Daily Kitteh: Kitteh Needs A Home! PDX & PDX-close Shakers!

Meet Miss Cleo:


Cleo adopted a friend of ours, Ravi, one cold day this past December when she appeared in his driveway and moved herself in. Unfortunately, Ravi is unable to keep her because, as it turns out, he's very allergic to her (and unfortunately, we cannot take her or I would in a heartbeat!). Cleo needs a new home soon and if anyone local/close to PDX is able to help, that would be wonderful. More info on Cleo:
Her name is Cleo, short for Cleopatra, but she also goes by "Paf" (rhymes with "off"). She's a 7 pound Cornish Rex, an uncommon breed of cat with no outer coat - all she has is the extremely soft undercoat, or "down" coat. She's missing over half her teeth, including her canines, and she gets cold easily (due to the single coat and a high metabolism), so she's definitely an indoor cat. According to the vet, she's probably about 8 or 9 years old.

She has a very strong personality - she's smart, playful, and gets along extremely well with dogs. She's been checked out thoroughly at the vet - blood panel done, teeth cleaned, all vaccinations up-to-date - and she's been given a clean bill of health. She also has a microchip implanted now. She eats her own (cat) food well, but doesn't try to steal your food.

Whoever adopts her will get:
* medical records
* litter box
* a cat
* her electric blanket
* her cardboard cat carrier (for trips to the vet, etc)

Wouldn't I look wonderful on your couch?

If you are interested and want more information, please contact Ravi at: ravi (at) gadad.net

Thank you, Shakers!!

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Number of the Day

19. The paltry number of representatives in the entire House who had the brains to vote against "the creation of a panel to plan a celebration of the centennial of Ronald Reagan's birth in February of 2011."

Yea votes totaled 371 for the creation of the panel, which itself will cost taxpayers an estimated $1 million in travel expenses and administrative costs, just to figure how much more money to spend celebrating Reagan's birthday next year.

Somebody send Congress a memo that there's a recession on.

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LaVena

Hey, Shakers. I wrote a post about LaVena at my place yesterday that I wanted to share here. A couple of things: firstly, I wanted to announce that the LA Times has published a story on LaVena and her family that serves as a clear-eyed yet sensitive accounting of where things stand now with the Johnson family and their efforts. I also blogged about it at the LaVena website.

The LAT story - a well-written one, I thought - is understandably painful. I said in comments at my blog that to the extent that the article portrays their lives as completely joyless, it’s in error - but then, this pain is the specific topic of the story, and it’s certainly real.

Secondly, I wanted to let folks know that the delivery of my petition to select members of the two Armed Services Committees - scheduled for last year, but delayed a number of times by events and ultimately deferred - is now close at hand. I’ll post word of the delivery here, and certainly at the LaVena site.

As my participation in the LaVena effort is naturally tied to the petition, the conclusion and delivery of the petition will mean an end to my small role in the story. The disposition of the LaVena website is still at issue; it’s my hope to hand over the reins to someone more active in the effort. I’ll post word on developments as they unfold. Thanks much.

(Rather broadly cross-posted.)

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Random YouTubery: Sugar Water

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News from Shakes Manor

When I need or want to buy something, I will research the item, evaluate and compare brands and retailers, read professional and user reviews, search for second-hand buying options, look for the lowest price of the most suitable option, and then wait as long as possible to make the purchase, trying to find better deals while thinking long and hard about whether I really need or want the item. By the end of this procurement process, it frequently turns out I neither need nor want the item, and whatever desire I had for it was satiated merely by thinking about it for a few days.

When Iain needs or wants to buy something— No, let me rephrase that. Iain never wants anything; he always needs everything. And he needs it right now!!!1! He finds it, stumbles across a fancier version and decides he can't settle for anything less, concludes that the most expensive option is obviously the best option ('cuz why else would they be charging so much if they weren't the best? duh!), and compulsively buys it 10 minutes before the first doubts about the wisdom of the purchase begin to enter his consciousness.

This is why we share an eBay account and I manage it.

It's not like Iain couldn't set up his own account, but he knows himself. So he just horns in on mine instead, and puts on the watch list all the stuff he needs!!!1!, most of which is stupid bullshit that he wants me to talk him out of wanting, and some of which are practical items on which I eventually find better deals, because I will spend enormous amounts of time to save $5.

And sometimes it's just stuff to make me laugh.


[Phone rings.]

Liss: Hello?

Iain: Hi, tschoobs.

Liss: Hi, babesy. How's your day going?

Iain: I canny complain. Any excitement yoor way?

Liss: Nope. I see you've got your eye on a suspender posing strap with ring.

