 50c!" On the cover of the comic book: " Buy Love--Buy Heartbreak!" accompanied by a picture of a white man and woman embracing, with the woman saying "You must tell her!" A crying white woman observes the couple. Four other stories are featured in the bottom frame.]

Scanned from November 1973 Lois Lane #135.

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Daily Dose of Cute

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Ha-cha-cha-cha!

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