
Olivia the Huntress: Your waggling fingertips do not stand a chance!
This past Sunday night, a massive fire broke out at a convention of trans* women in Delhi. At least fifteen people were killed, and over thirty-six were injured. I haven't seen a lot of details in the press, but NPR reported that an electrical short may have caused the fire.
NPR also quoted a witness who said it took the local fire brigade an hour to arrive.
My heartfelt condolences to everybody affected by this horrible tragedy.
I think it goes without saying (but here I go!) that gender non-conforming people around the world are seriously oppressed. In the case of hijra and other Indian trans* people, I imagine they might have held their gathering in a more opulent, less deadly venue had that been an option.
[Trigger warning for racism; misogyny.]
As you may have heard, over the weekend, First Lady Michelle Obama and Second Lady Jill Biden made an appearance at a NASCAR event at Homestead-Miami Speedway, where they were serving as grand marshals to promote their Joining Forces initiative on behalf of veterans and military families—and during the event, they were booed.
The booing incident itself was bad enough, reflective of an unusual lack of the respect typically afforded the holders of the First- and Second Lady offices, irrespective of their individual politics. But yesterday, the odious Rush Limbaugh took to the airwaves to defend the booing and justify it by explaining that NASCAR fans, i.e. Real AmericansTM, understand that First Lady Michelle Obama is "uppity."
Citing the 2008 incident where then-Sen. Obama was secretly recorded at a fundraiser describing small town Pennsylvanians in hard economic times as getting "bitter" and "cling(ing) to guns or religion or antipathy to people who aren't like them or anti-immigrant sentiment or anti-trade sentiment as a way to explain their frustrations," Limbaugh said "people that go to NASCAR races are the very people her husband called bitter clingers."Emphasis mine.
Limbaugh also said "we don't like being told what to eat; we don't like being told how much to exercise; we don't like being told what we've got to drive; we don't like wasting money; we don't like our economy being bankrupted. We don't like 14% unemployment. The question is, what the hell is there to cheer for when Miss Obama and Ms. Biden show up?"
The host then took it one step further. "I'll tell you something else," he said. "We don't like paying millions of dollars for Mrs. Obama's vacations. The NASCAR crowd doesn't quite understand why when the husband and the wife are going to the same place, the first lady has to take her own Boeing 757 with family and kids and hangers-on four hours earlier than her husband, who will be on his 747. NASCAR people understand that's a little bit of a waste. They understand it's a little bit of uppity-ism."
Yes, yes it is: the annual (American) Thanksgiving post! Going to do something slightly different this year and I hope you all will help out. While I normally post a big recipe post, this year I think it would be great if everyone would be willing share their favorite recipe to make/take for this (or any other) holiday.
If you're stuck looking for something new to make or take this year (or really, for whenever), hopefully you'll find something great in comments here!
That said, here is one of my staples for Thanksgiving:
I've made this for the past several years, after a friend gave it to me, and it's delicious.Ginger Apricot Cranberry Sauce
* 1 tbsp. unsalted butter
* 2 tbsp. finely grated ginger
* 16 oz. fresh cranberries
* 2/3 cup sugar
* 1 cup orange juice
* 1/2 cup apricot preserves
In a saucepan, over medium heat, melt butter. Add ginger and cook, stirring for 2 minutes. Add crans, sugar, oj and preserves. Cook, stirring occasionally, until crans burst and sauce thickens, about 20 mins. Transfer to bowl and serve warm.
You can dust the top of the marshmallows with cinnamon before putting in oven, too.Roasted Yam Casserole
* 3 medium jewel yams
* 1/4 cup orange juice
* 2 TB melted butter
* 1/2 tsp cinnamon
* 2 TB brown sugar
* 2 cups mini marshmallows
Heat oven to 350. Roast yams in oven for one hour. Let cool. Peel off skin.
Mash yams in 8x8 casserole dish or deep-dish pie plate. Put in all other ingredients and mash them all together (or mix, with spoon if you'd rather). Smooth out top. Bake (at 350) for 15 minutes. Take out of oven and put marshmallows on top. Put back in oven until marshmallows are puffed and slightly toasted (only takes a couple minutes). Serve warm!
(TW for sexual violence)
Ha, fooled you, I'm only sorta gonna answer that.
Actually, what I want to do is post the text of an e-mail I just sent to my gaming group, which is largely men of a similar age to me - in their 40s. I enjoy our game sessions, and we've even formed the intent to make a game company together, as we're all designers, and see if we can get some of our better designs published. We even focus on cooperative-style games, or what we call semi-coop (one player v the rest).