Iain: [laughs maniacally]

Liss: [laughs maniacally]


Iain: That fing is awesoome!

Liss: I'm getting you all twelve that are available.

Iain: Superb.

Liss: You're gonna look SEXY HOT!

Iain: Ye ken I am, nushtels!

[More maniacal laughter.]

I love that guy.

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Not Yet Rain



From Not Yet Rain:
In 2006, Ethiopia enacted one of Africa's most progressive abortion laws. While the law was a promising change, women continue to face challenges and barriers to safe care. In Not Yet Rain, Ethiopian women share their experiences about how abortion has touched their lives. Some of the stories are heartbreaking, others are hopeful, but all illustrate the importance of ensuring that women have access to the care they need to protect their health and well-being.
Check out Not Yet Rain's site for more information on the project and how to order the DVD.

(h/t Feministe)

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Impossibly Beautiful

Drew Barrymore, on the cover of the April 2009 issue of W magazine, and in real life last fall, in case you have, much like the editors of W, forgotten what the lovely Ms. Barrymore actually looks like:


The delicate retouching on Barrymore's features squicks me out in the same way as the "improved" Kelly Clarkson image here: It is the subtlety of the "perfecting" that underlines how insidious this stuff is while also so brazenly reaffirming that even when you're already beautiful, you're never beautiful enough.

[Impossibly Beautiful: Parts One, Two, Three, Four, Five, Six, Seven, Eight, Nine, Ten, Eleven, Twelve, Thirteen, Fourteen, Fifteen, Sixteen, Seventeen, Eighteen, Nineteen, Twenty, Twenty-One, Twenty-Two, Twenty-Three, Twenty-Four, Twenty-Five, Twenty-Six, Twenty-Seven, Twenty-Eight.]

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One Big Bag of STFU for Mr. Trump, Please

OMFG:

Talking with "Inside Edition's" Deborah Norville, Trump speaks out about R&B star Chris Brown's alleged assault of his girlfriend Rihanna. And he has some firm words of advice for her.

…"She better get the hell out. If she goes back, she's a loser, and she doesn't deserve to have any future success."
It's not that I'm surprised Donald Trump would actually say something that fucking contemptible; it's that I can't believe I have to live on a planet where anyone is asked to publicly comment on the decisions of an assault victim, no less that Donald Trump's opinion is considered valuable on this subject, especially when the "words of advice" he offers are warning the victim she's a potential loser who deserves naught but failure.

I've never seen anything close to proof of the existence of any god in this world, but the fact that Donald Trump is a massive success who enjoys virtually unlimited power, wealth, and health is as close as I can imagine to irrefutable evidence of the contrary.

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More SCOTUS Fuckery

I'm seriously so tired of the Supreme Court and their goddamned 5-4 rulings that leave nationally important decisions in the hands of one swing-voting justice:

The Supreme Court narrowed the reach of the Voting Rights Act, ruling that a measure aimed at helping minorities elect their preferred candidates only applies in electoral districts where minorities number more than 50% of the voting-age population.

…The 5-4 ruling rejected arguments that the voting act could require legislative mapmakers to draw so-called crossover districts -- those with a substantial but less than 50% nonwhite population. In a crossover district, the idea is that minority voters would create alliances with white voters to elect their chosen candidates.

…The court's five-justice right wing split over its reasoning. While Justice Kennedy's plurality preserved some room for minorities to claim their votes had been diluted, in other circumstances the two most conservative justices, Antonin Scalia and Clarence Thomas, contended that such suits should always be barred.

…Justice David Souter, writing for the four liberal dissenters, argued that the ruling did the opposite. A crossover district was better than a "majority-minority district" -- where a minority group holds more than 50% -- "precisely because it requires polarized factions to break out of the mold and form the coalitions that discourage racial divisions," he wrote. He was joined by Justices John Paul Stevens, Ruth Bader Ginsburg and Stephen Breyer.
The hat tip goes to Shaker Siobhan, who notes that the best line in the article is when Loyola Law School election-law specialist Richard Hasen dryly notes: "There might be a slight Republican benefit to this decision."

Ya think?

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Quote of the Day

"I haven't the foggiest idea what these people are talking about."—My pal Steve Benen, on the inexplicable shock being expressed by conservative culture warriors that Democratic President Barack Obama is pursuing a Democratic agenda.

I haven't either, Steve. Let's not try too hard to figure it out, lest our heads explode in twin clouds of mystification.

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L&O:SVU

In comments of the Trigger By Void thread, Shaker Kevin Wolf asked about Law & Order: Special Victims Unit, which is the series in the Law & Order franchise that deals with, according to its opening narration, "sexually based offenses."

