1. If you do not actually give a flying fuck about my opinion about what my life should look like, my right to self-governance over that life, and my choices to make sure my life is what I want it to be as much as that is within my control, then you are not, in fact, pro-life.
2. Life is valuable because it has meaning to the people living it. If you take that away from me by trying to impose your idea of what my life should be in place of my own, you are not, in fact, pro-life.