I've addressed the e-mail to my best friend in the group, someone I've camped with, watched many movies and TV with, a good friend. I'll let the e-mail outline the problem I've been having (TW for rape mention, trigger process description):
$MY_FRIEND, one thing I've been thinking about, and I think I need to bring up.We'll see whether it has an effect.
One reason I've been reluctant to spend more time in the group environment is that it's really unsafe for me, emotionally. There are a few members - $TALL_GUY, notably, but $DRINK_SPILLY_GUY too, among others - who regularly drop rape jokes or comments into discussions.
These comments put me in a bit of a fugue state sometimes - I'm triggered into remembering the numerous people who have sexually assaulted me (and I'm talking, I can't count 'em on one hand). I disappear inside, I feel terror, I break out in sweat, I can't think straight or make decisions or function well.
I'm writing you privately, because I want to ask your help in bringing it up to the others. I know from experience that bringing this up to a group of men is, itself, a seriously triggering thing for me, but I can't let it go anymore, or I can't be part of the group (or the game collective). I also know from experience that if I don't have at least one male ally willing to speak up on the topic, I'll get shouted down, told to go make a sandwich, to stop harshing their buzz, stop "censoring" them, stop being oversensitive, learn to take a joke. Please don't tell me it wouldn't happen: this is the experience of someone with a long, LONG history of trying to ask this of largely-male gamer groups.
Do you think you could help me raise the issue? Or maybe bring it up when I'm not there, like tonight (I have theatre commitments)?
I'm not asking them to be perfect overnight, but it'd be really hard for me to work long-term with people who feel the need to keep using these kinds of comment. And believe me, it's not just me. I've caught the looks, the glances, the hurt face, on others as well at various events. This is an important issue to me, and to anyone who cares for or is a survivor.
Thanks for considering. By the way, I have noticed that you NEVER do this, and I can't tell you how much I appreciate it.
Cait


Occupy Wall Street (OWS) supporters witness an arrest of one of their fellow at Zuccotti Park decorated with Christmas lights, in New York, November 21, 2011. OWS said 32,500 gathered last week to mark the anti-capitalist movement's two-month anniversary at Foley Square in lower Manhattan before many marched across the Brooklyn Bridge. [Getty Images]Here's some of what I've been reading this morning...
"The family is the bedrock of our society; unless we protect it with the institution of marriage, our country will fall."—Professor of Epic Dipfuckery and GOP presidential candidate Rick Santorum, waxing apocalyptic about same-sex marriage again.
I continue to love (where "love" = loathe with the fiery passion of 10,000 suns) conservatives' insistence on talking about "families" and "same-sex marriage" as if those are mutually exclusive concept.
Whoooooooooooooooops you are gross and stupid and wrong.
Barrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrf: Gingrich at top of pack for first time in CNN polling.
Only the Republican Party could consider nominating a guy who said, during one of the most catastrophic periods of unemployment in the nation's history, "I'm tired of finding new ways to help people who aren't working; I want to find ways to help people who are working."
Which is still one of the least objectionable things Newt Gingrich has ever said or done.
Yiiiiiiiiiikes, GOP. Yikes.
Earlier today, Egypt's cabinet resigned en masse amidst continued clashes in Tahrir Square between protesters and police. As many as two dozen people have been killed by the Egyptian army, and many more have reportedly been injured by rubber bullets and the excessive use of teargas.
Below, links to some of what I've been reading this afternoon. Please use comments for discussion and sharing of additional news items.
The Guardian—Tahrir Square Violence Enters a Third Day: In Pictures.
New York Times—Egypt's Civilian Government Submits Offer to Resign.
Agence France-Presse—Egypt's Government Abruptly Resigns as Deadly Clashes Rock Tahrir Square.
CNN—Egypt's Cabinet Resigns Amid Protests, Violence.
[Trigger warning for rape culture; Polanski stuff.]
This is the worst thing I have seen all day. It's a picture of actress Kate Winslet hugging and kissing director Roman Polanski at the premiere of their new movie, God of Carnage, about which I wrote previously here.
It's not fair to hold women to a higher standard of principled intolerance of rape culture, and I really try not to do that, but I'd be lying if I said I didn't find it less comprehensible to me when women literally embrace an admitted rapist of other women.
And Winslet is, in truth, a particular disappointment to me because she has, in the past, been so vocal about issues surrounding body image, weight, and the industry tricks used to synthetically perfectify famous women. It's tough to see a woman who is so clever and outspoken on the artifice of beauty designed to make people feel awful about their bodies be so profoundly indifferent to a rape culture designed to facilitate the abuse of those same bodies.