I've been thinking about my Law & Order addiction, which includes L&O Special Victims Unit, a program I am sure you do not watch as virtually every scene is just about every episode would contain a trigger. … Unfortunately, this means that as I think about the program, the very people most likely to have something really important to say do not watch it.
(That's only part of his comment; the rest you can find here.)

Well, I have watched L&O:SUV, although I rarely watch it anymore, and it's not because it triggers me, but because it infuriates me. Let me stipulate right up front that I have seen the occasional episode that I thought dealt well with whatever issue it was addressing, so what I'm saying from here on out isn't blanket condemnation, and no one needs to say, "But what about this episode?" and "But what about that episode?" I acknowledge there are some decent episodes.

That said, there are a lot of indecent episodes, in every sense of the word.

The show's biggest problem is that it uses the same formula as the original L&O, which is to regularly take stories "ripped from the headlines" and then present them with a Crazy Twist!!1! to undermine your expectations. (Dunh-dunh!) Except, when you're dealing with a subject like sexual assault, that big subversive twist tends to be making a woman the rapist! Or the rape accuser a liar! Which is not to say that women never sexually assault, or false rape accusations are never made, but both of those things happen in reality at a rate of <1%. I can guarantee you both of those things have happened at a rate higher than 1% in L&O:SVU.

Probably, someone, somewhere, with a lot of time and energy, has compared the sexual assault victims of L&O:SVU to the stats on real-life victims, and the two don't look anything alike. (Ditto sexual assaulters.)

Beyond that, the show just reinforces so many flatly untrue cultural narratives about sexual assault. If all you knew about sexual assault was from L&O:SVU, you'd think stranger rape was more pervasive than rape by an intimate (wrong), you'd think that women were frequently sexual predators (wrong), you'd think that women routinely make up rape accusations (wrong), you'd think that most rape victims look like "rape victims," i.e. black eye, finger marks on wrists, etc. (wrong), you'd think that physical evidence was available in a plurality of rape cases (wrong), you'd think that most sexual assaulters were caught and convicted (wrong), and you'd think that cops mostly side with victims (wrongity-wrong-wrong).

And, by nature of the fact that it's a TV show, and TV shows want pretty people for their audience to gaze at, the victims of sexual assault featured on the show are almost always young and attractive. It's rare that you get an episode where the victim is an old lady, or a fat person, or someone who would generally be considered Less Than Perfect. What's seriously creepy is that even all the child victims are beautiful, flawless children—it's not like there's ever a fat, pimpled, buck-toothed tween who's victimized. All of which ultimately serves to reinforce the meme that rape is a compliment.

The problem with L&O:SVU is ultimately this: If it reflected the reality of sexual assault, it would be a "boring" show. Woman gets raped; it's her boyfriend. Woman gets raped; it's her male lab partner. Girl gets raped; it's her stepdad. Woman gets raped; it's her male date. Girl gets raped; it's her male teacher. Girl gets raped; it's her dad. Woman gets raped; it's her male boss. Woman gets raped; it's a guy she met at a bar. Woman gets raped; it's her male coworker. Boy gets raped; it's his male scout leader. Girl gets raped; it's her male soccer coach. Woman gets raped; it's her ex-boyfriend…

We'd have to go on a long way like that before we got to a female assaulter or a false accusation. It would even be awhile before we got to a stranger rape on the street (or in Central Park, ahem); women are three times more likely to be raped by someone they know than a stranger, and nine times more likely to be raped in their home, the home of someone they know, or anywhere else than being raped on the street.

Further, if L&O:SVU reflected the reality of sexual assault across the nation, much of the drama would be in the sexual assault victims trying to get the cops to believe them and investigate their assault. But it's a show about hero cops, whose infrequent disbelief of their victims either turns out to be well-founded, or evokes in them great shame after they've endeavored to do their job despite their doubts and prove themselves wrong. In real life, cops who don't believe you don't investigate.

Not like Benson and Stabler do, anyway.

Especially not if you have the temerity of being an imperfect rape victim, like having been voluntarily intoxicated at the time, being a sex worker, lacking physical evidence, or appearing more angry and pragmatic or less upset and humiliated than the officer who takes your statement expects a "real" rape victim to be.

Certainly, L&O:SVU has had good intentions toward, and possibly had some success with, de-stigmatizing sexual assault. The show generally does not treat surviving sexual assault as something of which to be ashamed, and, for the most part, doesn't engage in explicit victim-blaming (although there are certainly plenty of episodes rife with the thinly veiled suggestion if only she hadn't been engaged in this illicit activity…). And I imagine there are some survivors of sexual assault who find catharsis in the fantasy of the show, who revel in the simple satisfaction of its frequent justice.

But I'm not certain that whatever positives there are to the show, balanced against the show's faults, calculate to a net positive. Is there enough subversion of the culturally compulsory shamefulness of sexual assault to justify buttressing all the erroneous narratives about rape? I don't know. I suspect not.

YMMV.

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Herding Cats

The title of this WaPo piece is "Democrats Stung by Dissenters"—

Democratic leaders in Congress did not expect much Republican support as they pressed President Obama's ambitious legislative agenda. But the pushback they are receiving from some of their own has come as an unwelcome surprise.

As the Senate inches closer to approving a $410 billion spending bill, the internal revolt has served as a warning to party leaders pursuing Obama's far-reaching plans for health-care, energy and education reform.
—but the more one reads, the less it sounds like "dissenters" is the appropriate phrase and the more it sounds like "self-interested d-bags" is:
Already, a pair of provisions in Obama's budget have attracted determined, if limited, Democratic opposition. One proposal would overhaul the federal student loan program to guarantee yearly increases in the Pell Grant program. That idea enjoys broad Democratic support. But to pay for the Pell Grant expansion, Obama would end federal support for private lending. And one of the major corporate providers of student loans is NelNet, a company based in Lincoln, Neb., the home state of Sen. Ben Nelson, a moderate Democrat who balked at the stimulus package and teamed up with three moderate Republicans to cut $100 billion from the final bill. Cutting off support for NelNet would cost Nebraska about 1,000 jobs, according to Nelson's office.
So his objection to the entire stimulus bill has been based on protecting 1,000 jobs in his state. Awesome.

Now, I'm not saying those 1,000 jobs aren't important; of course they are. But protecting those specific 1,000 jobs can't be more important in the long run than a package that stands to generate hundreds of thousands of jobs across the country, because if the entire economy collapses, it's going to take those 1,000 jobs with it in the end, anyway.

Which I'm certain Nelson knows; he's not an idiot. It's just that the one job he's really interested in protecting is his own.

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Two-Minute Nostalgia Sublime

Central Park West

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Daily Kitteh



Matilda, wanting nothing so desperately as for me to
put down the camera and scratch her adorable wee head.

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Sooo...

Dora the Explorer, the little girl with the outdoor adventures with her backpack and monkey pal Boots, is growing up and moving to "the city". Yeah, ok, you're thinking so what? Well, this is actually sparking some controversy because in their effort to build chatter and excitement about this, Mattel and Nickelodeon have only released a silhouette of what the new Dora looks like:


The new Dora image has sparked some anger and discussion that this is some kind of "sexy Dora". On that point, I'm reserving judgment. After staring an inordinate amount of time at this silhouette, I can't say that that's what going on. She could easily be wearing leggins under her (apparent) skirt--which is the popular style at the moment with younger girls and is not a "short skirt sexy" look (like Bratz). With ballet flats (hey, I said I stared at it a long time!). She may actually just look like a normal--re: non-sexy--tween/teen (as they do get taller, longer legs/arms). I think Mattel & Nick have made an error in the using a silhouette though, as "silhouettes" tend to go for the sexy & mysterious. So, as I said, I'm reserving judgment on a "completely abhorrent sexy Bratz-like look" aspect, since there's no way to tell yet.

There are some valid critiques for this new venture, though. Dora will still be solving mysteries (taking place mostly in her middle school, according to the press release) and a fan can follow along with other mysteries in a new online world (with a plug-and-play doll that uploads new mysteries and new 'online Dora world info' even when off the computer and playing with the doll). Which, you know, isn't so bad. It'd actually be pretty darn cool to have a whole online mystery sort of world for tweens, particularly aimed at tween girls. But, of course, that's not wholly the case:
The cornerstone of the entire line is the Dora Links fashion doll. By plugging the doll into the computer, girls can access Dora’s brand-new interactive online world. This exciting innovation in computer-connected play offers girls a unique interactive experience: as girls are playing online they can customize their doll and watch as she magically transforms right before their eyes. For example, by changing Dora’s hair length, jewelry, and eye color on screen, the Dora doll magically changes as well.
Because solving mysteries just isn't enough, right? And because you can imagine a whole new line of Dora lip gloss to sell, right? Look, I'm not going to say that some tweens don't like this sort of thing. Many do. But you know what? Most of the same tweens plus others also like solving mysteries (like their focus group said!). Girls like adventure. They like figuring stuff out. Girls don't need more dress-up, "fashionista" stuff. They do need more of the mystery-solvin', adventure-havin' fun (you know, like the "baby show Dora") because there is a distinct lack of that for tweens.