That is my thoughtful, measured, intellectual response to looking at that picture. And this is my unthoughtful, visceral, lip-curling response to looking at that picture: You're gross, Kate Winslet. Yuck.
This has been the most beautiful fall I can remember. Even the barren trees look particularly stunning against the silver skies this year. Weather to make one want to be outside. Lovely.

The defeat in Mississippi hasn't deterred the PersonhoodUSA people. As I mentioned before, they have plans for every state and they're working to get on ballots across the country:
Personhood USA, the Colorado-based anti-abortion group that led the Mississippi initiative, is working to get the measure on 2012 ballots in California, Florida, Montana, Nevada, Ohio and Oregon, among other states. Similar voter initiatives in Colorado failed in 2008 and 2010.However, the "personhood" issue isn't just coming that way. It's also being considered by legislators.
Alabama State Sen. Phil Williams, a Republican, is pushing legislation for a similar constitutional amendment. In June, Williams pre-filed a personhood bill to be considered during the 2012 session, according to the Senate's website. The bill seeks to define persons "to include all humans from moment of fertilization and implantation into the womb." Earlier versions of the Alabama bill failed to advance.And:
ATLANTA — Two Georgia lawmakers are considering Legislation similar to the "personhood" referendum rejected by voters in Mississippi last week.There was "personhood" legislation intro'd into the US House in January, HR 374 "Life At Conception Act", but it is stalled in committee.
Sen. Barry Loudermilk, R-Cassville, and Rep. Rick Crawford, D-Cedartown, have both supported similar Legislation previously declaring that life begins at fertilization and seeks to ban abortion. Loudermilk says he is looking at re-introducing the bill with modified language omitting references to fertilization and cloning — words that proved problematic in the failed Mississippi ballot issue.
The group will hold a news conference today on the west steps of the state Capitol to unveil the renewed effort. [...]They've also re-written their legislation:
Organizers said Saturday they are banking on broad grassroots support, with volunteers circulating petitions at grocery stores, and a new game plan.
The new version of the measure "will protect every child, no matter their size, level of development, gender, age or race," said Jennifer Mason, spokeswoman for Personhood USA.Extra information, eh? I guess we shall see later today what the latest effort in extreme bullshittery looks like.
New language "will explain again that every human being is a person from their earliest moments," Mason said. "And it will include some extra information that hopefully will prohibit lies of our opponents. . . . It will be a departure from what we've done before."
This blogaround brought to you by melons.
Recommended Reading:
Fannie: [TW for sexual violence] Missing Gender Narratives Regarding Penn State
Mannion: This Is the Best of All Possible Worlds—Keep That in Mind While You're Enjoying Your Cat Food Supper
Echidne: [TW for misogyny; gender essentialism] Woman the Shopper. Man the Scientist. A Funny Sci-Fi Story.
Travis: Latinos, African Americans Twice as Likely as Whites to Have Been Affected by the Housing Crisis
Vanessa: [TW for rape culture] The New York Times on the Reporting of Rape
Pam: [TW for homophobia] Eye-Opening Profile of the Granddaughter of Anti-Gay Wesboro Baptist Church's Fred Phelps
Alan: National Geographic Photo Contest 2011
Mustang Bobby: Quote of the Day
TDW: Kickass Cover of the Day
Leave your links and recommendations in comments...
The Shelter Pet Project
Beagle, sitting in the living room of a home, 'speaking' in male voiceover as white woman walks around in background collecting scattered dog toys and putting them in basket: So, I'm kinda new here, but I've noticed a trend. My human does this funny thing where she goes around and gets all my toys, and then she hides them in that basket by the door. Y'know, but it's always the same basket, and it's always in the same place! [Chuckles.] And then she acts so surprised when I find them, but, y'know, she's putting them in the same basket! Again! It's like, hello! That's where you put it last time! You are the WORST at hide and go seek!The Humane Society of the United States, in conjunction with Maddie's Fund and the Ad Council, has launched a public service campaign called The Shelter Pet Project to encourage people to adopt a shelter pet (or a pet at a rescue) instead of buying one. Since the project launched in 2009, the percentage of pets in US homes that were adopted from animal shelters and rescue groups has increased from 27% to 29%, and euthanasia has decreased by 10% from 3 million to 2.7 million.
Text Onscreen: A Person Is the Best Thing to Happen to a Shelter Pet. Be That Person. Adopt. theshelterpetproject.org
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