Frankly, the whole thing is a craven money-grabbing attempt by Mattel and Nick who are trying to siphon off customers from the American Girl market (not so much the Bratz line, IMO). Which, of course, is what they're in the business to do. I don't believe one instant they care one whit about "girls [continuing] to learn and interact with their Latina heroine, Dora, as they grow up together" (per press release). If they did, they'd try for less fashion-plated fluff that young girls just don't need any more of pushed at them so they can make cheap accessories to sell and they'd concentrate more on empowerment with mystery-solvin' brain-power. Which, btw, they could also sell.

No, there's no word on if Diego, Dora's boy cousin counter-part with his own show, has grown-up. I suspect that a tween Diego just doesn't have enough accessory-sellin' appeal.

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Trigger By Void

Since we've been talking about triggers and sexual assault in films recently, I wanted to make a note of something that I've never actually seen discussed in conversations about triggering content.

I've written previously about the problem of token girls in the sorts of books and films I loved as a kid (Star Wars's Princess Leia, LotR's Eowyn, Dragonslayer's Valerian)—and the inherent negative messaging that adventurous and strong girls are exceptional, that "girliness" is intrinsically bad, that more than one woman in any given situation is a combustible combination.

But there's another angle to female tokenism that I find really troubling: It frequently triggers thoughts of rape—not because any of the male characters are menacing, but because none of them are.

Although I love Lost with the fiery passion of ten thousand suns, that not a single one of the female characters on the Island has ever, in all her interactions with people who all started out as total strangers, faced even the faintest threat of sexual assault is an absurd omission. The only reference to sexual assault that I even recall on the show is when one female character refers as the "rape caves" to an area where another female character is abducted (though she is not sexually assaulted). The female characters routinely find themselves isolated with unknown men, many of whom are violent and unethical, but never is there a suggestion that the women would be in any particular physical danger separate from their male allies.

Lost is a perfect example of a show that doesn't want to be "one of those kinds of shows," so it just ignores the reality altogether.

And it's a tricky sort of conundrum—it's not like I want my favorite show to be triggering, but, on the other hand, the premise lends itself so strongly to a situation which, in real life, would be a distinct sexual assault risk for women, that ignoring the subject for five years speaks as loudly as dealing with it head-on.

It's a weird phenomenon, the trigger by void. I'm certainly not the only woman who is prompted to thoughts of sexual assault by the absence of its threat in situations where it would exist in reality; I've been watching films/shows with female friends in which we openly laughed at the total lack of menace experienced by a token girl. ("Wouldn't that be nice?!")

In one sense, it's just another one of a million ways in which women's experiences don't comprehensively manifest onscreen; in another sense, the void is so deeply dishonest that it becomes itself a nifty little bit of rape apology, by suggesting rape isn't nearly as ubiquitous as those darn feminists would have us believe.

As pernicious as are the narratives that the token girl is exceptional, superior to girls who spend their time with other girls, and insulated from the nefarious machinations of other girls, the most dangerous narrative of all may be that the token girl is safe.

It wouldn't be so terrible to contemplate if I hadn't read so goddamned many survivor's stories that start out with a sentence like, "I was the only girl in a group of friends…"

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Caption this Photo



Thus quoth the Door Cat: "Nevermerow!"

(via CuteOverload)


I know it's been a while but I'm home rather sick today, so I thought it was time for some cuteness to help the day along.

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Quote of the Day

"We will lose on legislation. But we will win the message war every day, and every week, until November 2010. Our goal is to bring down approval numbers for [Speaker Nancy] Pelosi and for House Democrats. That will take repetition. This is a marathon, not a sprint."Republican Representative Patrick McHenry, offering what Greg Sargent rightly calls "an unusually blunt description of the Republican strategy right now."

In case you were under the mistaken assumption that the GOP is interested in anything other than being obstructionist wankers, or that they might be putting forth an alternative agenda with new and innovative ideas to help America, they are officially not.

Have a nice day.

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Number of the Day

68. The percentage of Republican voters who say their party has no clear leader.

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Obama Lifts Restrictions on Stem Cell Research

Woot!

Pledging that his administration will "make scientific decisions based on facts, not ideology," President Obama on Monday lifted the Bush administration’s strict limits on human embryonic stem cell research.

...Mr. Obama paired his executive order with another document, a presidential memorandum directing the head of the White House Office of Science and Technology Policy to "develop a strategy for restoring scientific integrity to government decision-making."
That sound you heard was 30 million wingnut heads exploding.

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